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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-07-06 07:55 PM
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It's been six months and one day since I found out I was dumped!
Edited on Thu Sep-07-06 07:56 PM by crim son
Anybody want to go out and throw rocks at passing cars with me? :evilfrown:

on edit: as usual I'm posting and running because this is too depressing.
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LadyoftheRabbits Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-07-06 07:56 PM
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1. I'd be happy to!
:hug: :hi:
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-07-06 07:57 PM
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4. It sounds like fun, doesn't it? n/t
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ZombieNixon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-07-06 07:56 PM
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2. Ooh yes!
I love destruction! :evilgrin: :hug:
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-07-06 07:58 PM
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5. If the streets are empty, we can break into people's homes
and smash their t.v.s, okay?
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ZombieNixon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-07-06 07:58 PM
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6. I live in downtown Chicago.
Can we do that anyway? :evilgrin:
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-07-06 08:01 PM
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11. It's a great city,
and Yeah, why not? First I have to win the lottery though, so I can fly over. Then, we're on!!!
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MrScorpio Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-07-06 07:57 PM
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3. Piece of advice:
Get back in the fight
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-07-06 08:00 PM
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10. Not possible. To add insult to injury,
my only going-out friend has finally solidified her relationship with her longterm boyfriend (that'd be the one my ex said was "not like him, because he truly loved me and was going to 'declare his love' while my friend's boyfriend was a jerk.") I can't get into the fight without a girlfriend. It just isn't done!
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-07-06 07:59 PM
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7. All that pain you'd be causing!
Just think of those rocks!


Wouldn't it be fun to go out to dinner instead?

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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-07-06 08:03 PM
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12. With whom? My STBEx husband?
Don't try to alleviate my self-pity. I've been hanging tough for over a week and I need to indulge (okay, last weekend I wrote him drunken emails but he doesn't read his DU PMs so I'm safe there).
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-07-06 08:05 PM
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14. That's fair.
Still, you deserve this:

:hug:
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-07-06 08:06 PM
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16. I've taken them
and have them clenched between my teeth. Thanks.
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-07-06 07:59 PM
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8. My dear crim son.......
I'm right there with you, baby....

Even though today things are good for me........

I want them to be good for you as well......

And remember, before you can have construction, you must have destruction...

Love you bunches, sweetie.....:hug: :loveya:

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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-07-06 08:04 PM
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13. After six months, he's not coming back!
(Said in a panicked wail)
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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-07-06 08:00 PM
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9. You were not dumped!!!! you were liberated!!!!!
:)
:hi:
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-07-06 08:05 PM
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15. Liberated to float all alone in the Void while
aging and becoming cynical at an alarmingly rapid rate. Until him, I maintained my youth. Now I'm old and insecure. It's his worst crime, in my opinion, taking away my belief in myself.
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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-07-06 08:11 PM
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20. Don't let anyone take that away from you!!
Hell you are a nice woman raising a family..You are kicking ass at school!!
Being or feeling lonely is one thing..But girl you got to believe in yourself!!
Hell I never met you..And i believe in you.
I Think you will do fine!!
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-07-06 08:14 PM
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21. You'd have to understand exactly the kind of woman
he chose instead of me. And I'm not talking physical, although I really could. If you did, you'd cry yourself to sleep too. But enough of that because I don't want to get banned!
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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-07-06 08:20 PM
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23. Kira/crim..Screw him and his choices!
http://youtube.com/watch?v=k-IzFAjELYI
I think you are stuck in a moment..
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nini Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-07-06 08:08 PM
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17. Well, You have a choice
You can let him continue to control your life and be miserable or you fight to move on.

YOU are allowing yourself to miss out on too many good things in life by dwelling on someone who left you 6 months ago. I know it hurts but it will keep hurting until you force yourself to move on.

Do you want someone back that has done that to you? I hope not. Give yourself a gift and get out and find new things to do to keep yourself busy.

Good Luck.
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-07-06 08:09 PM
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19. If you think I haven't been trying, you are mistaken.
But you mean well and I appreciate it.
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nini Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-07-06 08:20 PM
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22. I did mean well.
I didn't mean you don't try.. you have to keep focused. I truly wish you well.

The best revenge is to move on and flourish.


good luck
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-07-06 08:08 PM
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18. Going to read now. Goodnight good people &
Don't stay up and post too late!.
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-07-06 08:48 PM
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24. I'll go
:bounce:
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