Question about dating

[blue cat]

If you go out with a guy on Sat., and then he sends an email on Monday AM saying that he had a good time and that we should do it again....is that a blow off? I think that it is, esp. since it is Wed. and he hasn't called. It's no big deal, but just wanting feedback.

[Floogeldy]

1. How is it a "blow off" if he says that he would like to do it again?

Did you respond to his E-Mail?

[blue cat]

2. My friend who has done

dating online for longer than me(I just started), she said that it was a classic blowoff in that e-dating world. Actually, if he really wanted to talk to me, he would call. It's not like I don't know the answer. Just up and wanting to get off my chest.

[Floogeldy]

3. You didn't respond to the E-mail.

[blue cat]

4. Yes I did respond

saying about the same thing, thanking him and telling him that I had a nice time too, but no mention of any follow up. I just hate rejection. Good thing I have some hot dates lined up or I would be more upset.

[u4ic]

5. If you didn't mention a follow up

he may have felt you rejected him.

[blue cat]

6. Here is his email

Thanks for meeting me for dinner/drinks on Saturday/Sunday. I had a nice time. We'll have to do it again.

Have a Great Week!!


What the hell!!! Have a great week? Is that like have a great life, bye bye? BTW - saturday/sunday - nothing happened but I was too drunk to go home, so I slept at his home after dinner/drinks/live music, then he made me breakfast, then we talked until 2 pm. I need someone who tries harder than this anyway.