My nephew got busted coppin' his first feel.

[bertha katzenengel]

His girlfriend moved to MI in July. They'd been chaste until she left. He's visiting her in MI now. They were in the basement - where they'd spent most of their time during his visit, playing Wii, etc. They're smart kids, and they were trusted. Not anymore. Now they're not allowed to be alone together anymore.

Poor kids. They were mortified. :(

Now I don't believe there's anything wrong with petting. My kid's smart; he's got condoms. But I don't want him to go all the way. I am scared to death of them getting pregnant. So part of me glad they got busted.

And part of me is, frankly . . .

:rofl:

[JVS]

1. PWND!

[bertha katzenengel]

5. uh, yep!

:hi:

[Prisoner_Number_Six]

2. Look at it this way- it's a confirmation he's "normal".

..by at least one commonly held standard, anyway.... :toast:

[bertha katzenengel]

6. yeah

I thought he was going to be scared and oppressed when this time came. Phew!

[knitter4democracy]

3. We've all been there. Right of passage, as it were.

*giggle* Poor things. It's so embarrassing to get caught.

[bertha katzenengel]

8. heh-heh

It might teach them to do it right: buy a car and climb into the back seat.

[knitter4democracy]

13. Isn't that why teenaged boys are so eager to get cars?

;)

[Oeditpus Rex]

15. Yup — but these days

there just ain't a whole lotta nookie room.



http://images.motortrend.com/features/auto_news/2006/112_news060628_01z+daimler_chrysler_smart_car+passenger_side_view.jpg



Now, my first car... :evilgrin:

[bertha katzenengel]

16. Show-off.

You might've gotten ME to put out, if you'd shown me that thing. :evilgrin:

[Oeditpus Rex]

17. Boy, if you knew how many times I've heard that

Oh — you meant the car, huh?

:blush:

[bertha katzenengel]

21. Bah.

:7 :bounce:

[CreekDog]

34. She was hotter than a two dollar pistol...

:rofl:

[DarkTirade]

4. All that effort... and he got CAUGHT?

Man... kids these days.

Back in my day, if I was gonna cop a feel I did what I had to to make sure I didn't get caught. :P

My cousin just got caught throwing a wild party when my aunt and uncle were out of town... I'm gonna be razzing him about that for a while. :P

[bertha katzenengel]

10. I thought that only happened in movies.

:7

[flvegan]

7. It's better to get busted coppin' then never to have copped at all.

[bertha katzenengel]

11. heh

I'll tell him that.

:hi: :hi: :hi: :hi:

[auntAgonist]

9. see now, I'm in MI and I could have

supervised!


poor kids.

:rofl:

I'm sure they were mortified.

Happy New Year!
:loveya: :hug: :hi:
aA

[bertha katzenengel]

12. feliz compleanos nuevos????

happy new year

someone's gonna translate that for me and i'm gonna feel like an idiot.

:hug:

[Sultana]

18. hehe

it's ¡Feliz Año Nuevo!.

That one minus the misspelling, translates to "Happy new birthday":silly:

[bertha katzenengel]

23. well, happy new birthday to you, too!

:confused:

I studied French in high school. In Southern CA. How practical.

[UndertheOcean]

14. ah, teenage love

memories

[Sultana]

19. Man! I would die if I was ever caught in a compromising position

w/ my SO. :blush:

[bertha katzenengel]

20. Hi, SillyFlower

Welcome to DU :hi:

[Sultana]

25. Thank you, Bertha nt

[SallyMander]

22. Welcome to DU!

I like your screen name. :)

:hi:

[bertha katzenengel]

24. Sally, do you know Gerry?

;) (i know, so original)

[SallyMander]

26. He's my dad!

:rofl:


Actually i went to high school on Gerry's Landing Rd, named after the (in)famous Elbridge Gerry. :)

Most people don't know his name was actually pronounced with a hard G!


