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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 04:15 AM Original message |
can there be unconditional love at a personal level in any form? |
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Omphaloskepsis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 04:19 AM Response to Original message |
1. No, I wish I could expand on that. |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 04:25 AM Response to Reply #1 |
2. somehow i think you captured the essence of what i was trying |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 04:28 AM Response to Original message |
3. i think so |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 04:36 AM Response to Reply #3 |
5. somehow i never thought of animals |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 04:42 AM Response to Reply #5 |
8. eloquently put |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 04:47 AM Response to Reply #8 |
10. thanks-- |
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Dastard Stepchild (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 04:28 AM Response to Original message |
4. Toward my cats and dogs, yes... |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 04:38 AM Response to Reply #4 |
6. funny, how we turn to the animals to show us the way |
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blogslut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 04:41 AM Response to Original message |
7. My love for my child is unconditional |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 04:47 AM Response to Reply #7 |
9. i don't think my parents showed me this |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 04:49 AM Response to Reply #9 |
11. ... |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 04:53 AM Response to Reply #11 |
13. aww--- |
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blogslut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 04:52 AM Response to Reply #9 |
12. That is unfortunate |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 05:07 AM Response to Reply #12 |
16. its a nice thought |
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boston bean (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 08:40 AM Response to Reply #16 |
23. do you have any children? when I had mine, it changed my whole |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 02:13 PM Response to Reply #9 |
51. I also get curious about people complaining of attention deficits |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 03:50 PM Response to Reply #51 |
65. huh? |
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trof (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 11:35 AM Response to Reply #7 |
30. yep |
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tblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 04:55 AM Response to Original message |
14. For my child. I love him unconditionally. |
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tblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 04:55 AM Response to Original message |
15. delete |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 06:07 AM Response to Original message |
17. Yes. |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 01:06 PM Response to Reply #17 |
39. so you think that because they stay with them that it means |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 01:16 PM Response to Reply #39 |
43. As someone who stayed with an abusive spouse |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 01:23 PM Response to Reply #43 |
45. sorry-- |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 06:14 AM Response to Original message |
18. perfection of any state -- is an ideal. |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 11:37 AM Response to Reply #18 |
31. i agree and while the parent/child association is a strong |
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QMPMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 07:07 AM Response to Original message |
19. I love my husband, kids, parents and sister unconditionally. n/t |
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BuelahWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 07:17 AM Response to Original message |
20. I think SOME people can love others unconditionally |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 07:26 AM Response to Original message |
21. Only if you want it to. |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 11:38 AM Response to Reply #21 |
32. i love the paradox of this one--- |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 02:57 PM Response to Reply #32 |
58. you are welcome |
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boston bean (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 08:35 AM Response to Original message |
22. I think that the only uncoditional love is a parent for a child. This is not always the case |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 08:57 AM Response to Original message |
24. dogs |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 01:08 PM Response to Reply #24 |
41. dogs are better than persons |
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hippiechick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 03:13 PM Response to Reply #24 |
61. I was going to post the very same thing. |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 09:22 AM Response to Original message |
25. Unconditional love does not rule out boundaries |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 01:08 PM Response to Reply #25 |
40. care to expound on that thought...? |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 02:49 PM Response to Reply #40 |
55. To love someone, to have that feeling, is an unconditional state |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 02:50 PM Response to Reply #40 |
56. Delete/dupe |
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hippywife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 09:25 AM Response to Original message |
26. I know there is. |
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WritingIsMyReligion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 09:30 AM Response to Original message |
27. Hey, I think about that stuff, too. |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 11:33 AM Response to Reply #27 |
29. yes, animals are way more advanced in this area |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 02:08 PM Response to Reply #29 |
50. I see people saying that they love their animals unconditionally |
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Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 02:41 PM Response to Reply #50 |
52. My dog almost always hangs out with my husband and I |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 03:38 PM Response to Reply #50 |
63. yes, i think in order to fit the definition of unciodtional it has to |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 09:48 AM Response to Original message |
28. i love my brother pretty unconditionally. |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 11:40 AM Response to Reply #28 |
33. yes, and i mine |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 11:52 AM Response to Reply #33 |
35. there are times when i dont like him, but i always love him |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 11:41 AM Response to Original message |
34. I think it's possible |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 11:59 AM Response to Reply #34 |
36. yes, i think fear is at the base of it all |
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buddhamama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 12:03 PM Response to Original message |
37. define love |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 12:31 PM Response to Reply #37 |
38. love is a verb |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 02:58 PM Response to Reply #37 |
60. ... |
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gemdem (975 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 01:12 PM Response to Original message |
42. To love without conditions |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 01:18 PM Response to Original message |
44. There can be |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 01:24 PM Response to Original message |
46. Nope |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 02:43 PM Response to Reply #46 |
53. clarify further-for kids yes i agree |
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enigmatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 01:29 PM Response to Original message |
47. Of course |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 01:36 PM Response to Original message |
48. There are absolutely no conditions on my love for my children. |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 02:03 PM Response to Original message |
49. I have always seen unconditional love as kinda stupid or crazy |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 03:49 PM Response to Reply #49 |
64. agape love is the only thing i can think of that fits the definition |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 02:49 PM Response to Original message |
54. Yes. |
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Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 02:57 PM Response to Original message |
57. I think so but it is important to establish boundaries |
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RetroLounge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 02:57 PM Response to Original message |
59. For children, yes. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-07-07 03:26 PM Response to Original message |
62. No but conditions can be negotiable and also temporary. |
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