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Connonym (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 10:45 PM Original message |
What's the best way to stop negative self-thinking? |
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KitchenWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 10:46 PM Response to Original message |
1. working on catching myself mid thought and focusing on more positive things. |
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LaraMN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 10:47 PM Response to Original message |
2. I audibly say to myself, "shut UP, Lara!" |
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Kutjara (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 10:48 PM Response to Original message |
3. The realization that, although I may be an idiot,... |
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IndianaJones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 10:51 PM Response to Original message |
4. Stuart Smalley tapes. nt. |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 10:52 PM Response to Original message |
5. When I am able to... |
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Fox Mulder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 10:52 PM Response to Original message |
6. I'm still trying to figure that out. |
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stlsaxman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 10:59 PM Response to Original message |
7. ice cream. |
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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 11:01 PM Response to Original message |
8. Distraction works for me. |
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Oeditpus Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 11:02 PM Response to Original message |
9. Besides the little white pills, you mean? |
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LoveMyCali (694 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 11:50 PM Response to Original message |
10. I try to remember to talk to myself like I would any other |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 11:54 PM Response to Original message |
11. Figure out what it is that drives it |
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Wapsie B (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 12:10 AM Response to Original message |
12. Really stressful exercise for one thing. |
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Droopy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 12:12 AM Response to Original message |
13. I sometimes obsess over past mistakes and it makes me feel terrible |
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The Wielding Truth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 12:13 AM Response to Original message |
14. Listen to Joni Mitchell or some music you liked when you |
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LostInAnomie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 12:13 AM Response to Original message |
15. Whenever you find the secret, let me know. |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 12:20 AM Response to Original message |
16. Read the book _Feeling Good_ by David Burns, MD |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 02:48 AM Response to Reply #16 |
18. I agree.... |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 09:19 AM Response to Reply #16 |
31. "Feeling Good" is a great, great book. |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 01:56 AM Response to Original message |
17. Read "A Guide to Rational Living" |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 03:04 AM Response to Original message |
19. Not all negative thinking is harmful. It's irrational negative thinking that's harmful. |
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Common Sense Party (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 03:22 AM Response to Original message |
20. I just avoid thinking altogether. |
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Connonym (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 03:32 AM Response to Reply #20 |
21. I hate to admit this |
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mzteris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 09:12 AM Response to Reply #21 |
29. without the kids - |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 09:15 AM Response to Reply #21 |
30. Now is your time to end this cycle |
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Qanisqineq (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 04:14 AM Response to Original message |
22. This is one of my biggest problems |
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MilesColtrane (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 04:27 AM Response to Original message |
23. ...electrodes to the genitals. n/t |
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Perry Logan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 07:58 AM Response to Original message |
24. A mantra can be very useful. nt |
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NoSunWithoutShadow (363 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 08:25 AM Response to Original message |
25. I tell myself over and over "think happy thoughts". |
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tekisui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 08:47 AM Response to Original message |
26. Stop thinking. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 09:05 AM Response to Original message |
27. I have the same problem. I have a loud, constant, PITA inner critic. |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 09:10 AM Response to Original message |
28. What do you mean? What's "negative self-thinking?" n/t |
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Ivan Sputnik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 09:24 AM Response to Original message |
32. Learn to meditate |
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Bossy Monkey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 09:26 AM Response to Original message |
33. Argue with it. If necessary, just say "Stop!" punctuated with a punch to the wall if this helps |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 01:52 PM Response to Original message |
34. realize that if someone else talked to you the way you talked |
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lildreamer316 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 02:11 PM Response to Original message |
35. EFT |
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