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Lyric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:25 PM
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Poll question: What were you in high school?
Just curious. :)
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:26 PM
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1. NHS, yearbook, track/field hockey kid
What would that be?
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Lyric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:26 PM
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2. I'd say a mixture of cool kid and athletic kid
Mixed with some smart kid. Damn you're complicated. ;) :hug:
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:38 PM
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19. I know
:cry:
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LisaM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:28 PM
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3. Hey! You left out band geek
Or smart kids that people WEREN'T mean to. I was kind of a combination of the two, plus I was quite political.
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Richardo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:29 PM
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5. LisaM, we're separated at birth
See my bio below.
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Maine-ah Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-24-07 02:56 PM
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99. I'm thinkin' we were triplets
:hi:
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AllegroRondo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:31 PM
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10. Hooray for the band geeks!
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Richardo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:29 PM
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4. Smart kid (not TOO smart) + Band nerd (not TOO musical)
All combined into a background-kid kinda kid. :)
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jilln Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:33 PM
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12. ditto.
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ceile Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:30 PM
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6. Purple hair, athlete, GT
Everyone wanted to be my friend in some way or another, but I thought they were all a bunch of rich, fake bitches. I was wrong on about 80% of them. My high school years could have gone a lot more smoothly if I hadn't been such a stuck up brat.
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Fran Kubelik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:30 PM
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7. Some of the above.
Not rich, not tragically poor. Never wore the trendy clothes and got picked on for that. High honors student, played nearly every sport, was in every band and chorus, was a student council officer and member of the French club.
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Wapsie B Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:31 PM
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8. Band Geek but otherwise a blend into the background type.
Nothing much has changed in that respect in 30+ years since.
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MissMillie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:42 PM
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23. yep
band and chorus.... almost everything I did revolved around being in the music room
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Wapsie B Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 02:53 PM
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44. Yeah, band and chorus were my only activities.
It was an escape of sorts for me. The lonely feeling of being a teenager on the periphery of things went away when I was involved with music.
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Mrs. Venation Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 03:50 PM
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54. Yeah
I have never been one to seek the spotlight. I was in marching, concert and jazz bands.
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Wapsie B Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 04:58 PM
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61. Not being part of the in-crowd was ok by me.
Coulda used a little more excitement from time to time, or a lot more. But at least I didn't screw up my health doing every drug under the sun or get anyone pregnant. So I guess there were advantages.
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charlie and algernon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 11:07 PM
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75. yup, bando here too
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:31 PM
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9. Fat kid, in the a/v dept, avg student
hung with the smart, preppy kids but I was into more AC/DC to their Thompson Twins and Simple Minds. I drove a sweet car, so it all evened out.
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SteppingRazor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:32 PM
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11. Depends what year you're talking about...
like most high school kids, I went through a few phases.
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SmokingJacket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:33 PM
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13. I would have been goth, but goth wasn't invented.
So I was just "weird."
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Critters2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-24-07 12:12 AM
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86. There's a goth girl in our obedience class
with the cutest Boston Terrier. She looks all tough, wears all this black leather clothing, black makeup, etc. Then she opens her mouth and has the sweetest, high-pitched voice, and the friendliest personality. And loves her dog! She's the only kid in our class, so she has about 10 "moms" looking out for her.

I was reminded about stereotyping tonight in class. During a break, she commented on the brightly colored leash the Vegan Beagle has.

Her: You didn't buy the leather leash from the kennel club?

Me: We're vegan. We don't use leather.

Her: Wow! You SURE don't look like any vegans I know!!


Not sure exactly what that meant, but I thought about the first time I saw her, when I prolly thought "Wow. You don't look like any Rally-o handler I know!"

Mustn't judge books by those annoying covers, I'm reminded.
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buddhamama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:33 PM
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14. i was a crossover
i got good grades, played sports, illegal activities :smoke: and i was popular. :)
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Crap_in_a_Hat Donating Member (258 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:34 PM
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15. Drama kid/sociotastic loner
See if you can figure that one out.
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LaraMN Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:34 PM
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16. A hybrid of a bunch of things.
drama/smart/druggie/grunge/popular/crazy/instigator kid.

I was NOT a preppy,sporty, or quiet type.

I had alot of friends, crossing clique groups, but my closest friends were grunge/intellectual/drug-experimenter types.

In the yearbook, my picture is under the "wildest/craziest" heading on the best/most pages (along with the male counterpart to the honor).

