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Oeditpus Rex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-21-07 08:11 PM
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Ever re-connect with an old friend
and find you have nothing to talk about anymore?

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mainegreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-21-07 08:12 PM
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1. Oh god yes. Makes for a very, very painful bruch.
Painful.

Check please painful.
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skygazer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-21-07 08:13 PM
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2. Oh, yeah
Then you have to find a way to gracefully disengage. Again. ~sigh~
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Oeditpus Rex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-21-07 08:16 PM
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4. She's not allowing for much grace
She's insisting I said I don't want to talk to her because I said I don't need friends.

:wtf:

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skygazer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-21-07 08:16 PM
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6. Oh, lucky you
:eyes:
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-21-07 08:15 PM
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3. No. Usually, those are the guys I marry.
Or the women I go running with.

I think if I had nothing to say, I didn't say it a long time ago. :)
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Oeditpus Rex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-21-07 08:17 PM
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7. Now my head hurts
x(

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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-21-07 08:26 PM
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8. I'm sorry, Oedie.
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Oeditpus Rex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-21-07 08:40 PM
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10. Ah, the *cheap* stuff
C'mon, give it over.






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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-21-07 09:30 PM
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11. That's explains everything. You're high maintenance.
lol

:)
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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-21-07 08:16 PM
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5. Yeah
It was recently. It wasn't pretty.
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In_The_Wind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-21-07 08:35 PM
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9. Yep.
The good thing is :) we are still friends.
His politics are different than mine but I'll overlook it.
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-21-07 11:23 PM
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12. Yes.
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WritingIsMyReligion Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-21-07 11:30 PM
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13. I talked with my long-time no-see cousin the other day in a similar situation.
And was extremely embarrassed by the lack of intellectual repartee where we had once both been the wits of the family.

:cry:

As Carole King says, "One of us is changing, or maybe we just stopped trying..."
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Shine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-21-07 11:32 PM
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14. yes, it can be awkward
to say the least.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-21-07 11:32 PM
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15. Not so much
but I wonder sometimes about my best friend and I.

We don't talk much anymore. We were really good friends when we were younger. Then he went one way and I went another. Then he came back and took the profits he made there and became very successful in another business.

Other friends I reconnected with last fall well, our connection has already seemed to peter out.

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Seabiscuit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-22-07 12:49 AM
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16. Yup. And he turned out to be the same asshole he was 35 years prior.
Most people just don't change or even grow up.
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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-22-07 02:41 AM
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17. yep
did earlier this year.
I found out she hated Jews...sigh
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BlueIris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-22-07 06:07 AM
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19. AAAAHHHHH.
Did you RUN AWAY? Yikers.
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-22-07 05:20 AM
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18. no
Edited on Wed Aug-22-07 05:21 AM by Skittles
there is always something to talk about; that doesn't necessarily mean I'd want to remain friends though
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