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Kansas Wyatt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-30-07 08:07 PM
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Okay, the relationship with a Fundie just didn't work out.
For some reason, even though I was burned out on and away from the bar scene long ago, I now find myself a regular and enjoying it very much.

Ready for debriefing.... Ask me anything.
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-30-07 08:14 PM
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1. It was worth the try.
:pals:

The bar scene sucks. been there, done that, tired of being laughed at.
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Kansas Wyatt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-30-07 09:11 PM
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2. Now was it really?
I was all through with the bar scene, but I ran from a relationship with a Fundie back into the bar. The more religion was pushed onto me, the more I felt like falling into the bar, just to repel from the religious stuff.

Too bad it didn't work out though, because the sex was outstanding. Oh well... There's always another right around the corner.
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-30-07 09:33 PM
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6. As you said,
"the sex was outstanding".

And "There's always another right around the corner" - it treats people as much disposable commodities as employers do their employees. Not that I'm opinionated. Not that I get any either... :rofl:
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Kansas Wyatt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-30-07 11:42 PM
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15. I've never had a problem with fidelity and commitment
Nor have I ever treated someone as a disposable commodity. However, when they see me, they know what they want, and yes, I will oblige them. It's not like I have officially gone back to the very long string of one night stands thing. Even back then, I was always completely honest about what it was.
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idgiehkt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-30-07 10:49 PM
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11. that is so interesting
that the sex was outstanding. Fundies kill me. I mean, we are talking premarital sex, right?

At least you got something for your trouble. :hi:
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Kansas Wyatt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-30-07 11:29 PM
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13. And to think I was the one who had a problem with getting blown
In the church parking lot.

She actually said the bible was very erotic, indulged, and went through the self loathing until she seen me again.
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idgiehkt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-30-07 11:36 PM
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14. roflmao
:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-30-07 09:28 PM
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3. OK, saves me an ass-kicking
yes INDEED :7
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Kansas Wyatt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-30-07 09:30 PM
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4. Ass-kicking?
What do you mean?
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-30-07 09:37 PM
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8. wow
I thought everyone in DU knew I was always threatening an ass-kicking - all in good fun though :) :hi:
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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-30-07 10:48 PM
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10. LOL!
He does not know that he should be honored that Skittles threatened to KICK HIS ASS!

:hi:

:rofl:
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janx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-30-07 09:32 PM
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5. It's not an either/or situation.
It's not as if you have to choose between a fundy and a wrecking bar situation... :shrug:
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Kansas Wyatt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-30-07 09:37 PM
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7. No, for some reason, I wanted to run back into what I left years ago.
After having all the religious stuff pushed on me, I rebelled against it and could not wait to get back into the wild and free days.
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Elidor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-30-07 10:27 PM
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9. I've always wondered...
Where do the people who don't go to bars or churches go? Because those are the people I'm most interested in. I guess they go to night school.
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Chomskyite Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-30-07 11:00 PM
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12. We mainly sit at home and chew the insides of our lips off from sheer frustration
Which is what I do.
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Wapsie B Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-31-07 12:18 AM
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16. Glad you at least had a good sex life outta your ordeal.
Nothing hotter than a woman with all that repressed fundie upbringing. They've just got to bust loose and rebel, and when that happens watch out! :evilgrin:
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