Why is it that just when things start to go really good, everything else goes so bad? Hugs needed

[belladonna]

It's been a tough three or four months, what with the full time job and full time school schedule, but hey, anything worth it is going to be hard... so I got through it. Got through my exams, aced them all... at least I'm pretty sure I did, jury's still out on one of them.

So I finally have some time to breathe. Grades are coming in and I'm ever so happy that I pulled this off with what appears to be A's. Last night, I was all happy and looking like this :bounce:

Now? I'm in this IGNORANT fight with the SO and, to be honest, I really don't know what the fuck his damage is on this one or why we're even fighting. The car started acting up yesterday and I have no clue as to what the hell is wrong with it. My boss has apparently decided that I am the perfect person to dump all of the asshole doctors that nobody else wants to touch on, my period started a week early and everything I touch turns to shit. My oldest daughter has apparently been involved in a hit and run, but since I can never get the truth out of her about anything, I have no idea of what the REAL circumstances are surrounding THAT. Oh yeah, and my cat seems to be getting sick too and I did the math and Christmas is going to suck donkey balls. I thought I had more money than I really have and I can't figure out how I got fucked up there either.

How in the hell did everything turn to shit so fast? :cry:

:whiny rant off:

[Hugin]

1. I'm rooting for you!

Here's some vibes to ya... ~~~

Relax until they kick in, okay?

:hug:

[some guy]

2. ...

:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

I'm sorry things seem to be spinning out of control. Step back, wait, and maybe they'll stop spinning?

CONGRATULATIONS on the exams, though! :bounce: :toast: :yourock: :bounce:

[texas1928]

3. Step back, take a deep breathe and then focus on one thing at a time.

It will get better and focusing on one thing at a time, will help you not feel so overwhelmed. Chin up. :hug:

[miss_american_pie]

4. ...

:hug:

[InternalDialogue]

5. belladonna, a hug for you.

:hug:

It's the swirl of life, the good and bad, up and down. I wish we all had more control over what happens and when.

Congratulations on your exams, be strong within yourself, and good luck with your SO and your daughter. Find that bit of peace inside yourself and nurture it -- keep it healthy to help you through the rough parts.

:hug:

[LaraMN]

6. Uh oh!

December is such a crappy month for things like this, it seems.

:hug:

[BarenakedLady]

7. I can give you a hug

:hug:

I hope things turn around for you soon.

[Connonym]

8. Some bad cosmic alignment

or something because so many people seem to be having a really tough time right now. The doctors are ALL assholes and it sucks to get stuck with the extra-hole variety.

I'm sorry you're having a rough patch. Hang in there. I'll toss some rum balls over the cubicle wall for you to suck instead of the donkey balls. Deal?