:P

I enjoyed my hours outside of the classroom, and am still friends with my closest companions from "back in the day."
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bridgit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:35 PM
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17. Invisible smart kid...
:headbang:
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ProfessorGAC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-24-07 09:41 AM
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89. I Was A Visible Smart Kid
Played basketball and ran track. Was pretty good at both, but not good enough to get it to pay for college, unless i wanted to go to small schools in either Wyoming or Oregon, neither of which had chemistry majors. So much for that.

But, at least i wasn't an invisible kid. Sorry about your experience.
The Professor
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catmandu57 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:36 PM
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18. Drop out
Stoner, loner, spent most of my time in the library educating myself. I got caught up in the great purge they threw out over a hundred of us the same day, I just didn't see any reason to go back the next year.
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Joe Fields Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:39 PM
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20. I was part jock, freak, smart, class clown, and popular, but I made

a point to fit in with all crowds, and even made a point to befriend even the so-called "unpopular kids".
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Chan790 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 09:53 PM
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72. ditto. n/m

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Connonym Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:39 PM
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21. Fat smart four eyes girl
not that I'm bitter
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NewWaveChick1981 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:41 PM
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22. Smart kid who got ignored most of the time and picked on the rest of the time.
:shrug:
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LaraMN Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:44 PM
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25. Sounds like my best friend.
I was pretty easy-going in school, but I got RAGINGLY mad when anyone picked on her.
To this day, I think I'm more mad at people who were mean to her than she is.
:P
Oh, and she turned out freaking FABULOUS. She's still my best friend.
:D
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Fran Kubelik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:46 PM
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28. Sounds about like me.
:hi:

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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 11:44 PM
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81. I wanna kick their asses!
I had a lot of that

then i became a chameleon kid who could fit in anywhere

then i became a drunk and stoner

then i got out of high school

but most of the kid in every social strata in my high school had their drunk stoner crowd and that was the common denominator for me there.

later i had to sober up and get off drugs :P
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ismnotwasm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:42 PM
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24. Other
Not there.
I skipped my most of my freshman and my entire sophomore year. I ended up with one math credit somehow, sophomore year. I then when on to an alternative school for "bad kids" There were no categories there except how stoned you were or how may schools you were kicked out of.

Got my GED at 19.
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:45 PM
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26. Definitely not popular
smart, but just a percentage or two below dean's list; art geek; the unnoticed kid who occasionally did very wacky things.

I got some semblance of notoriety in grade 9 when, on a mixed grade field day trip, I had to take over the reins of a very tough horse from the *gasp* grade 12 president of the student council. I had a reputation that year as being the only one who could ride that horse. After he left, the legend died...:P
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Starbucks Anarchist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:46 PM
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27. Semi-smart invisible kid.
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catmandu57 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:48 PM
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29. I've got Janis Ian running through my head
right now.
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eyepaddle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:49 PM
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30. I was too smart to be accepted by the metal heads and
Edited on Mon Apr-23-07 01:49 PM by eyepaddle
too poor to be a cool kid, I caught way too much shit to be invisible, so y9ou tell me.

I'm glad that's over.
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davsand Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 01:58 PM
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31. We had stoners, socials and jocks.
Most of the cheerleaders and jocks in my school were also pretty chemical--it was the late 70's... (Come to think of it even the AV club had some pretty chemical folks!)

I did the music and drama thing, but I also was hanging with the other crowd.

:smoke:


Laura
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Initech Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 02:01 PM
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32. I didn't fit in anywhere in high school.
Hell, I STILL don't really fit in anywhere!
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Aristus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 02:12 PM
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33. I was the nice guy that all the girls liked but didn't want to go out with.
They liked the dangerous guys who rode motorcycles and treated their girlfriends like crap. They'd commiserate with me because "you're such a sweet guy", and then go right back to the neanderthals.

My brother, although much more popular than me, had essentially the same problem. He confessed his feelings to a girl and she said to him (I'm not kidding) : "You were such a nice guy, I couldn't think of you as anything but a friend."