Happy New Year bertha! :hug:

[bertha katzenengel]

28. I didn't know that, either...

LOL :hi:

Happy new year :7

[Sultana]

27. Thank you, Sally nt

[Richard Steele]

29. There are worse things. The first time I ever "got busted", I was ALONE.

:wow::blush::wow:

[bertha katzenengel]

30. oh, no

:blush:

[Richard Steele]

36. Well, everything has an upside in the long run.

I hardly ever forget to LOCK a door anymore!

On the other hand, my sister hasn't been able to
open a door without KNOCKING on it since July of 1985. :shrug:

[lost-in-nj]

31. I'm 40 something years old

and I still, to this day
remember the first time I got caught!!!!


:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

lost

[GoddessOfGuinness]

32. How old?

It's tough when your hormones are screaming at you to go to it like bunnies when you aren't ready to be a parent. Poor kids...

[Sanity Claws]

33. Poor lad and lassie

How old are they? Next time they'll clean out their ears before they fool around. Got to make sure you can hear the door opening or steps coming down the hall.

[tigereye]

35. I won't tell you the stuff I used to do when my parents were in the other

room. :yoiks:


They blithely ignored pretty much everything that went on - on through my siblings. We were all wise enough not to invite pregnancy, however. But those were different times.


For a different perspective on teen issues, you might enjoy the movie Juno. Great funny and thoughtful film.


Happy New Year to you and the Mrs., Bertha.

[bertha katzenengel]

40. happy new year, tigereye

Juno. I've heard nothing but good about it. I'll tell my sister, too.

:hi:

[tigereye]

45. Happy New Year Bertha!

:hi:

[Pierre.Suave]

37. I thought that happened to everyone

at least once in their younger years...

Closest I got to ever getting severely busted was the day I was jumping out her parents bedroom window... as they were driving up the driveway on the other side of the house.

yes, I was still not fully clothed while doing it too...

:P

[bigwillq]

38. How old are they?

[bertha katzenengel]

39. He's 16, she's 15

Sigh. Young love. Scares me to freakin' death.

Hi, Will :hi:

[bigwillq]

41. Yeah it can be scary

but I think it's ignorant to think they will never, ever be in the same room alone again.

If what you say is true--that they are smart kids---then they should be fine. But if they're going to "do it" they're going to do it no matter how many people try and stop them.

Good luck to them--and to you and your family! :) :hi:

[WritingIsMyReligion]

42. My parents might not be happy, but I don't think they'd ban together-time.

I'd get one hell of a sex talk, however, not that I plan on going that far for ages yet. Those parents sound a li'l bit....Crazy.

:shrug:

[bertha katzenengel]

47. i feel better that they're being chaperoned

only because i know they're young. they're talking about marriage and babies. they're way too young for that, but of course they know everything. don't all kids?

if it were my sister who made the discovery, she'd've handled it differently -- but wouldn't have said "you're happy? go for it." but it was the girl's father.

[texas1928]

43. The worst that ever happened to me...

I got home from a date and I was sitting on the couch, watching a movie with my dad. He kept looking at me and grinning, and then would ask "Have fun tonight?" I was sitting there wondering what in the hell he was grinning at. I finally got up and went to the bathroom, and my shirt(I was wearing a white oxford shirt) was covered in makeup around the shoulders and collar. And I had lipstick on my neck and cheek. Man was I embarrassed. I was wondering why he kept asking me that.

[Sanity Claws]

48. HaHa

I can just see that.

[otherlander]

44. Why are they trying to stop them?

It's a dumb idea, like abstinence-only education: It never actually works. They're just doing what people will do, and really the only thing the parents can do is try to teach them to be safe about it. Treating sex like it's something "dirty" is a big part of the reason that our society has such backwards ideas about sexuality.

[bertha katzenengel]

46. Why are you judging?

What did you want the guy (the girl's father) to do: walk into the room, see my nephew's hand on his daughter's breast, and say "hey, boy, the real action's down below!" and walk back out? Or toss him a pack of condoms?

By the way. The boy knows from safe sex. My sister isn't a blistering idiot. He also knows "no means no," and he respects women.

But hey. To each his own. Or - not. Whatever.