Make-out question for the ladies.

[Deja Q]

Do you ever instigate the first kiss, or do you wait for the guy to make the attempt, and then coyly accept or reject the advance? :shrug:

[Katina]

1. sometimes, you could die of boredom waiting for that first kiss

when the mood stikes, go for it.

[yvr girl]

2. first kiss ever

or first kiss at the time?

[Mutley]

3. Either, depending on the situation.

[CaliforniaPeggy]

4. Back in my dating days.......

I would just wait for the kiss......

It always came......

All the guys I dated wanted to kiss me........:shrug:

[Sugar Smack]

5. I miss kissing.

I miss the gentle, then firmer pressure on the lips, the light nibble of the tongue, the tongues clasping together as the heat increases, and the inhalation of another person's musk, hands cupping faces, tasting each other's mouths and

[Katina]

8. OMG!!!

and my husband went to a football game...shit! :evilgrin:

[Sugar Smack]

9. Shit, indeed!

:evilgrin: LOL- The Lounge is making me want to open a booth or something. *fans self*

[Katina]

11. time to lower the AC

you are an evil girl!!! :D

[Sugar Smack]

14. Takes one to know one *pals*

:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: <---What does that remind you of, btw? :D

[Katina]

15. LOL!!!

Now, I have to clean the wine I just spit out all over the screen... :D

[Sugar Smack]

19. OMG! I'm having Chianti, or I was before

it ended up on my keyboard!

Me---> :spray: <---Chianti!

[Deja Q]

16. Not to intercede, but I can think of something...

:evilgrin:

[Sugar Smack]

24. I need an intercession.

I need my fambly & loved ones to stop me before I do something drastic! :bounce:

[Deja Q]

32. In this day and age, drastic is tame!

:)

[Jamastiene]

153. Two women doing jumping jacks?

:evilgrin:

Btw, you would make a great steamy romance writer. I'd love so see some more, please.

[Sugar Smack]

154. LOL!

Thank you SO much! Sometimes, those RetroLounge poetry posts kinda get to me. :yourock:

[Deja Q]

155. And I like her that way!

:bounce: :evilgrin: :smoke:

[Deja Q]

18. WOW! Now THAT deserves a Pulitzer prize!

[Sugar Smack]

20. Noses rubbing delicately as

mouths suck and bite. Tastebuds tasting other tastebuds in a thirst quenched only by a deep, soulful kiss. Lips parting and welcoming, drawing in pleasure and gving it back with hunger and thirst.

[HarukaTheTrophyWife]

101. Damn it, Sugar Smack.

Now I'm all wound up.

[Jamastiene]

156. You are not alone. Jama fans face...

If she keeps this up, I just may have to take a midday "nap" to calm down. :hi:

[bridgit]

22. hubby has written about 'kissing' as among the premiere human...

erotica's; a brushing past lips, the mingled breathes of human interlude :blush: then as you rightly allude to..............

[Deja Q]

25. ...

:bounce:
:rofl:

[bridgit]

29. YOU!

:bounce: :hi:

[Deja Q]

30. Whee!

:rofl: :hi:

[Sugar Smack]

34. .

Tongues thrusting against one another as if in sword-play. The violent spasms of lust vibrating behind one's own eyelids and the splendid sweetness that engulfs one's limbs as one rocks back and forth in a perfect kiss.

[Deja Q]

36. Oh my!

:yourock:

[bridgit]

44. i do believe she could drive a carpet tack with the tip of her tongue...

:rofl:

[Deja Q]

46. Oh my!

:blush: :rofl:

[Sugar Smack]

47. What have you DONE, HT?

*Sung loudly in "Mommie Dearest" voice.* :o

[Deja Q]

49. Well, I either used a wire hanger, got jiggy in college, or put on a dress

I've seen that movie too, you know! :spray:

[Sugar Smack]

50. TINAAAAA!

BRING ME THE AXE.

Don't fuck with me, fellas. This ain't my first time at the rodeo. :D

[bridgit]

52. Aunt Ida, Aunt Ida, Aunt Ida...

[bridgit]

51. i love that ending exchange between Beatrice & Benedick...

