When You Were A Minor, Did You Ever Have Sex With An Adult?

[phrenzy]

Curious to see how common this is. I know there have been various polls about this kind of thing, but I think many people treat this as a BLACK and WHITE issue when it is very grey if you actually hear the circumstances behind some of these things.

In any case, I was 15 and had sex with my 25 year old (hot) manager / friend - I was sooo nervous, but I never felt pressured at all and could have simply stopped it at any time.

The main thing is, I don't see how this would have been ANY different with a girl that just happened to be under 18! It wouldn't have made a single bit of difference to me.

In any case, what I really regret is that it clearly traumatized HER. Even though it never happened again, I could tell from that point on that she felt horrible about it, and she soon stopped even being my friend because of it. It was sad for me, because I saw it as something cool and kind of funny, and she saw it as something to be ashamed about.

In my mind it was NOT something to be ashamed about for either of us.

[philosophie_en_rose]

1. One time at band camp, I posted a sex thread and it was locked.

ibtl

[HarukaTheTrophyWife]

2. Yeah, but it wasn't a big difference.

I was 17 and he was 20. He had gone to the same HS as me and was a senior when I was a freshman. We always had the same group of friends. My senior year we started dating. I was only a few weeks away from being 18 anyway.

[Oeditpus Rex]

3. IN!

[BelleCarolinaPeridot]

LOL!

[BelleCarolinaPeridot]

5. LOL!

[BelleCarolinaPeridot]

6. LOL!

[HarukaTheTrophyWife]

7. Dude, you're not only in, but you're in three times!

That's dedication, right there, my friend.

[HarukaTheTrophyWife]

4. Delete-How the hell did the same thing post twice 2 minutes apart?

:wtf:

[Anarcho-Socialist]

8. IBTL!

...and no.

[REP]

9. It's "Grey" Until You're An Adult

I was 17; he was 16. I was with him for nine years, or until I was the age he was when he met me, when it dawned on me how utterly fucked up it was to pursue a 17 year old at that age. Dumped his worthless ass. Wish I'd done it sooner. My excuse is that I was captured young, but that's a whole ot of my life I won't get back. At least I didn't do anything stupid like get married or have children.

[lavenderdiva]

10. Locking