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spacelady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 01:34 AM
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my life, my soulmate, my husband, the one person I always want to
be with, is having colon cancer surgery friday, we just found out yesterday, good preliminary prognosis, we have great support, but I am crying while he sleeps. Shoulders?
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auntAgonist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 01:35 AM
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1. spacelady ...
:hug:

Early detection of colon cancer is a good thing. One of the most easy to cure. I will pray and send good thoughts his way and yours too.

He can beat this! He will beat this.


:hug: :hug: :hug:
please don't cry :loveya:

aA
kesha
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spacelady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 01:44 AM
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4. Thank you, I agree, I am crying just this once. Your good wishes will help
Glenn is in good hands. I just love him so much.
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lildreamer316 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 01:36 AM
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2. Love to you.
Edited on Wed Aug-30-06 01:37 AM by lildreamer316
I am sending the strength of my soulmate and me.
Best of luck.

OH--and VISUALIZE VISUALIZE VISUALIZE.
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spacelady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 01:45 AM
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5. I can feel the caring , Thank You.
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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 01:40 AM
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3. Right here, spacelady.
I am so sorry to hear you husband is ill, but glad he has a good preliminary prognosis. I have two shoulders and two ears, and you can have them whenever you need. :hug:
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spacelady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 01:49 AM
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6. Thanks SeattleGirl. Perhaps caring people like you can make
a difference just by the good positive energy. Of course the shoulders & ears are a bonus-thank you!
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 01:50 AM
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7. My dear spacelady........
I'm here for you..........Shoulders and all......

:hug:

Whenever and wherever you need me.......Just ask.....

I am holding the good thoughts for you, and your beloved husband.....
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spacelady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 02:04 AM
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12. I was hoping for your well wishes 'cuz you are special.
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enigmatic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 01:52 AM
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8. Of course
:hug:
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Broken_Hero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 01:53 AM
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9. .....
:hug:
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Robeson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 01:55 AM
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10. I hope all goes well...
...a good preliminary prognosis sounds good. Of course, you have all our shoulders...:hug:
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spacelady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 02:03 AM
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11. You know, Glenn knows about DU, but so far doesn't partake
I just know there is strength here & if you can direct some of that energy & strength to him... we will be okay.
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spacelady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 02:19 AM
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13. Goodnight for now, long day. Thank you for any positive thoughts.
I would do anything for the love of my life - October 12th will mark our 15th anniversary.
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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 02:23 AM
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14. Here's my shoulder...
..:hug: Please get some rest and take care of yourself, too. :hug: :grouphug: :hug:
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RevolutionStartsNow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 02:35 AM
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15. Shoulders, hugs across the Net...
I don't know you, but I will be sending good thoughts. Go ahead and cry, but know that you have support you can't even see. :hug:
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speedoo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 02:36 AM
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16. Shoulders, arms, whatever you need...
:hug: :hug:
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regnaD kciN Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 03:45 AM
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17. Sending some more positive energy your way...
:hug:

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Burma Jones Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 05:03 AM
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18. I have some big shoulders
and wish you and your husband the best of all outcomes.
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 06:06 AM
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19. You got it spacelady...
You will be in my thoughts. I can't even imagine the worry. :hug:
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xchrom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 06:07 AM
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20. oh spacelady -- very scary! i'm sending you Good Vibes!
surprises like that are always very upsetting -- but i'm sure things will go very, very well.
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City Lights Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 06:43 AM
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21. Hope all goes well, spacelady.
:hug:
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In_The_Wind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 06:46 AM
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22. Good vibes are on the way ~~~~~~~~~

I hope all goes well with the surgery and his recovery.
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AirmensMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 06:51 AM
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23. Here's a shoulder.
:hug: I hope all goes well. You'll both be in my thoughts and prayers. :grouphug:
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Puglover Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 07:16 AM
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24. I can imagine how helpless you feel
having one of those soulmates myself. I'm there with you Spacelady. :hug:
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GCP Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 07:27 AM
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25. Hugs and good thoughts coming to you both
Edited on Wed Aug-30-06 07:28 AM by Godlesscommieprevert
:grouphug:
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 07:33 AM
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26. Shoulder right here, as well as some tea and sympathy.
Take care of yourself, too, and let us know how things went when you have a chance.

:grouphug:
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livetohike Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 08:29 AM
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27. Sending positive thoughts and prayers to you and your family
spacelady :hug:

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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 08:31 AM
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28. Sending out my good vibes and support.
Wishing and hoping all goes well.