"I would my horse had the speed of your tongue, and so good a continuer..." but i'm posting the entire exchange just cause i wanna ;-)

BENEDICK: If Signior Leonato be her father, she would not have his head on her shoulders for all Messina, as like him as she is.

BEATRICE: I wonder that you will still be talking, Signior Benedick: nobody marks you.

BENEDICK: What, my dear Lady Disdain! Are you yet living?

BEATRICE: Is it possible disdain should die while she hath such meet food to feed it as Signior Benedick? Courtesy itself must convert to disdain, if you come in her presence.

BENEDICK: Then is courtesy a turncoat. But it is certain I am loved of all ladies, only you excepted: and I would I could find in my heart that I had not a hard heart; for, truly, I love none.

BEATRICE: A dear happiness to women: they would else have been troubled with a pernicious suitor. I thank God and my cold blood, I am of your humour for that: I had rather hear my dog bark at a crow than a man swear he loves me.

BENEDICK: God keep your ladyship still in that mind! so some gentleman or other shall 'scape a predestinate scratched face.

BEATRICE: Scratching could not make it worse, an 'twere such a face as yours were.

BENEDICK: Well, you are a rare parrot-teacher.

BEATRICE: A bird of my tongue is better than a beast of yours.

BENEDICK: I would my horse had the speed of your tongue, and so good a continuer. But keep your way, i' God's name; I have done.

BEATRICE: You always end with a jade's trick: I know you of old.

:yourock:

[Sugar Smack]

53. That's IT!

I'm so freaking nominating this thread! :applause:

[Deja Q]

55. SQUEE!!!

:loveya:

:yourock:

:bounce:

[Sugar Smack]

56. hot sweet bucking of tongues

as teeth find lips and devour with single purpose. The kiss to end all kisses, and to blossom in honey and rolls of passion and love, as timeless as the fucking ocean and twice as violent & volatile. Undersea furtiveness and nature's wrath, the slow vibration of a snarling current.

[Deja Q]

57. Oh my!

:blush:

And, oh look! The F-word! :woohoo:


:spray:

[u4ic]

90. I need to whip out my

[Sugar Smack]

117. How about a mint julep?

We can sit on the veranda and watch the gentlemen go by, and fan ourselves.

One of the hottest things I've ever seen was a kiss between Jeremy Irons and Meryl Streep in "The French Lieutenant's Woman". That's what that lacy fan reminded me of. *swoon*

[u4ic]

152. There is quite the art

to the use of the fan.

It had a language all its own, once upon a time; definitely an important communication tool. I was in a play a few years back, a Restoration comedy, where I learned much of it.

I might have to rent the French Lieutenant's Woman again...it's been quite a while since I've seen it...

Wouldn't it be sacreligious to have a mint julep outside of Kentucky Derby Day? ;-)

[HarukaTheTrophyWife]

102. I would have clicked on this thread much sooner had I known it contained

this. Sugar Smack, in the future, provide me with notice if you're posting this somewhere.

[Deja Q]

103. Can't she try and convert me first?

:pout:


:rofl:

[Sugar Smack]

109. Don't you love those kisses that really mess with yout guts

and send fire licking to every nerve in your thighs?:woohoo:

[HarukaTheTrophyWife]

110. YES!

Why must you torture me so?

[Sugar Smack]

113. Because I'm typing this from the top of a clothesdryer.

:yoiks:

[HarukaTheTrophyWife]

118. Perv.

[Sugar Smack]

26. Kissing is,

isn't it? My gracious, I know!

You are the BOMB, kitten! :blush: :woohoo: :applause: :yourock: :loveya: The freaking BOMB.

[bridgit]

27. well you know i did mention he mentioned you had 'kissy lips', he...

keys on stuff like that :woohoo:

[Sugar Smack]

33. LOL!

I'd forgot that, mine beauteous Grandmaster Cheeseball! Good googley-moo!:loveya:

[crim son]

38. Me too. I once knew the most perfect kisser

but he's kissing somebody else these days.

