Lisa's words of wisdom:

[crim son]

1) If your SO tells you during your courtship "I'm a monster" it might be a good idea to believe him/her.
2) It is possible I posted something embarrassing tonight. Pay no attention, please.

[mykpart]

1. As for No. 1,

it is usually said as an excuse for ACTING like a monster. As in, "I know, Sweetheart, but I can't help it. It's the way I am. I'm a monster."

[ForrestGump]

2. Or it is never actually said at ALL, but

does, eventually, because a truth that is self-evident...

[crim son]

5. It was said. At the time, I thought I understood

but I was wrong.

Hope it hasn't happened to you.

[ForrestGump]

7. Some things are just hard to really understand until it's too late

I am sorry that you were hurt by someone like that...that, alone, is monstrous. :hug:

[crim son]

8. We've all been through it.

But thank you. :hug:

[crim son]

3. I didn't see it at the time.

One should admire such people for their honesty, however!

[CaliforniaPeggy]

4. My dear crim son.........

You know I always pay attention to your words, sweetie......

And I have something to say about them, here:

http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=105x5904721

Have a look!

If you posted something embarrassing tonight, someone else would learn that it's OK to do that, and learn from it.......

Not to worry, sweetie..........:hug:

[crim son]

6. Peg, I loved your link. More people should look at it.

It's so true. :hug:
P.S. I'm used to embarrassing myself!

[CaliforniaPeggy]

9. Oh, I agree.........

You shoulda kicked it, sweetie! :hug:

[crim son]

10. I just did. n/t.

[idgiehkt]

11. but that takes all the fun out of it.

c'mon baby make it hurt so good...

:hug:

Oh, I post something embarassing every night...you are in good company.

[crim son]

12. Amusingly, I once believed I was an excellent judge of character.

Snort!

Eventually one tires of the pleaure of pain. At least, the sane ones do.

[SPKrazy]

13. Perhaps Your Picker Is Broke?

and you just need a picker adjustment?

seriously, if someone tells you they are a monster it might be good to listen to them like you said.

people usually put their best foot forward in relationship then when they feel it is safe for them, they begin to show their arse.

You're okay, and you are a bright person (your writing skills betray that factoid) so I have no doubt that you will take what you have learned and put it to use.

:hug: :hug: more hugs

[crim son]

14. I'm at the stage of reflection these days.

I don't want to make the same mistake twice, you know?

[SPKrazy]

15. It's A Good Stage To Be

reflection that is

of course that's the only way to learn from your mistakes!

not all bottle blondes are Republicans LOL

that is pretty funny you know.

that picture is a good one:hug: