What do the ladies like looking at?

[Omphaloskepsis]

I'm male. I scope out boobs and buttocks.

Sooo ladies, what part of the male anatomy draws your attention? (on first sight)

[Deja Q]

1. From my observations,

it's either the eyes, "special package", or gut. :rofl:

[miss_american_pie]

2. Eyes, shoulders, forearms, hands

in that order. :)

[Omphaloskepsis]

4. Note to self...

Work on the: eyes, shoulders, forearms, hands...... in that order.

Well, I'm kinda stuck with the eyes my mom and dad gave me.

[Left Is Write]

37. We really are alike, aren't we?

I love forearms. I get weak in the knees when a guy with great forearms has the sleeves of his dress shirt rolled to the elbow.

[miss_american_pie]

38. OMG yes!

You have such exquisite taste. :D :hi:

[koneko]

52. I second that

I like the way you think!!!

[LeftyMom]

3. Eyes.

I have a thing for shoulders, but eyes are what gets my attention.

[LadyoftheRabbits]

5. Definitely eyes...

Hands are a factor, too. :D

[johnnie]

6. Well, it seems like eye so far

Hey ladies.. I have two of them. :headbang:

[azmouse]

7. A nice smile.

[WritingIsMyReligion]

8. Eyes and hands.

All you need. :evilgrin:

[buddhamama]

9. the eyes

they are windows to the soul.

[Omphaloskepsis]

11. So the winner is the one thing we can't fix at the gym...

I have a gun, can you spare a bullet?

[buddhamama]

13. why?

aren't you good soul?

[Omphaloskepsis]

16. One of the best..

I was making a funny.

[buddhamama]

17. ooppsss

sorry. i gotcha ya'. :)

[texanwitch]

10. I like looking at the behinds, then the chests.

:bounce: :woohoo:

[Kixel]

12. Height!

Tall guys always get a double look. Then-eyes, hands, and smile.

[Oeditpus Rex]

45. Finally!

An advantage!

There's hope! :bounce:

[Kixel]

56. LOL

There's a lot of hope! I'm 5'10", so height matters a lot in my book.

[GoddessOfGuinness]

14. Posture

I like a guy who knows how to stand and sit up straight without a cactus up his...oh.

[Aristus]

15. UNIFORMS!

Or...uh...so I've been told. :blush: B-)

[supernova]

20. You are a damn fine looking man, Aristus

:wow:

[supernova]

22. Height, hair, eyes

shoulders, if those seem fine, I go in for the hands.

Yes posture counts, does he seem confident, sure of himself (but not cocky)?

If I like all that stuff, then I go for trying to figure out if he's easy going or a Type A type.

[Aristus]

23. Thank you. What a nice thing to say. Would it burst your bubble if

I told you those pictures are all over ten years old? That now I'm a little overweight and VERY bald?

Still, my wife likes looking at me, and I guess that counts for something. :7

[dropkickpa]

33. hubba hubba!!!

:patriot: Men in uniform always make me feel that much more patriotic!!

[u4ic]

28. I wonder who would tell you

a thing like that? :shrug:















*the mandatory

[hyphenate]

18. The eyes

are the first thing, then the thighs. Especially like them in jeans that give the legs definition--too thin is too thin, but a nice thigh is just heavenly.

The hair and whole face come next--great smile, a certain glint in the eye.....balding is okay, as long as he wears it well. Same goes for all hair lengths--as long as it's clean and not greasy looking, that's good.

A little bit of crow's feet in the corner of the eye tells you he smiles a lot. That's fantastic. And a dimple is a bonus.

Body type--as long as it looks like he's taking care of himself, it doesn't really matter. But if he looks dorky, he probably is, and not worth the time or effort.

[Deja Q]

21. Define "dorky"

The definition I know of puts me at quite a disadvantage. :D

(and that's not the same thing as the definition of "dork"... :yoiks: )

[hyphenate]

24. In my definition

a dorky guy is usually one who thinks he's a great catch but is the kind most women would avoid as much as possible. Sort of cocksure of himself, really isn't even aware of how awful he really is, someone who might be a brain and knows it, but doesn't realize a personality is requisite even WITH a brain. Some men seem to think they are the "life of the party" and all you want to do is shove their heads into the aquarium. The kind of guys who are loudmouthed and obnoxious and think of themselves and only themselves and still are completely clueless about why no woman wants to be near them. :)

[Deja Q]

25. But I thought women wanted assertiveness and confidence?

I probably fit your description just as readily too.

I will say that I hope the love of your life is socially awkward. We do have our compensations, you know...

[begin_within]

19. What's that thing between the waist and the thighs? ..Oh yeah, it's called

the pocketbook.

[wildhorses]

27. and then...after the pocketbook

I notice the feet...it helps if one foot is on a banana peel and the other one is in the grave.
:yoiks:

[Deja Q]

42. And the bigger the balance, the better

:spray:


And you don't want to have any early overdrafts...

:hide:

[bicentennial_baby]

26. Hands, forearms, eyes, lips...

:)

[RedStateShame]

29. The cactus up my ass?

[reyd reid reed]

30. Forearms, hands, eyes

A nice butt is a bonus but hardly necessary. Someone who takes care of himself.

It comes down to what's Inside more than outside. I want someone who can speak well and is thoughtful and smart and kind and has a sense of humor, even (maybe especially) about himself. Someone who can take things with a grain of salt and laugh at life's problems...then go out and slay a dragon or two.

With a smile on his face.

Is that so much to ask for?

:shrug:

[TOhioLiberal]

40. in other words:

This guy:


Smart, thoughtful, kind good sense of humor, definitely a dragon slayer.

hummm...Join the club!

