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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 06:54 PM Original message |
Non-clinical use of the word "retarded." Offensive? |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 06:55 PM Response to Original message |
1. I never use it that way |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 06:59 PM Response to Reply #1 |
8. Yes, there could be any number of words considered offensive... |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 07:02 PM Response to Reply #8 |
14. this is true |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 06:57 PM Response to Original message |
2. I know, I hate to see it used so often, especially here. |
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Spider Jerusalem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 06:57 PM Response to Original message |
3. I'd say it's as offensive as the similar use of "gay". |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 07:00 PM Response to Reply #3 |
9. I agree with you about comparable use of the word "gay." |
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Kixel (512 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 11:10 PM Response to Reply #3 |
86. I had a problem with that |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 06:58 PM Response to Original message |
4. Guilty |
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grasswire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 06:58 PM Response to Original message |
5. thank you |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 06:58 PM Response to Original message |
6. I have to say I have been guilty of saying it. And it is |
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Goblinmonger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 06:59 PM Response to Original message |
7. I think it is context |
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Robb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 07:00 PM Response to Original message |
10. Context |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 07:02 PM Response to Reply #10 |
12. I don't really want to frame this as "PC", which itself has become something of a "slur." |
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graywarrior (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 07:00 PM Response to Original message |
11. Try getting Bostonians to stop saying "you're re-tah-ded" |
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bicentennial_baby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 07:11 PM Response to Reply #11 |
18. Exactly.... |
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graywarrior (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 07:14 PM Response to Reply #18 |
19. Or Marblehead. |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 08:05 PM Response to Reply #11 |
31. we used to say "Yah Hegnah" when "Tahhhd" got old. |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 07:02 PM Response to Original message |
13. My brother is autistic/MR (mentally retarded) |
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Okiojira (271 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 07:05 PM Response to Original message |
15. I don't take any personal offense when someone else uses the word in a non-clinical sense |
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OllieLotte (495 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 08:35 PM Response to Reply #15 |
37. My Mother grounded me for using the word retarded. |
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petronius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 07:08 PM Response to Original message |
16. I agree with you, and I don't use the word |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 07:15 PM Response to Reply #16 |
20. You know, I think you're right. |
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Kat45 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 09:20 PM Response to Reply #20 |
80. When I was a kid, there used to be a lot of "moron" jokes. |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 07:30 PM Response to Reply #16 |
25. there is another one I can't think of right now |
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terrya (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 07:10 PM Response to Original message |
17. I think it is. |
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IntravenousDemilo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 07:18 PM Response to Original message |
21. I use it ONLY in the non-clinical context. |
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Mojambo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 07:51 PM Response to Reply #21 |
27. Yeah, I kinda agree with your take. n/t |
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bicentennial_baby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 08:17 PM Response to Reply #21 |
35. interesting take on it... |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 07:19 PM Response to Original message |
22. Yes. |
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The empressof all (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 07:21 PM Response to Original message |
23. The word is hurtful |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 11:34 AM Response to Reply #23 |
45. MDs do use the term 'retarded', but not in regards to cognitive function. |
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The empressof all (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 02:53 PM Response to Reply #45 |
67. In that sense yes |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 01:10 PM Response to Reply #23 |
57. Yes, I totally agree with you, empress. |
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RetroLounge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 07:27 PM Response to Original message |
24. I agree. It is offensive. |
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mainegreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 07:33 PM Response to Original message |
26. I agree w/Gray Warrior in the sense that its idiomatically ingrained in some areas. |
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cwydro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 07:52 PM Response to Original message |
28. I think it is offensive. |
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Kajsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 08:00 PM Response to Original message |
29. Yep, it sure is. |
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Oeditpus Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 08:05 PM Response to Original message |
30. What if one is an auto mechanic |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 08:08 PM Response to Reply #30 |
32. I would consider that a legitimate use of the word. |
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Oeditpus Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 08:15 PM Response to Reply #32 |
34. Yup — but you know |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 08:10 PM Response to Original message |
33. My son has had to stay after school twice for using the word. |
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KamaAina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-05-07 08:29 PM Response to Original message |
36. Self-advocates find even the clinical use of "the R-word" offensive |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 10:09 AM Response to Reply #36 |
38. That was interesting. Thanks for posting it! |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 10:11 AM Response to Original message |
39. what a retarded question... |
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LaraMN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 12:25 PM Response to Reply #39 |
51. What an assinine response. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 12:39 PM Response to Reply #51 |