[Sugar Smack]

41. Well REALLY! Fuck that shit.

My indignation for you knows no bounds. I hope you find a better kisser in the future. :grouphug:

[crim son]

45. I sincerely doubt it.

But I thank you for your indignation :hug:

[Sugar Smack]

59. ANY time!

Your bruises are my bruises, friend.:hug:

[GOPisEvil]

40. Damn, roomie!

I need a cigarette and a cold shower! :P

[Sugar Smack]

42. Whoops, how'd I end up

in this bed? Were you sleeping? I'm so sorry, you have no idea! :P :* :yourock:

[GOPisEvil]

43. Surprise, surprise, surprise!

Now THAT'S something worth waking up for! :hug::*:yourock:

[billyskank]

74. ...

:*




:blush:

[Sugar Smack]

85. What're you blushing about, you promiscuously-kissy poster?

:hug: :loveya: :*

[billyskank]

91. I was blushing at your original post

it made me a little hot under the collar. :blush:

:loveya: :hug:

[Aristus]

108. Whew! Damn, Sugar!

I'd love to hear the rest of that!

[Sugar Smack]

132. OMG- How are you, sweet thing?

:hug: :loveya: YOU! This forum sort of inspires me a little, I reckon. :blush:

[Name removed]

148. Deleted message

Message removed by moderator. Click here to review the message board rules.

[Starbucks Anarchist]

125. You have the perfect lips for kissing.

;)

[Sugar Smack]

129. You should have given my solar plexus a warning

for such a compliment! Thank you, honeylips! :hug:

[Starbucks Anarchist]

135. You're welcome!

And it's not "honeylips." It's "vinegarlips." ;)

[Sugar Smack]

143. The suggestive animal friction of a curving

tongue against a willing live mouth, the simple message divined fom such a hungry act and the greed it takes to touch another person so deeply, a shy invitation taken over & overwhelmed by the senses as angry insanity kicks in and causes the need to devour.

[RetroLounge]

147. *swoon*

You have most kissable lips...

:9

RL

[dolo amber]

6. Kissing leads to fornication

which is a sin in the eyes of Gawd. Plus, boys have cooties.

[Sugar Smack]

7. *splutters*

BWAHAHAHAHAAA! You're so technical. :rofl: :patriot: :yourock:

[dolo amber]

10. After I got done fightin' the Germans in 'Nam I decided to

fight the Germs here at home. Just doin' my job, ma'am. :patriot:

[Sugar Smack]

13. Dang, I feel like a moran!

:D Thanks fer the guidance & discipline! :patriot:

[Debi]

12. Only Hedges has cooties

Some boys shower

[Deja Q]

17. You mean this?

:bounce:
:rofl:




Not cooties, which look like

[HarukaTheTrophyWife]

104. That's why I'm a lesbian.

No cooties.

[Deja Q]

105. !

:spray:

[SoyCat]

21. I was pretty forward; I think that's how I got my husband!

[Ariana Celeste]

23. So was I

"We uhh, gonna do this here, or what?" ;)



:hi: Welcome to DU! :hi:

[SoyCat]

31. Two peas in a pod! Thanks for the welcome.

[MsKandice01]

28. I never instigated the first kiss...

But I'd make sure they knew once the kiss started whether I really wanted it or not.

[marzipanni]

35. Follow your instincts...

or study your subject-
http://www.writing.com/main/view_item/item_id/903327
Have fun!
P.S. Don't stick your tongue out too soon, better to be subtle at first.

[Sugar Smack]

37. Y'all are seroiusly making my night!

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: I Swannee!

[grannylib]

39. I've done both...(not in years, since I'm firmly and happily married!) but

yeah, I've made the first move.
Worked out rather well, too, as I recall *lol*

[idgiehkt]

48. I think I've probably been the instigator most of the time.

At least as far as I can remember. I dated a girl once and didn't even know for several weeks that the way we met was I went up to her in a bar and started kissing her without even introducing myself. To this day I don't remember that. When she started going on about how romantic it was and then saw the blank look on my face and realized I didn't remember, she was really hurt, and that was the beginning of the end of that relationship. One of the myriad reasons I no longer drink.

edit: I should add when I said I'd been the instigator I meant with both sexes. My first boyfriend may have kissed me first...