[WritingIsMyReligion]

50. YEAH! It's Keith! YOOHOO!

:loveya::loveya:

[u4ic]

31. Lips, eyes ...

(I flip back and forth between lips and eyes while they're talking; concentrating heavily on lips)

Shoulders, arms, hands, thighs, butt...yes, even a quick crotch check - but I can appreciate most physical types.

I really watch for facial expressions, body language...the energy someone is emanating (I can't actually 'see' that)...I don't compartmentalize that well; I take the whole man into account.

[Missy Vixen]

32. Eyes

Do they twinkle? Is there a naughty glint as well?

The rest: Tall. Broad shoulders. Hands. :blush: It doesn't matter how handsome the guy is, though -- if he's got nothing to say or is stuck on himself, I don't want to talk to him.

Julie

[SoyCat]

34. Eyes. Especially brown or green eyes (husband's are brown & beautiful)

[Guava Jelly]

35. I am going to be the bigger man and not respond

As you did in my thread earlier.
But just fyi
Your thread isn't any less of a sex type thread then mine was!
I am not trying to start anything.
I just think you should look at yourself before you judge others.
And If I bother you please put me on ignore
Other then that I would like to be your friend .

[sarge43]

36. Eyes

Add long lashes and ....

[The Velveteen Ocelot]

39. Eyes and hands, mainly; with a quick glance

at the package. :evilgrin:

[graywarrior]

41. Eyes. Emotional eyes.

[Digit]

43. Eyes, then smile...followed by personality

The voice also plays a role.

[slackmaster]

44. Wow, looks like the eyes have it

:popcorn:

[RevolutionaryActs]

46. Eyes, smile.

Yup. :)

[TheMightyFavog]

47. Gay porn?

IIRC, isn't the fastest growing market for male-male gay porn straight women?

[hotforteacher]

48. Oh yes.

Hot. White hot.

:evilgrin:

[Deja Q]

64. For real?!

:wow:

Hetero porn is much more fun to look at... :rofl:

[ThingsGottaChange]

49. You asked for it!

AN INTERESTING BUT NOT TOO SURPRISING STUDY....



A study conducted by UCLA's Department of Psychiatry has revealed that the kind of face a woman finds attractive on a man can differ depending on where she is in her menstrual cycle.



For example: If she is ovulating, she is attracted to men with rugged and masculine features.



However, if she is menstruating or menopausal, she tends to be more attracted to a man with a spear lodged in his chest and tape over his mouth while he is on fire.



No further studies are planned.

[HarukaTheTrophyWife]

51. Eyes, pretty face overall, then boobs

[koneko]

53. At any given moment, Mulder!!!!

I saw him driving w/ Tea a couple of years ago, and he's hotter in person, if that's possible!!!

[ikojo]

66. Not only is DD HOT but he's SMART as well

He was studying for his PhD at Princeton when he got the acting bug.

Sorry academia!!

[NewWaveChick1981]

54. At very first sight, face and eyes... Upon further inspection, butt, lips,

and "package." :evilgrin: Oh, and then the brain.... :P

Upon edit: I totally forgot to say that I DO check out the Hand/Foot/Nose Index... :evilgrin: :rofl: It's right more often than not...

[sendero]

55. What's with all this ..

... hand stuff? What about the hands are y'all talking about? Size of hands, grooming, just what?

Silly me, I thought most women looked at backsides, probably projecting because that's what I look at on a woman :) You can tell a lot about a woman by the shape and size of here derriere :)

[lukasahero]

57. Long, slender, graceful hands work for me

I'm sure others like a different look.

But hands are 3rd on my list behind the ever popular eyes and shoulders. :)

[ScreamingMeemie]

58. For me, it's hands that look capable of either changing a tire or

changing a baby. :hi:

[WritingIsMyReligion]

60. General shape of hands, plus length/strength of fingers.

The lovelier, the better; I like hands that are elegant but with a sort of lithe strength. I like musician-hands the most, though, because you already know what they can do. :evilgrin:

[Missy Vixen]

59. Now I have to post a picture, too

Sigh.



Julie
still president for life of the PFEB

[Radical Activist]

61. Does anyone else think the women who answered eyes

Are all lying? ;)

[Maine-ah]

62. his nose.

on first sight, it always draws my attention, but it doesn't really mean a whole lot to me. A good ass is what I prefer. He doesn't need to be all buff or anything either. Infact, I find muscular men kinda unattractive. I prefer something in between muscular and not so muscular. Hair/bald doesn't matter as long as it looks good, but a damn hairy chest gets me everytime!

If I had a pic of my hubby:loveya: Hell, he's been hot since 7th grade when I met him! :loveya:

[BarenakedLady]

63. There isn't just one thing

It could be anything really. Smile, eyes, build, height. It all depends. A really sexy voice will do it for me too. lol.

[Maine-ah]

67. welcome BarenakedLady!

I understand the voice thing, toss it in with an accent from anywhere but America....oooooh! (especially Scottish!)

[BarenakedLady]

68. Thanks for the welcome

And I totally agree about the accents. :thumbsup:

[ikojo]

65. I like strong legs...bicyclists have

awesome legs!!

[Mad_Dem_X]

69. Eyes and biceps

After that, butts.

[AspenRose]

70. Eyes, shoulders, hair, hands, height/build

Pretty much in that order....I like guys who wear glasses



The deal with the hands, for me, is: Are they clean? Does he bite his nails or are his nails too long? Does he have dirt under the nails (not necessarily a bad thing if he's a landscaper or rancher, but I notice)? I can sometimes glean info from the condition of the hands....but I like strong yet gentle hands.