He lost his cool and asked her: "What did you want me to do? Slap you around a little?"
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meegbear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 02:13 PM
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34. The pudgy, smart burnout ...
Edited on Mon Apr-23-07 02:13 PM by meegbear
:hippie:
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driver8 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 02:19 PM
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35. I was a jock, good student, partier...
I got along with almost everyone at my high school. I played sports and was in with the "cool" kids, but I also liked to party so I was in with the "stoners", also. I have a lot of great friends from high school...we were a pretty tight group of friends.
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johnnie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 02:21 PM
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36. High
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 02:22 PM
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37. house captain in a private catholic all girls school.
mostly our popularity was based on academics.
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Omphaloskepsis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 02:23 PM
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38. 4.0 Nerd / Skateboarder / bought my clothes at thrift shops / sXe
Oh, how the times have changed.
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Xithras Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 04:28 PM
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58. Oh man, sounds like me.
On the surface I looked like the typical skater, and I could hang with the best of them on a vert pipe. At first glance, most people would never have guessed that I was a straight A student who also entered science contests, wrote fiction in his spare time, and was a member of both the school chess club AND the computer club (the last being a bastion of particular uncoolness in the pre-Internet days at the dawn of the 90's).

I still play chess and program computers, but the pipes screwed my knees for life. Back then, of course, wearing a helmet or pads wasn't simply uncool, it was unheard of. Ouch.
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Omphaloskepsis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 06:07 PM
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67. I was the opposite..
I was the kid who looked like a nerd but could do 360 flips down a eight set.
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azmouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 02:24 PM
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39. I was smart and had friends but
I was also overweight so I didn't get asked out. Got my revenge though. I lost a lot of weight the year after graduation and then the guys that saw me wanted to ask me out. Haha... by then I was dating the guy I ended up marrying!
I hated high school. I was so ready to grow up and get out on my own I sometimes wonder how I made it through school.
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Burma Jones Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 02:25 PM
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40. Some 15 years after I graduated from High School
I got a phone call asking whether I was (insert real name here), I said yes, and the girl on the other end of the phone proceeded to tell me that I was still (in)famous at my old high school and that people made up stories about me based on what teachers told them and old yearbook photos.....I also heard the same thing from the HS girls that babysat my twin half brothers.

Two years ago, now some 27 years past HS graduation, I took my young kids to a football game at my old HS. The current Band Teacher was a year ahead of me and returned to teach at the HS he attended - ala Kotter. I waved, and he recognized me and introduced me to the band as "that guy some of you asked about"........I was Lead Trumpet in the County and State Jazz Bands and there are notes in the scores that still say things like "Rump goes insane here". One of my nicknames was Rump because I mooned people.....like the Governor of Maryland.....

I was also the lead in the two plays (Oscar Madison in the Odd Couple and Pseudolus in A Funny Thing Happened on the Way to the Forum) that were the first performances in what was then a state of the art theatre, so we got to sign the walls, and that graffiti has been preserved.

I also was largely responsible for a 10 year ban on Nighttime Pep Rallies and a significant delay in Magruder High School getting lights to play night football games.......It had to do with leading obscenity laced Cheers and a tirade about the benefits of smoking marijuana, at a pep rally attended by students, faculty and staff.....The funny thing is, is that after graduating, and while spending a couple years at Junior College making up for my utter GPA failure, they asked me to announce Football Games. I played Football too.

I had legendary parties - my folks were divorcing and would disappear for days at a time........

My body was a proving ground for all manner of Drugs.......

I had a good time in HS

I had a good time in College

I'm having a good time now.........






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Jimbo S Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 02:38 PM
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41. Other: math/computer geek
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NewJeffCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 02:51 PM
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42. I was the invisible man in high school
But, at least I was well-known enough to win the "Shyest" in both my high school and junior high school - of course, with only about 100 in my high school graduating class, it's not difficult for everybody to know everybody.
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Mad_Dem_X Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 02:51 PM
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43. I was mostly ignored, teased occasionally. n/t
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dolo amber Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 03:00 PM
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45. I was the uber-dork that didn't realize she was an uber-dork
and thus hung out with and pretty much got along with everyone. :shrug:

The cool kids might've talked shit about me behind my back but I was oblivious. :D
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GalleryGod Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 03:04 PM
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46. Legend? Guilty as Charged.
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ForrestGump Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 03:05 PM
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47. None of the above

Most decidedly.

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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 03:06 PM
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48. I was geeky and unattractive.
Nobody really gave me any shit after my freshman year (this probably has something to do with the fact that my high school boyfriend was 1. big and 2. crazy) but I didn't have a ton of friends either.
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TommyO Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 03:12 PM
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49. You forgot us theater geeks!
Remember, it's "Thespian!"
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stuntcat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-24-07 09:07 AM
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88. oooo yah!
I was sort of a theater geek, mostly just a nerd though.

