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Fuzz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-19-03 04:08 PM
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The interracial dating thread in GD reminded me of this story
When I was much younger and in college I met this extremely attractive and intelligent african-american woman at work (I'm a white guy, with a nickname like Fuzz that should be obvious :) ). We spoke on several occasions and I ended up asking her out; fortunately she said yes. We went out a couple times. We didn't have much in common, but she was a great person nonetheless.

Here's the funny/weird part. This gay guy I worked with thought it was completely disgusting.

I just stared at him and blinked repeatedly in complete confusion.
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bedtimeforbonzo Donating Member (344 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-19-03 04:13 PM
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1. maybe
Maybe he just thinks breeder relationships are distasteful :)

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BlueEyedSon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-19-03 04:19 PM
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2. Right....
Uuuuugh... you went out with a GIIIRL!
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commander bunnypants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-19-03 04:22 PM
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3. I went out with a black girl a few times
What a little kinker she was


DDQM
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AndyTiedye Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-19-03 05:35 PM
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6. Some Folks Don't Know What They're Missing
Patty & I have been together over thirty years now.
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skypilot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-19-03 04:56 PM
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4. Where I'm from...
... alot of gay men (at least gay white men)do seem to have a problem with interracial dating. Years ago I dated a white man and when we'd go to gay bars the white men would give us very obvious hostile looks and even whisper to each other while looking right at us. I've heard other white gay men comment on what a "nice change" it is to see an interracial gay couple. Obviously, this isn't a hostile remark but it does underscore just how uncommon these relationships are in the gay community in my city--the gay male community at least.
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Breezy du Nord Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-19-03 05:05 PM
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5. What thread?
I didn't see it. Do you have a link?
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Fuzz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-19-03 05:38 PM
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7. Sure
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