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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 05:43 AM
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Agh!
I was just told by a coworker "that's bollocks" and to "shut up".

:wtf:

:grr:

This place has a real problem with its work culture.

:nuke:
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 05:46 AM
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1. Awww Billy!
I'm headed into a dysfunctional workplace right now. :hug:

When a company lays off 350 people, morale goes down the toilet.

:(
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 05:51 AM
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4. That sucks
:hug:

With this place, it's not morale that's the problem. It's a really old fashioned work culture. The previous IT Director when I started was this old guy who thought the correct way to manage was to shout and swear at people. Really old school, crude and rude. It's changing now, we have a new director, but the old habits die hard, and they infect the younger employees (this guy who swore at me is my age).
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NMMNG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 05:47 AM
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2. Tell him to sod off, the blimey prat!
:P



On a serious note, sorry your coworkers are so rude. :hug:
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 05:53 AM
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5. I think that wouldn't help. ;)
This place's work culture is 30 years behind the rest of the world. :hug:
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tjwmason Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 05:50 AM
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3. You should have kicked him in the dangly bits
and said "no they're bollocks".

:hug:
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 05:53 AM
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6. Honestly
I had to go outside for a few minutes to calm down, I was so mad. :hug:
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NMMNG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 05:53 AM
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7. LOL
That reminds me of a time when I was a teenager. I was out with two friends who were arguing with one another. One was fumbling with her drink and spilled a bit on the other who said, "watch out, you got me wet". "No," came the reply, "this is wet". Suddenly she took the lid off her drink and threw the entire contents at the friend. I watched the entire thing in awe for a moment then burst out laughing.
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zanne Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 08:21 AM
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32. You must be from the UK...
I love the way you have such cute names for body parts. "Dangly bits" sounds like a cat toy.
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 08:23 AM
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33. I thought Dangly Bits was a West Indies fast bowler
:hide:
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zanne Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 09:16 AM
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34. Now do I have to do a search on...
"West Indies fast bowler"?
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 06:00 AM
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8. I'll say it does...
Something like that would make me want to poke his eyes out. I can't stand it when people don't have the common sense to be polite. :hug: :hug: :hug:
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 06:04 AM
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9. It's so bad
People here are so unprofessional. :(

:hug:
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 06:11 AM
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10. ...and I bet they, themselves think they are models of professionalism.
The world's gone crazy. :hug:
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 06:18 AM
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12. He just apologised
My manager had a quick word with him. :)
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 06:25 AM
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16. Oh, I am glad to hear that.
:hug: Now you won't have to carry the negativity into the weekend.
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buddhamama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 06:17 AM
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11. wow- it sure does
what, if anything, was your response?
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 06:20 AM
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13. I waited until he was done doing what he was currently up to
and then quietly told him never to speak to me that way again. My project manager sits right next to me and overheard, and had a word with the guy a little bit later. The guy just apologised, so I consider that the end of the matter.
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buddhamama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 06:21 AM
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14. good and good
:hug:
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NewWaveChick1981 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 06:23 AM
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15. Nothing like abusive coworkers.
:hug: :hug: If you want, I'll kick his ass! And I'll get Skittles to do the same!

:* :loveya:
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 06:25 AM
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17. Hey you!!!
*mwah* :* *mwah* :* *mwah* :* !!!

No ass kicking required. But thank you all the same. I love you! :loveya:

:hi:
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Broken_Hero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 06:28 AM
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18. sorry
:shrug: that your coworkers are rough on ya...:)
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 06:39 AM
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19. Thanks
:hi:
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Heidi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 06:47 AM
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20. Lemme at 'em.
:grr:
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 06:51 AM
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21. He is contrite
But thanks. :hug: :loveya:
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Heidi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 06:54 AM
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23. I sent him threatening vibes.
:D
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AirmensMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 06:54 AM
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22. Oh, billy!
:hug: How could ANYONE say that to you? :hug:

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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 07:02 AM
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24. He managed it
;)

But thank you, sweetie. :hug: :loveya: :hi:
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Callalily Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 07:13 AM
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25. There is absolutely no
reason for people to swear in the workplace, to loose control like that. I'm glad your colleague had a "talkin' to". I really don't know how I would have reacted. Hope you can put it behind you, and just chalk it up to your colleagues stupidity.
<<< extra hugs for you this morning
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 07:29 AM
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27. Thanks 'Fugue!
:hug:
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 07:29 AM
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26. Sounds like he needs a nap.
:hug:
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 07:29 AM
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28. I know the feeling!
:D

:hug: :loveya:
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 07:35 AM
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29. Me too, and I just woke up.
:loveya:
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miss_american_pie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 08:12 AM
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30. That is not cool
:hug:
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 08:13 AM
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31. It surely wasn't
:hug:

Hi 'pie! :hi:
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rug Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 09:46 AM
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35. "Bollocks" doesn't quite enrage me.
loses something in the translation.
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 09:54 AM
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36. You had to be there
the "shut up" part was more offensive, and most of all it was the angry way in which he said it.
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rug Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 10:04 AM
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37. In that case, kick him in the bollocks.
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