Every Friday night a few people would come to my house to watch horror movies and eat pizza but it wasn't talked about at school, when we were there we just hung in different circles (well they had circles, I was a loner)
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bikebloke Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 03:22 PM
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50. Hybrid
I was wallpaper, yet mixed easily with different groups.
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datasuspect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 03:27 PM
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51. stoner dropout
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Rob H. Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 03:41 PM
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52. I rarely spoke in high school (hated it, couldn't wait for college) but
Edited on Mon Apr-23-07 03:46 PM by Rob H.
...people still knew who I was, mainly because I was so quiet. (When I was a senior, in one of my classes some girls made a point of joking around to get me to laugh because they'd never seen me smile--I'm series!)
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unpossibles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 03:47 PM
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53. I was in the non-clique
there were about 6 of us, plus two smart kids who sat with us for protection because the jocks didn't (usually) mess with us. We didn't really fit in anywhere beyond that we all liked music and would "travel between the tribes" so to speak. And we were in the smart kid classes, but were not as smart (or rather, not as studious, thanks to beer and other things) as the "smart kids."
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 03:50 PM
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55. After moving to the states I went from complete nerd - badly dressed,
shy and smart, to ultra-cool because going on exchange was considered an ultra-cool thing to do. And yes, I've remained ultra-cool from that time to this. :P
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 04:01 PM
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56. Cool, in-crowd
I played some sports and hung out with the jocks.

My school wasn't that big so everyone knew each other.
I guess you can say I hung out with the cool crowd.

:)
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 04:13 PM
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57. Smart Kid/Cool Kid/Druggie/Girl with 21+ y.o. Boyfriend
:D
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MedleyMisty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 04:50 PM
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59. I was the smart kid
But once I got past the early years, no one was mean to me about it anymore. Probably a combination of everyone maturing and me learning to act silly so they could go ahead and feel superior without having to bring me down.

Also, I wasn't popular and didn't wear anything expensive, but the most popular guy in school developed a crush on me in sophomore year that lasted until after graduation. So I did hear my name brought up in gossip a lot.

I wasn't part of any certain group. My school wasn't big on groups, really. There were small groups of friends but no clique was considered better than any other clique.
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GenDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 04:54 PM
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60. Artsy, stoner group
I was neither really popular, nor unpopular, and didn't much care either way. I got along just fine with every clique -- considered everyone a friend.

Hard to believe that this summer we will be having our 30th reunion, which I'm proud to be on the reunion planning committee.
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femmocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 05:05 PM
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62. Overachiever. Way too many activities!
They didn't hurt my grades much, though... I was still in the top academic classes.
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JitterbugPerfume Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 05:33 PM
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63. I was very shy
and an underachiever
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trof Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 05:40 PM
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64. Preppy beatnik.
Played bongos wearing Bass Weejuns.
And shades.
COOL, daddy-o.
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Dr Fate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 05:45 PM
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65. Other- Stoner/troublemaker but smart (sort of) & geeky (certainly) too.
Mostly a comic book & music nerd who liked to joke around and have a good time- pretty much just like now.

I spent much of High School trying to get up the nerve to talk to girls.
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Bucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 05:47 PM
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66. Debate geek.
Which is really just a band geek with a suit and no rhythm.
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smtpgirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 06:21 PM
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68. People called me a frock which is
Edited on Mon Apr-23-07 06:34 PM by smtpgirl
a freak - because I smoked pot and hung out with the cool kids and a jock - because I played sports.

I dressed in preppy clothes, was a class clown, got ok grades, but history & biology were my classes, aced both of them all through high school.

In my senior year, I skipped most of the year as I only needed English to graduate. I spent the last 2 months hanging out with the stage band going to Elementary/Jr. High schools for concerts, then after that we hung out and drank beer & smoked pot.

I was not part of any clique, had many friends with many interests. I just had fun in high school.
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 06:23 PM
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69. Freak.
And among us freaks, that was cool.
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 09:49 PM
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70. What was I in high school? 15, 16, and 17.
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 09:51 PM
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71. new girl
Drive your mustang down, to where you hang out.
Alone without a friend.
Girls walk by you, some in fact have tried you.
But once they tried they never tried again.

Except the new girl.

Alone and lonesome, trusting no one they say,
You never had a friend.
People talk about you, they say they doubt you really,
Ever let anybody in.

