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blue cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 08:58 AM Original message |
Last night the guy I've been seeing for 9 months |
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LeftyFingerPop (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 08:59 AM Response to Original message |
1. What are your feelings? n/t |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 09:02 AM Response to Original message |
2. My only question is... |
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blue cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 09:10 AM Response to Reply #2 |
10. it was probably |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 09:41 AM Response to Reply #10 |
17. Ah. That explains it. |
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blue cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 09:02 AM Response to Original message |
3. devastated |
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LeftyFingerPop (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 09:09 AM Response to Reply #3 |
8. It is a terrible thing to be told... |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 09:03 AM Response to Original message |
4. Lack of trust/communication skills on his part, methinks. But I don't know your situation |
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blue cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 09:06 AM Response to Reply #4 |
5. yes, time to move on |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 09:08 AM Response to Reply #5 |
7. who cares if he does change his mind in future? |
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LibraLiz1973 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 10:32 AM Response to Reply #5 |
26. Who gives a shit if he changes his mind? |
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blue cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 06:04 PM Response to Reply #26 |
45. my sister loved your response |
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LibraLiz1973 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 06:56 PM Response to Reply #45 |
46. Your sister is 100% right |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 09:06 AM Response to Original message |
6. "gee, thanks for sharing" |
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blue cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 09:09 AM Response to Reply #6 |
9. i demanded an explanation |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 09:11 AM Response to Reply #9 |
12. I'm guessing he found some other woman he feels more chemistry for. |
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hisownpetard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 03:23 PM Response to Reply #12 |
41. I agree. I think he was hanging around until he found some other possibility. Otherwise, |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 09:13 AM Response to Reply #9 |
13. well he could have still phrased it a LOT more tactfully |
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LibraLiz1973 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 10:33 AM Response to Reply #9 |
27. a real man would have found a way to NOT say shit that hurt your |
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Flaxbee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 12:59 PM Response to Reply #27 |
34. yes - absolutely |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-11-07 08:49 AM Response to Reply #34 |
52. What you said made me think of this jerk I was seeing ages ago. |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 09:11 AM Response to Original message |
11. Sorry to hear about that |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 09:13 AM Response to Original message |
14. Sounds like he may be being dishonest with you |
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blue cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 09:27 AM Response to Reply #14 |
15. sure i had clues |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 09:37 AM Response to Reply #15 |
16. Then you've learned something valuable for yourself |
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blue cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 09:42 AM Response to Reply #16 |
18. thanks |
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LibraLiz1973 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 10:36 AM Response to Reply #15 |
28. Learn a lesson from this then |
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blue cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 09:43 AM Response to Reply #14 |
19. i think he liked having me around |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 10:01 AM Response to Reply #19 |
20. Then he was disingenuous to begin with |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 10:12 AM Response to Original message |
21. My only advice would be: learn from this. |
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blue cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 10:14 AM Response to Reply #21 |
22. no, my intuition was out to lunch |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 10:16 AM Response to Reply #22 |
23. Well don't beat yourself up over it... |
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LibraLiz1973 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 10:37 AM Response to Reply #22 |
30. I think almost everyone has been there |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 10:17 AM Response to Original message |
24. dont see him again. dont waste your time which is far more valuable than anyone elses time nt |
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sazemisery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 10:24 AM Response to Original message |
25. There is someone better out there just waiting.. |
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blue cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 10:36 AM Response to Reply #25 |
29. thanks |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 12:15 PM Response to Original message |
31. I don't understand why people have relationships they don't |
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datasuspect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 12:19 PM Response to Original message |
32. say "bye bye" |
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zingaro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 01:47 PM Response to Reply #32 |
35. Yeah. That's exactly what I was thinking. |
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datasuspect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 02:09 PM Response to Reply #35 |
38. 10 roger on that |
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Phillycat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 12:27 PM Response to Original message |
33. Try getting that after three years. |
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zingaro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 01:50 PM Response to Original message |
36. My words of wisdom are these: |
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Highway61 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 01:59 PM Response to Original message |
37. I am so sorry |
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PeaceNikki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 02:25 PM Response to Original message |
39. I highly recommend this book. It's funny and encouraging and honest |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 03:03 PM Response to Original message |
40. Be kind and gentle with yourself... |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 03:24 PM Response to Original message |
42. Ahhh the "It's not you it's me" defense |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 03:26 PM Response to Original message |
43. GoddessOfGuinness took all the good advice. But everyone's been there. |
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blue cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 06:01 PM Response to Original message |
44. don't know what is wrong with me |
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LibraLiz1973 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 07:03 PM Response to Reply #44 |
47. It may not be that you are heartbroken |
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RetroLounge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 07:04 PM Response to Reply #44 |
48. So you were dishonest with him too? |
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blue cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-11-07 11:35 AM Response to Reply #48 |
55. no |
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RetroLounge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-11-07 12:31 PM Response to Reply #55 |
56. If he wasn't aware and you didn't tell him |
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Shakespeare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-11-07 08:58 AM Response to Reply #44 |
53. So you were both dishonest with each other? |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 07:33 PM Response to Original message |
49. sounds like neither of you really were "feeling it" |
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applegrove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 07:35 PM Response to Original message |
50. They say you have to kiss a dozen frogs to find a prince. Seriously - the more |
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Blue-Jay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-10-07 07:38 PM Response to Original message |
51. Say a fond "farewell". |
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Connonym (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-11-07 09:05 AM Response to Original message |
54. I'm sorry |
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