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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-17-07 09:42 PM Original message |
My sister has managed to totally freak me out this time. |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-17-07 09:49 PM Response to Original message |
1. I think I responded to one of your posts about her |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-18-07 11:48 AM Response to Reply #1 |
27. I remember your post and PM - thank you for responding again. |
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poisonivy (82 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-17-07 09:52 PM Response to Original message |
2. Sorry to hear about your troubles |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-18-07 11:48 AM Response to Reply #2 |
28. I think that you are probably right about this. |
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datasuspect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-17-07 10:01 PM Response to Original message |
3. dunno, some people are cut out for work, but not cut out for jobs |
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madeline_con (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-17-07 10:27 PM Response to Reply #3 |
10. She's leeching off those around her. |
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datasuspect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-17-07 10:34 PM Response to Reply #10 |
11. i can see that part |
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madeline_con (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-17-07 10:40 PM Response to Reply #11 |
12. Point taken. Sure... |
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datasuspect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-17-07 10:41 PM Response to Reply #12 |
13. i never had any backup |
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madeline_con (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-17-07 10:53 PM Response to Reply #13 |
16. Yep, you could do a sight more f-ing up. n/t |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-18-07 11:54 AM Response to Reply #3 |
29. I've never thought less of her for being a free spirit - I'm a bit of one myself. |
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yellowcanine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-17-07 10:04 PM Response to Original message |
4. She sounds seriously depressed and/or mentally ill. Medication would probably help. |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-18-07 11:58 AM Response to Reply #4 |
30. It did help, during the year when she was in therapy. |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-17-07 10:08 PM Response to Original message |
5. Woah. |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-18-07 11:59 AM Response to Reply #5 |
32. Thank you. I appreciate your kind post. |
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mtnester (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-17-07 10:15 PM Response to Original message |
6. Although this is your sister, it sounds exactly like my |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-18-07 12:00 PM Response to Reply #6 |
33. Yes, she can be paranoid. I've considered bi-polar. Always BPD. |
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mtnester (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-18-07 07:52 PM Response to Reply #33 |
49. For those of us who have loved ones who suffer from these and other |
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CharmCity (202 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-17-07 10:21 PM Response to Original message |
7. Consider this... |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-18-07 12:01 PM Response to Reply #7 |
34. You're right, and my long-time therapist agrees! |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-17-07 10:24 PM Response to Original message |
8. did she suffer abuse sometime in her life? |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-17-07 10:55 PM Response to Reply #8 |
17. Posts Skittles, 'cause I didn't have the guts to. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-17-07 11:38 PM Response to Reply #17 |
18. it seems obvious to me there was some abuse |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-18-07 12:02 PM Response to Reply #8 |
35. Emotional abuse. Our father was a severe alcoholic. |
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madeline_con (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-17-07 10:25 PM Response to Original message |
9. Can your mother afford to bail her out all the time? |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-18-07 12:04 PM Response to Reply #9 |
36. My mom can - just barely - afford to do this for the time being. |
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Arugula Latte (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-17-07 10:44 PM Response to Original message |
14. I have a relative (by marriage) who sounds similar, down to the four horses that aren't ridden. |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-18-07 12:05 PM Response to Reply #14 |
37. Sounds familiar. |
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midnight armadillo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-17-07 10:47 PM Response to Original message |
15. She's got plenty of food, don't worry. |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-18-07 12:06 PM Response to Reply #15 |
38. LOL! I told her yesterday that it sounded like time to sell a horse. |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-17-07 11:41 PM Response to Original message |
19. This describes to a T some of the other bipolar folks I have known. I would |
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Hobarticus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-18-07 02:05 AM Response to Reply #19 |
25. BINGO...bipolar disorder, all the way... |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-18-07 12:07 PM Response to Reply #19 |
39. See my post above - she went to therapy for a while, then quit. |
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Tuesday Afternoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-17-07 11:50 PM Response to Original message |
20. damn. I thought I sucked. |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-18-07 12:09 PM Response to Reply #20 |
40. Good point about family therapy. I've been seeing a psychiatrist for seven years. |
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CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-18-07 12:02 AM Response to Original message |
21. Sister or not, you need to get her out of your life... |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-18-07 12:10 PM Response to Reply #21 |
41. Peggy, those are strong words, and I know how kind you are, so I'll listen. |
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TrogL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-18-07 12:45 AM Response to Original message |
22. Walk away |
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BlueJazz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-18-07 01:10 AM Response to Original message |
23. She needs professional help. I'm not sure "Tough Love" is the best thing to do. |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-18-07 12:13 PM Response to Reply #23 |
43. I've suggested this many times to my mom, but I can't control her either. |
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FloridaJudy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-18-07 01:43 AM Response to Original message |
24. I think your sister has serious mental health problems |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-18-07 12:13 PM Response to Reply #24 |
44. Thank you for the hug. I think you are probably right. |
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Maraya1969 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-18-07 02:46 AM Response to Original message |
26. Sounds to me like she needs some tough love. Let her lose some |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-18-07 11:58 AM Response to Original message |
31. There are some really strange responses on this thread |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-18-07 12:18 PM Response to Reply #31 |
45. I can see the point of every post on this thread, really. |
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Felix Mala (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-18-07 12:10 PM Response to Original message |
42. Lifetime of it here. My sister is 52 and still moving in with mom with |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-18-07 12:22 PM Response to Reply #42 |
46. Yes, that all sounds very familiar. |
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Mad_Dem_X (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-18-07 12:34 PM Response to Original message |
47. Damn, sounds a lot like my aunt |
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Coyote_Bandit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-18-07 01:29 PM Response to Original message |
48. Maybe I'm wrong |
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