Except the new girl.

I guess there's never been anyone.

Except the new girl.


Last time I saw him, he was laughing.
She was standing by his side.
I've got a feeling, that they're still together.
From the look that was in his eyes. There's no one,

Except the new girl.


See him smile, he don't care.
Says he loves her, and he'll always love her.
See him smile, it seems fair.
That he finally found her, finally hold her. There's no one,

Except the new girl.
Except the new girl.
Except the new girl.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 11:55 PM
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82. Ahhhh!
wildhorsey

:hug:

I wish i'd had been your friend somewhere along the line


:hug:
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 11:03 PM
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73. The bad girl of the chorus/drama geeks.
i.e. Not really that bad. :D
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Nikia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 11:04 PM
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74. I voted for all of the above
I was an extraordinary person back then. Now I am more of a loser. It sucks.
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pokerfan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 11:10 PM
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76. Smart stoner kid (almost valedictorian)
who took the toughest courses, smoked dope, drank beer, and got along with pretty much everyone. Wrestling, drama, annual staph photographer.

Had one fight my freshman year with the kids from the "other" junior high with which we had just merged. Those guys wound up being some of my best friends.

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Oeditpus Rex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 11:11 PM
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77. Nothing
Absolutely nothing.

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misanthrope Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 11:15 PM
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78. Human**nm
**
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Lyric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 11:28 PM
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79. I guess I can answer my own poll now, lol
In elementary school, I had it baaad. I was the fat girl, the smart kid, AND the poor kid. I had no school friends, and the other kids went out of their way every single day to make my life a living hell.

That all changed around the Fall of 1993, when I was 14. I'd gotten taller and lost some weight that summer--not enough to qualify as thin, but enough that I wasn't even close to being "fat". I'd also gotten a nice rack over the previous summer, and my face had changed from chubby-round-babyface to contoured, with nice full lips and dramatic brows and coloring. Of course, none of the boyos in my grade dared to notice--even if I wasn't actually fat or ugly, I still had 6 years of school stigma attached to me, and that's something hard to live down. But the older high school boys sure noticed. :)

I was left alone most of the time during the first part of that year--not "accepted", but not tortured either. Then some idiotic prepgirls in the "in" crowd with nothing better to do decided to start giving me hell because I still had secondhand clothes and my eyebrows were untweezed (oh the horror). One of them was actually STUPID enough to follow me home and attempt to "beat me up" in front of the others. Unfortunately for her, I'd lost my natural timidity the summer before, and when she hit me...I hit back. Hard. Repeatedly. This was on a Thursday. She was absent from school Friday, and when we came back on Monday, her face was STILL swollen, bruised, and greeny-blue. She never spoke a single disrespectful word to me again, and neither did anyone else, for that matter. Her parents came over to yell at my parents, but two adults in my neighborhood had witnessed the whole thing and told them that their precious little angel attacked ME and I was simply defending myself. (You'd think that the fact that she lived across town but got off at MY bus stop would have clued them in as to who started it).

After that, I spent the rest of my high school years left alone. No real friends, but no grief from the other kids, either. I wound up dating guys (and later girls) MUCH older than me. I met ThinkBlue1966 when I was 19, and the rest is history. :)
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 11:29 PM
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80. I was a Burnout!
And I was Goth before it was cool to be Goth.
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qnr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-24-07 12:04 AM
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83. Didn't go to HS. Actually, I lie, because I went for three months n/t
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Critters2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-24-07 12:05 AM
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84. Smart but quiet kid with the back brace.
Didn't want to draw attention to myself, so I spent most of my time trying not to make eye contact.
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Pushed To The Left Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-24-07 12:07 AM
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85. I was like a nerd without the benefits of being a nerd!
My grades weren't good enough to be a nerd, but I looked like one a lot of the time. I suppose I was also a fat kid some of the time. I definitely was not very popular or "cool", even though I did have some friends.
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SKKY Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-24-07 03:36 AM
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87. I went to a mostly black High School (Desegration)...
...Being athletic and good at sports is what me from getting my short, dumpy, white ass kicked
everyday.
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WannaJumpMyScooter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-24-07 09:43 AM
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90. Young. Very young.
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1gobluedem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-24-07 11:23 AM
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91. Other: Teacher's kid
Edited on Tue Apr-24-07 11:23 AM by 1gobluedem
Expected to get top grades (I did) and not cause trouble (I didn't). Also played in the band and my gang was fairly popular.