[reyd reid reed]

54. Depends

On how long it's taking him to make up his mind and how patient I am at the time. Sometimes I have the patience of a saint but sometimes...

When you're up against the wall, y'know, and it's time...

[Sugar Smack]

140. Boom!

Up against the wall! YOU--> :yourock:

[Deja Q]

141. Now I'm getting jealous!

:P

:loveya:

[bridgit]

58. this kiss whether accepted, or rejected remains...

I don’t want another heartbreak
I don’t need another turn to cry
I don’t want to learn the hard way
Baby, hello, oh, no, goodbye
But you got me like a rocket
Shooting straight across the sky

It’s the way you love me
It’s a feeling like this
It’s centrifugal motion
It’s perpetual bliss

It’s that pivotal moment
It’s impossible
This kiss, this kiss (Unstoppable)
This kiss, this kiss

Cinderella said to Snow White
How does love get so off course
All I wanted was a white knight
With a good heart, soft touch, fast horse

Ride me off into the sunset
Baby, I’m forever yours

It’s the way you love me
It’s a feeling like this
It’s centrifugal motion
It’s perpetual bliss

It’s that pivotal moment
It’s unthinkable
This kiss, this kiss (Unsinkable)
This kiss, this kiss

You can kiss me in the moonlight
On the rooftop under the sky
You can kiss me with the windows open
While the rain comes pouring inside
Kiss me in sweet slow motion
Let’s let every thing slide
You got me floating, you got me flying

It’s the way you love me
It’s a feeling like this
It’s centrifugal motion
It’s perpetual bliss

It’s that pivotal moment
It’s subliminal
This kiss, this kiss (It’s Criminal)
This kiss, this kiss

[Sugar Smack]

60. One of the world's most coveted activities

:bounce: :toast: O, yeah!!!

[querelle]

61. You Ridiculous Man You.........

If I ever met you in person, I would knock you over the sofa trying to kiss you. Silly boy..........

Q

[Sugar Smack]

62. I know, isn't he?

:D He actually IS the definition of "sensual".

[Deja Q]

64. Well, you know what they say about ambidexterity...

:7

[Deja Q]

63. And I would offer as much resistance as...

sod this; I'd welcome you with open arms (and other appendages!) :D

[bridgit]

65. heehee, you said "appendages"...

:rofl:

[Deja Q]

66. !

:spray:

I do have quite the vocabulary... I'll refrain from the line Money Penny told James Bond in "Tomorrow Never Dies"... though we both know I don't want to! :rofl:

[Sugar Smack]

67. Sod it! Well said!

:applause: How freaking delightful!

[NewWaveChick1981]

68. Oh, I instigate...

Repeatedly. :evilgrin:

[Sugar Smack]

69. KISS FIX!!

*smooch smooch smooch*!! :* :* :*

[NewWaveChick1981]

70. Back at ya!!!!

:* :* :* :*

[Deja Q]

72. Oooh, and your response is #69 too!

:D

:* :* :* :*

[NewWaveChick1981]

73. ROFLMAO!

:rofl: Sug's response was indeed #69....

[Sugar Smack]

75. YES! 69 it was! LOL

:rofl: :patriot:

[billyskank]

76. You WOULD

:*

[NewWaveChick1981]

77. Yes, I WOULD...

:* :* :* :*

[billyskank]

81. :D

:* :loveya: :hug: :D

[Sugar Smack]

78. *bites tongue* OWW!!!

:rofl: :loveya:

[billyskank]

80. Hi Sug!

:hug:

:loveya:

[Deja Q]

79. I WOULDN'T

mind... :spray:

[billyskank]

82. Me neither

:D

[HarukaTheTrophyWife]

106. Why am I not surprised...

:hi:

[Sugar Smack]

137. NWC is one ultimate alphachick.

:bounce: Don't you sometimes think of that when you look at her? "Alphawoman".

