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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 12:28 PM Original message |
How do you deal with being proselytized to by people you care about? |
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KitchenWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 12:34 PM Response to Original message |
1. Basically I tell them that I have my own relationship with God |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 08:01 PM Response to Reply #1 |
29. Additionally I say, "Trust God and me to work things out" |
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Generic Brad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 12:48 PM Response to Original message |
2. I put up with it for over 40 years before I finally tell them to "f" off |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 12:54 PM Response to Reply #2 |
3. lol |
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Generic Brad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 01:00 PM Response to Reply #3 |
4. Well, if you do reach your tipping point... |
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zingaro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 01:01 PM Response to Original message |
5. By people I care about? |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 01:13 PM Response to Reply #5 |
7. that is beautiful |
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Chovexani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-23-07 07:27 AM Response to Reply #5 |
40. LOL, I hit that line at age 20 |
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zingaro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-23-07 04:06 PM Response to Reply #40 |
41. I can guarantee you that my life would be SO |
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Chovexani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-23-07 04:57 PM Response to Reply #41 |
43. I had extremely strong female role models growing up |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 01:12 PM Response to Original message |
6. I don't sleep with my relatives, no matter how much money they offer. |
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Emit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 01:25 PM Response to Original message |
8. This situation reared its ugly head just this week. |
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Fire Walk With Me (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 01:29 PM Response to Original message |
9. "If you loved me, you'd respect my beliefs as I respect yours." |
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Emit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 01:32 PM Response to Reply #9 |
10. I tried that one with my nephew. |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 01:40 PM Response to Reply #10 |
11. oh yes, I've dealt with that too |
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Emit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 02:49 PM Response to Reply #11 |
17. Oh, yes, that sounds familiar. |
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TrogL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 05:30 PM Response to Reply #11 |
21. so the mention in Kings that pi * 10 = 30 is what? |
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Fire Walk With Me (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 01:41 PM Response to Reply #10 |
12. If they will then not respect you, just say "Kthxbai" and let it go. |
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Emit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 03:01 PM Response to Reply #12 |
18. "OK, thank you, goodbye". |
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Tuesday Afternoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 10:26 PM Response to Reply #10 |
32. a good come back to the "truth" -- |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 10:37 PM Response to Reply #32 |
35. Hope you had a great Thanksgiving |
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Tuesday Afternoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 10:45 PM Response to Reply #35 |
36. True. When dealing with fundies, I have found that I must love |
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billyskank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 01:47 PM Response to Original message |
13. Tough one |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 02:08 PM Response to Original message |
14. i let my dad proselytize me to kingdom come. everybody else gets a fairly bitchy comeback |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 02:25 PM Response to Original message |
15. That's a tough one. |
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Aristus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 02:26 PM Response to Original message |
16. A nurse I work with is a progressive Democrat AND an evangelical Christian. |
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China_cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 03:29 PM Response to Original message |
19. My middle son has MS and has recently fallen into the hands |
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ghostsofgiants (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 03:30 PM Response to Original message |
20. I have to deal with it just about every time I see my grandparents. |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 05:32 PM Response to Reply #20 |
22. I think that is the best tactic sometimes. |
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ghostsofgiants (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 05:38 PM Response to Reply #22 |
23. I just don't want them to disown me. |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 05:44 PM Response to Original message |
24. That's a tough one |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 05:52 PM Response to Reply #24 |
26. oh wow |
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TrogL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 05:47 PM Response to Original message |
25. I've simply made it absolutely clear |
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xmas74 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 07:41 PM Response to Original message |
27. Just nod your head, smile |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 07:45 PM Response to Original message |
28. I tell them that it's kind of them to offer, |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 10:17 PM Response to Original message |
30. Thanks everyone for your input |
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porphyrian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 10:19 PM Response to Original message |
31. People I care about care enough about me not to proselytize to me. -n/t |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 10:30 PM Response to Original message |
33. I realize I cannot have a rational discussion with them, and cut them out of my life. |
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deucemagnet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 10:31 PM Response to Original message |
34. Honestly? |
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Neshanic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 10:48 PM Response to Original message |
37. You listen, and listen and listen, then when you decide to tell them |
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Inchworm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-22-07 11:01 PM Response to Original message |
38. get them to tell stories |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-23-07 03:50 AM Response to Original message |
39. I tell them to shut the fuck up |
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LuckyLib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-23-07 04:35 PM Response to Original message |
42. Haven't had the pleasure. But I will do a verbal variation of the sign next to my doorbell: |
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hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-23-07 06:33 PM Response to Original message |
44. In my family we all talk to God, some of us more than others. |
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