It seems like they discovered this in an early stage, which is always good news.

I have a feeling he's going to be fine.

All the best!

:hug:
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Love Bug Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 08:45 AM
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29. Hugs, honey
Good vibes and healing Angels to both of you!
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mad-mommy Donating Member (884 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 09:40 AM
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30. dearest spacelady
my most sincere best wishes are with you both. I like to hear good prelim prognosis, and also the support. keep us posted.

:hug:
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MissMillie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 09:49 AM
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31. You'll be in my thoughts today
I'm sending you my very best wishes for a full recovery from this. :hug:
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buddhamama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 10:47 AM
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32. holding you both in my thoughts
good thougths for strength and wellness. (((hugs)))
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nothingshocksmeanymore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 10:48 AM
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33. Best wishes to you and your husband
Hope it all goes well
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myrna minx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 10:51 AM
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34. Oh, spacelady, my good vibes and prayers are
with you and your family. :hug:
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dpbrown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:32 AM
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35. Best wishes
I hope all goes well.
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spacelady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 12:31 PM
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36. Thank you all for your kind words and support. It is amazing that I can
actually FEEL the cyber-hugs and healing vibes! DU has some of the greatest & most caring people in the world. I will let you know how my dear husband is doing when I can. Just know that you are really helping me cope with this struggle.
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ulysses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 12:48 PM
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37. absolutely.
:hug: Strength to you.
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Mad_Dem_X Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 01:02 PM
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38. Sending good vibes your way...
:hug:
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NewWaveChick1981 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 01:05 PM
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39. Spacelady, I'm sending good vibes your way...
:hug: :hug: I know your husband will get through the surgery fine. My mother is a 9-year colon cancer survivor, and her surgery occurred very quickly after her diagnosis too. It was early-stage colon cancer, and they caught it in time. I know the same will be true for your husband, too.

All my best wishes for you both. :hug: :pals:
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spacelady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 09:49 PM
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40. Thanks. Good for your Mom. I think you are correct about us, too.
Your best wishes are very much appreciated.
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 10:39 PM
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41. Hey, spacelady
:hug:


Don't know what I'd do without Mr. Gray. He's having a doc recommended stress test tomorrow for chest pain.

Lots of love to you and Mr. Spacelady for good recovery.
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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 10:41 PM
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42. I have one you can use. As much as you need to.
Redstone
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borlis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 10:43 PM
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43. Sending good vibes your way! n/t
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derby378 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 10:44 PM
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44. I understand completely
My wife almost died in front of me a few years back - it's a roller-coaster ride on the emotional side, but it will get better, I promise you.

:hug:
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bluethruandthru Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 10:44 PM
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45. Sending good thoughts your way...
I just know everything will turn out well for both of you. Hugs to you! Stay positive!
:hug:
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RFKHumphreyObama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:02 PM
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46. My thoughts, prayers, best wishes, hugs, positive vibes
to your husband for a speedy and comprehensive recovery and for the best in terms of medical care. And to you also :hug;
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lavenderdiva Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:05 PM
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47. oh spacelady, I'm so very sorry to hear this news about your husband..
I will say a prayer for the both of you, and for your husband's surgeons. Sending you lots of good energy, and hugs: :hug: :hug: :hug:

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jus_the_facts Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:08 PM
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48. Oh I'm so sorry....
....you have my most heartfelt sympathy...my dad died last year from Leukemia....my mom is so lost without him....if you ever need someone to talk to or vent to...you've got my support...always. :hug: :loveya:
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spacelady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:38 PM
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49. That means so very much. Your Mom is blessed to have you. And I
just got a feeling that your Dad is right there, being with you but more with your Mom, watching and wanting to assure her that he is there for her.
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jus_the_facts Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-30-06 11:56 PM
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50. Thank You....She says she dreams of him a lot...
...I've had a few but we never speak to one another...my niece just had a little girl and she looked so much like my Dad when they took the newborn picture at the hospital...it's uncanny...and she was born the same exact time we were havin' his memorial service last year...the pain of losin' him is still so very difficult to deal with...he was my rock and the only person on this earth who loved me unconditionally...eventhough we disagreed on so many things...I was always his baby girl and the love was always there regardless of what he ever did to disappoint me or I..him. :cry:

Sendin' strength and love to you both. :loveya: :hug:
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