Someone in my condo building just put her unit on the market and sent out an email to all the owners asking about the rules on pets. She couldn't remember if there was a weight limit and asked if anyone else knew. I didn't have the condo rules with me but replied the following to the best of my knowledge because she needed an answer right away (I have changed the names ala Ann Landers to protect identities):
Hi Lisa
I feel like we toyed around with setting a weight limit because one of the renters in Jim's and Barb's unit had two large dobermans that really tore up the hallways. Maybe we decided to stipulate that dogs need to be taken outside through the back door. It's been awhile, so I don't remember clearly...
Just for a little background, we have twelve units in our building and only two are being rented out. One couple who rents out their place ("Jim and Barb") is rather notorious for not communicating, or paying their dues, or screening their tenants, or generally caring about the building at all. It seems to be just a cash cow to them, much to the chagrin of everyone else who lives there. Their current tenants are lovely, but in the past there have been some bad ones, including the tenants who allowed their cute but untrained dobermans to destroy the paint job and carpet in the hallway leading to the front door.
Anyway, a little while later, another owner in the building (who happens to have the same first name as "Barb") sent this reply:
Please know that I do not have renters or a doberman dog, just a cat- Betty. At one time two dobermans lived in the xxx unit - rental and caused havoc but that was a while back.
I quickly sent a reply to apologize for the confusion but honestly I don't know how I should've worded differently. Is the proper grammer not "Jim's and Barb's unit"? What would be the correct way to write it (assuming you don't remember their last name, which I don't)? Doesn't the context of the phrase "... one of the renters in Jim's and Barb's unit.." clearly suggest that I am speaking about one condo unit owned by a couple?
I have to admit that I was a bit annoyed that "Barb" didn't reply and say "sorry, I misunderstood" or "thanks for clearing that up, I must have read that wrong." I also thought it was odd that she didn't remember that another owner in our building had the same name as her. I think I would remember if there was another Grace in the building. And if someone referred to "Grace" in an email and I didn't understand the reference, I would probably pause and ask myself if they were referring to the other Grace before sending off a snippy response.
Here's the etiquette problem now. I am hosting the next condo board meeting and "Barb" is coming ("Jim and Barb" never come to these things, they can't be bothered). Should I apologize again and give her the opportunity to say "Oh, that's okay, sorry I misunderstood" or do I not bring it up at all?