54. You rock, girlfriend. |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 02:17 PM Response to Reply #51 |
60. everybody is offended by something or another... |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 06:04 PM Response to Reply #60 |
76. Words have power. If they didn't, they'd be just meaningless symbols. |
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kmla (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 03:04 PM Response to Reply #51 |
68. I fully agree, Lara. |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 01:13 PM Response to Reply #39 |
58. I bet you wouldn't feel this way if you had a beloved family member who was retarded. |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 02:14 PM Response to Reply #58 |
59. it's just a word, and i'll use it as i see fit... |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 02:37 PM Response to Reply #59 |
62. It's not about "getting rid of everything offensive", it's about being more mindful |
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Kajsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 02:38 PM Response to Reply #59 |
63. The 'N' word is according to you |
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LaraMN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 03:38 PM Response to Reply #59 |
70. By all means, use it as you "see fit." |
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William Bloode (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 10:12 AM Response to Original message |
40. I'm sure it is. |
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BelleCarolinaPeridot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 10:13 AM Response to Original message |
41. A co-worker of mine uses that word all the time. |
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youthere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 11:21 AM Response to Original message |
42. Definitely offensive. |
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Kerrytravelers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 11:30 AM Response to Original message |
43. It is extremely offensive. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 11:32 AM Response to Original message |
44. It does bother me. I work a lot with the developmentally disabled. |
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BarenakedLady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 11:36 AM Response to Original message |
46. It makes me cringe |
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LynzM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 11:44 AM Response to Original message |
47. Absolutely. No question. |
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HuffleClaw (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 11:57 AM Response to Original message |
48. i hear people use 'gay' in that context far more than 'retard' |
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LaraMN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 12:23 PM Response to Reply #48 |
50. I think it depends on which word draws your attention more. |
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LaraMN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 12:21 PM Response to Original message |
49. I hate it. (That's a sore spot for me, for obvious resaons, but...) |
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El Fuego (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 12:28 PM Response to Original message |
52. The word "retarded" used to be a nice euphemism for other labels. |
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Burma Jones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 12:32 PM Response to Original message |
53. It's one of the words banned from our house |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 01:06 PM Response to Original message |
55. I have a profoundly mentally retarded sister, so yes, I find it offensive |
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Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 01:08 PM Response to Original message |
56. Yes |
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Catfight (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 02:20 PM Response to Original message |
61. Because of this string on DU, I have vowed to never use the word again. |
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Kerrytravelers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 02:41 PM Response to Reply #61 |
64. Thank you so much. |
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Kajsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 02:47 PM Response to Reply #64 |
66. Hi Kerrytravelers! |
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Kerrytravelers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 03:19 PM Response to Reply #66 |
69. Hi Kajsa! |
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Kajsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 06:58 PM Response to Reply #69 |
77. I just knew we had something |
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Kerrytravelers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 07:08 PM Response to Reply #77 |
78. I have worked extensively with Autistic children. |
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Kajsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 02:43 PM Response to Reply #61 |
65. Good for you ,Catfight! |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 03:40 PM Response to Original message |
71. I don't use it. I think it definitely shows a lack of respect. |
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Zhade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 03:52 PM Response to Original message |
72. My uncle is mentally retarded - yes, it is. |
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Orsino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 03:58 PM Response to Original message |
73. It's the most cowardly of slurs... |
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Dastard Stepchild (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 04:26 PM Response to Original message |
74. I think that even clinically it is insensitive.... |
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trof (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 04:31 PM Response to Original message |
75. Retarded only proper when referring to throttles. |
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QMPMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 08:59 PM Response to Original message |
79. I find it *very* offensive. My daughter is mentally handicapped |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 09:22 PM Response to Original message |
81. i think that, just as with ALL words, you have to know the context |
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Schema Thing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 09:26 PM Response to Original message |
82. Wouldn't "stupid" and "dumb" and "fuckwit" also then |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 10:48 PM Response to Reply #82 |
83. No, because those words don't have the strong connotations that "retarded" does. |
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Schema Thing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 11:25 PM Response to Reply #83 |
87. I think they have stronger connotations than "retarded" |
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hibbing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 11:02 PM Response to Original message |
84. yes |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 11:05 PM Response to Original message |
85. It's Usually Used In A Way That Is Offensive |
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momophile (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-06-07 11:27 PM Response to Original message |
88. wasn't allowed to say it as a child and still don't say it |
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