Ever re-connect with an old friend
Oeditpus Rex
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Tue Aug-21-07 08:11 PM
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Ever re-connect with an old friend
and find you have nothing to talk about anymore?
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Tue Aug-21-07 08:12 PM
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1. Oh god yes. Makes for a very, very painful bruch.
Painful. Check please painful.
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Tue Aug-21-07 08:13 PM
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Then you have to find a way to gracefully disengage. Again. ~sigh~
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Tue Aug-21-07 08:16 PM
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4. She's not allowing for much grace
She's insisting I said I don't want to talk to her because I said I don't need friends. :wtf:
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Tue Aug-21-07 08:16 PM
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Tue Aug-21-07 08:15 PM
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3. No. Usually, those are the guys I marry.
Or the women I go running with. I think if I had nothing to say, I didn't say it a long time ago. :)
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Tue Aug-21-07 08:17 PM
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Tue Aug-21-07 08:26 PM
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Tue Aug-21-07 08:40 PM
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10. Ah, the *cheap* stuff
C'mon, give it over.
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Tue Aug-21-07 09:30 PM
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11. That's explains everything. You're high maintenance.
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Tue Aug-21-07 08:16 PM
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It was recently. It wasn't pretty.
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Tue Aug-21-07 08:35 PM
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The good thing is :) we are still friends. His politics are different than mine but I'll overlook it.
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Tue Aug-21-07 11:23 PM
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Tue Aug-21-07 11:30 PM
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13. I talked with my long-time no-see cousin the other day in a similar situation.
And was extremely embarrassed by the lack of intellectual repartee where we had once both been the wits of the family. :cry: As Carole King says, "One of us is changing, or maybe we just stopped trying..."
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Tue Aug-21-07 11:32 PM
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14. yes, it can be awkward
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Tue Aug-21-07 11:32 PM
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but I wonder sometimes about my best friend and I. We don't talk much anymore. We were really good friends when we were younger. Then he went one way and I went another. Then he came back and took the profits he made there and became very successful in another business. Other friends I reconnected with last fall well, our connection has already seemed to peter out.
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Wed Aug-22-07 12:49 AM
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16. Yup. And he turned out to be the same asshole he was 35 years prior.
Most people just don't change or even grow up.
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Wed Aug-22-07 02:41 AM
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did earlier this year. I found out she hated Jews...sigh
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Wed Aug-22-07 06:07 AM
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Did you RUN AWAY? Yikers.
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Wed Aug-22-07 05:20 AM
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Edited on Wed Aug-22-07 05:21 AM by Skittles
there is always something to talk about; that doesn't necessarily mean I'd want to remain friends though
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