I'm sick of online date sites. Rips offs and bullshit. Where is the best place to

[Connonym]

meet up with like minded potential potentials ? I know what I want. It shouldn't be so hard to find it.

[XemaSab]

1. If I knew

I wouldn't be sitting here goofing off on DU. :P

[crim son]

2. Bangor, Maine.

:rofl:

[jonnyblitz]

4. that's sort of near where I grew up! nt

[crim son]

6. So you must know that there is no possible way

a woman can find a man here! :7

[jonnyblitz]

7. oh I most definitely do.

I grew up in Millinocket and I am gay. I need say no more. I know you understand. :crazy:

I was just up there in November.

[crim son]

8. I do, I do.

:hug:

[jonnyblitz]

10. i would probably have better luck

finding a man up there than you. :rofl: :hug:

if you don't get a decent guy out of high school you aren't going to find one without serious baggage later on. Guys lose their looks fast up there , too, as they get older!

I will probably go back up there in April or so. I have a grandmother who is 89 who won't be around much longer who loves my visits.

damn, i hope I am not hijacking this thread!

[crim son]

11. Don't worry; I'll be blamed.

I am the Hijacking Queen. You know, there were a couple of really handsome guys here this summer... I noticed immediately that they didn't belong. They agreed: they didn't belong!

No shit about the baggage/aging thing. It almost works in my favor, because the same thing can be said for the women.

I hope your grandmother stays healthy for a long time. Both of mine are alive; one is 93 and one is 97. Goodnight, jonnyblitz.

[Nicole]

3. Local Dem Party office.

I met my last date there, at the election night watch party. :toast:

[sce56]

5. Well I know of one that is free I have not gotten very far with it but right now

it is my location that holds me back. Looking for a better job away from hell hehehe. The desert that is.
Try http://www.plentyoffish.com after all it is free and that takes away a lot of the BS

[Zookeeper]

9. My BIL met a lot of great women...

on either E-Harmony or Match.Com. I'm not sure how those sites work out for women looking for men, though.

[taterguy]

12. A dog park

It's a low pressure environment to get to know people. You can also learn a lot about someone by seeing how they interact with their dog.

[reyd reid reed]

13. Work, school

and, believe it or not, I hear (though I can't say from experience) church.

Online? Be careful.

:shrug:

[AllegroRondo]

14. try signing up for a class at the CC or a craft store

at the very least, you'll learn something new.

I signed up for cake decorating a couple years ago through the local craft store. I didnt go with the intent to meet anyone, but I had fun and met lots of people who were also interested in crafts.

[mainegreen]

15. Volunteer.

Especially as singles volunteer a lot to do something with all that spare time single people have!

[Hugin]

16. Sorry, no idea...

I've heard grocery stores and car washes... But, that's only hearsay.

Good luck.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

17. what online dating sites have you tried?

i found lisa on friendster.

[dysfunctional press]

18. my wife and i met thru a personals ad that i placed.

we've been married 16 years now.

[Left Is Write]

19. I have met lots of great people at bars and restaurants.

I married one of them.