What it called when someone does a favor, then brings it back up all the time?

[zappa_parappa]

To make you feel guilty? Is there a term for that or for a person who does that?

[Connonym]

1. my preferred term is "asshole"

I hate that shit and for that reason I have a really hard time accepting favors.

[Oeditpus Rex]

2. Yes

But if I post it, it'll get deleted.

[bridgit]

3. My Mother!!

x(

[mainegreen]

4. Yup!

:rofl:

[AlCzervik]

14. lol!

someone once asked me if i ever borrowed money from my Dad, "No, i borrowed from the bank because they don't call me everyday to remind me they loaned me money"

[bridgit]

18. oh my geawd X-actly...

x( :rofl: on edit = cept it was my mom x(

[LostinVA]

5. Why re you asking a question that has an answer that's derogatory ?

[zappa_parappa]

7. Because I'm looking for the correct term to use when I voice my grevance to my boss

So yeah, thats why.

[LiberalHeart]

8. emotional blackmail

[LostinVA]

9. It is an offensive racial term that would get a post deleted

[zappa_parappa]

10. Theres a racist term for it?

I had no idea.

[LostinVA]

11. The only term I know of IS racist

[zappa_parappa]

12. Well that sucks, you'd think there'd be a universal term for it too

guess not.

[bridgit]

13. oh i know, who knew...

:rofl:

[guitar man]

6. emotional martyr

.....or my Mom, same thing....

[mainegreen]

15. A predatory helper.

A high-interest giver?


:shrug:

[zappa_parappa]

16. Hmm...i like those

I'll just make a list and hand it to him. "You're all these things, good day sir"

[bridgit]

17. me too...

maybe do the list like chinese take out, "Pick one from column A, one from column B, and your entree comes with these sight unseen so deal with it." :thumbsup:

[Dora]

19. Passive aggressive.

By extending the "favor" to you, a passive aggressive type then has the perfect setup for blaming you for any/all consequences.....



"__A__ wouldn't have happened to me if I hadn't done __B__ for you. But that's okay, I don't mind. My life already sucks. I forgive you (or not)."