But, I can tell you it's hard when your father teaches in your school and you have to take his class (the only one who taught state and local government, which was required) and he is also the football coach.

I was very happy to get to college.
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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-24-07 11:24 AM
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92. Skinny Nerd
Who could turn any love interest into a best friend...It was my curse
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Karenca Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-24-07 11:35 AM
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93. Other: Mine was a split personality -
Edited on Tue Apr-24-07 11:42 AM by Karenca
Smart kid (skipped grades, honor classes), but I was a chronic cutter...(and I forged alot of notes to get my way).
Very popular - but I only hung out with other kids (also smart) that were perpetually stoned (like myself).
I managed to graduate early in a constant hallucinogenic daze and
without hardly ever have gone to class.

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Rhythm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-24-07 11:40 AM
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94. All of the above!
I was in the marching band, JROTC, Garinger Players, was one of the first punks/goths, and was one of only 6 "out" queers in my school of about 3000 students.

I was legend, i tell ya... voted "most unique senior" of the class of 1985!
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grace0418 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-24-07 11:47 AM
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95. Smart/chubby/arty/band geek.
I pretty much had all the labels that get one beat up in high school.
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Spirochete Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-24-07 02:09 PM
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96. Clueless renegade
who skipped classes, smoked in the bathrooms, set off fire alarms, put glue in all the classroom locks, and made it nearly a month before being expelled.
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regularguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-24-07 02:12 PM
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97. Skinny, very high, guitar player. NT
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Heidi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-24-07 02:13 PM
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98. Dork. Still am. On the "up side," though, I'm
Tom's _only_ myspace friend. :7
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mike_c Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-24-07 04:59 PM
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100. stoner....
I don't remember much from those days.... :rofl:
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Broken_Hero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-24-07 05:00 PM
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101. A few things, but I selected fat kid, but
I was also, athlete(football/track field), Band Geek, Pep club geek, Pep band Geek, comic book geek.....:)
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Joey Liberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-24-07 06:23 PM
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102. I was a teenaged drunk and I lived in a motel
Other than that, I was just a normal juvenile delinquent.
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-24-07 06:37 PM
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103. Amongst other things, I was told quite clearly and repeatedly:
God's little joke.


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Liberalynn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-24-07 06:49 PM
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104. I wasn't cheerleader popular in highschool but I wasn't an outcast either
I had a good number of friends and many people were actually nicer to me when they found out I was smart in highschool. Some of my public school classmates would even come to me for help with their homework and studying.

Now exactly the reverse was true in Catholic grade school, I was picked on because my parents weren't rich, and I wasn't snooty, and they were jealous because I was smart. I was also very shy and my feelings were eaisly hurt. I was a constant target for all those reasons. And most of the teachers weren't any better than the students. Although there were a "few" nice ones.

I loved Public school and hated Catholic School as a result.
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-24-07 06:58 PM
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105. I was athletic,
I was smart, I came from a poorer family and wore clothes from garage sales and thrift stores often (yet knew what to look for and often came off looking better than most. Girls would laugh at my outfits yet wear something similar a month later.). I had a goth stage but grew out of it when I was 15 and had my first real job, yet always listened to the music. I ran around w/ the stoners, the motorheads, the punks, the athletes, the NHS kids, the art kids, I was in band (trumpet), I was on the debate team (Lincoln-Douglas, foreign extemp, poetry and prose, radio), I was involved in the school plays, I was the president of a few clubs (Future Teachers, Drama, AFS, head volunteer and was a class rep).

I was loved and hated all at the same time but for different reasons than most. I was loved and hated either way because I was so different and I couldn't be pinned down. (That and I once took one of our Downs Syndrome classmates to a kegger. No one wanted her there but I thought she deserved to be there since she was a member of our class.)

Oh, and I was the kid that protested everything, wrote about protesting everything in the school newspaper, grumbled about coverage of some events in the yearbook as I was sent to cover said event and was obsessed about everything being fair to all-often while risking something of my own. (Such as a recommendation for a full scholarship).

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Arugula Latte Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-24-07 07:01 PM
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106. Smart, not popular, not unpopular either ...
sort of blended in ...

My high school was nasty. Nasty, nasty snotty rich kids.
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-24-07 07:03 PM
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107. I was a GI brat who moved constantly
I saw these same sickening groups in every school I attended - I made it a mission to never become one of them
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