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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-13-07 08:42 PM Original message |
Will we ever return to a time when more people, on average, experience shame? |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-13-07 08:44 PM Response to Original message |
1. People are self centered a-holes |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-13-07 08:47 PM Response to Reply #1 |
2. Hey! I have a question for you... |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-13-07 08:53 PM Response to Reply #2 |
5. Probably so |
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lost-in-nj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-13-07 09:12 PM Response to Reply #2 |
20. Yes |
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Generic Brad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-13-07 08:49 PM Response to Original message |
3. A shameless relative once gave me the worst apology ever |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-13-07 08:54 PM Response to Reply #3 |
6. Wow. Talk about absolutely NO sense of shame. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-13-07 08:59 PM Response to Reply #3 |
10. WTF? |
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Generic Brad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-13-07 09:20 PM Response to Reply #10 |
23. Three years out and I'm still standing my ground |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-13-07 09:30 PM Response to Reply #23 |
25. nothing |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-13-07 08:50 PM Response to Original message |
4. Grow up in my family |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-13-07 08:57 PM Response to Reply #4 |
8. So let me clarify... |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-13-07 09:02 PM Response to Reply #8 |
12. no... |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-14-07 11:01 AM Response to Reply #12 |
33. Lack of empathy is the core problem IMHO, not a lack of shame. |
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graywarrior (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-13-07 08:56 PM Response to Original message |
7. Feeling ashamed, or feeling shamed. |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-13-07 08:57 PM Response to Reply #7 |
9. Feeling ashamed, certainly. |
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graywarrior (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-13-07 09:00 PM Response to Reply #9 |
11. I think so many people walk around shamed they don't know how to feel ashamed. |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-13-07 09:02 PM Response to Reply #11 |
13. So people act out cruelly... |
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graywarrior (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-13-07 09:06 PM Response to Reply #13 |
15. Sure. Past abuse, low self-esteem, defensiveness. |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-13-07 09:12 PM Response to Reply #15 |
19. Very true. |
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graywarrior (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-13-07 09:14 PM Response to Reply #19 |
21. I think we all feel shamed. |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-13-07 09:06 PM Response to Reply #7 |
14. that's a good point |
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MorningGlow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-13-07 09:08 PM Response to Original message |
16. I wouldn't want people to feel more shame |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-13-07 09:10 PM Response to Reply #16 |
17. Yeah, beer makes heavy conversations like this go by easier. |
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snailly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-13-07 09:10 PM Response to Original message |
18. We're the United States of The Selfish |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-13-07 09:16 PM Response to Original message |
22. Religion? It's always good at making people feel shame |
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CBHagman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-13-07 09:28 PM Response to Original message |
24. There seem to be several things going on here. |
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Connonym (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-13-07 10:04 PM Response to Original message |
26. Not personally a fan of shame |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-13-07 11:45 PM Response to Original message |
27. I blame the 80s. |
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cwydro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-14-07 01:42 AM Response to Original message |
28. No one |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-14-07 01:45 AM Response to Original message |
29. I stepped off my back porch this evening |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-14-07 01:47 AM Response to Original message |
30. Compassion and empathy are possible without shame. (nt) |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-14-07 01:49 AM Response to Original message |
31. I triple dog dare you to crosspost this in GD. |
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Inchworm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-14-07 02:00 AM Response to Original message |
32. ummm, yes.. |
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taterguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-14-07 11:05 AM Response to Original message |
34. Oh the shameful things I've done while drinking beer |
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