[HarukaTheTrophyWife]

142. Yep. She's definitely in control...

unless she's letting someone else be in control, but that still really puts her in control.

BTW, why is she out having non-DU fun? She should be in this thread right now.

[NewWaveChick1981]

144. Hey, an alpha chick has to eat too...

:rofl: :hi: I'm back to take control again.... :evilgrin:

[HarukaTheTrophyWife]

146. Okay, you're forgiven...

[NewWaveChick1981]

150. Thank you, haruka...

:woohoo:

[NewWaveChick1981]

145. You guessed my secret superhero identity....

ALPHAWOMAN..... :rofl: Able to take control in a single bound...

Now I must kill you.... :yoiks:

[LadyoftheRabbits]

71. I'm a waiter...

Playing the coy card is kinda fun :P

[Sugar Smack]

83. The coy card, my great big fanny.

:rofl: You're so CUUTE!!!! Thanks for the laugh. :pals:

[LadyoftheRabbits]

88. ...

:P :rofl: :hug: :hi:

I know, I know...

[NewWaveChick1981]

86. The coy card's only fun if you're really NOT coy...

:evilgrin:

[LadyoftheRabbits]

89. Oh, but of course

O8)

:evilgrin:

[billyskank]

93. You have to know how much and with whom you can play it, of course

you don't want them to think you're not interested and give up. :hi:

[LadyoftheRabbits]

97. :D

Of course! I play smart ;) :hug: :hi:

[ZombieNixon]

99. Won't work, sugar t**s.

I already know your game. :eyes: :P

[LadyoftheRabbits]

100. ...

:rofl:

Alright, Mel...

[AutumnMist]

84. Well I Have Been in Both Positions

some have worked out and some have not. LOL. It depended on the situation and what I was feeling at the moment I suppose.

[Sugar Smack]

87. I liked you're sensible, not out-of-control answer!

:hi: :bounce: Although HT is making me want to go be his agent! :toast:

[Deja Q]

92. Cool!!

:bounce:

[AutumnMist]

94. LOL!

Being an agent...yummy. :evilgrin:

[Fox Mulder]

95. If a woman kissed me first...

I'd be hers forever.

It sucks for a man to always make the first move. If I ever met a woman who kissed me first (and wasn't shy), I'd probably fall in love with her.

[Deja Q]

98. Same here. Even if I can ready the body language, I tend to miss the cues

And even if I can feel the body language, which I did - twice in my life... I still couldn't take the first move.

I'll try to next time; hope there is one.

[Sugar Smack]

111. Body Language.

I remember switching placecards so I'd be sitting next to you, and how after 2 beers I found myself with my nose mashed up against your sleeve, trying to inhale your fabric softener.

:toast:

[Deja Q]

114. I must inform you my regret;

I don't use fabric softener. :)

:pals:

The after-2-beers bit is something of a surprise, however. :wow:

[bridgit]

115. hmm, must have been Essence of HypnoToad...

:thumbsup:

[Deja Q]

116. I tried marketing it once,

but "HypnoToad's Smell" isn't exactly a good name for a product...

:hide:

[bridgit]

120. i very much enjoy Alan Cumming's work as an actor, but have you seen...

this http://www.cummingthefragrance.com/html/commercial.html it's called 'cumming' :rofl:

[Deja Q]

121. !

:spray: :spray: :spray: :spray: :spray: :spray: :spray: :spray:

[Sugar Smack]

122. *puts head on desk helplessly*

:rofl:

[Deja Q]

133. You know how they have those life-size mascot outfits at baseball games?

Well, imagine somebody walking around looking like a large bottle of Cumming. :spray:

[Sugar Smack]

138. The two beers just made me braver.

I would have mashed my nose in your sleeve sober. :D

[Deja Q]

139. !

:woohoo: :blush: :D

[u4ic]

96. I don't have any problems

making the first move. :-)

[Sugar Smack]

126. Sometimes we like to follow our lips.

:bounce: :pals:

[HarukaTheTrophyWife]

107. I've instigated with both sexes.

And with a couple of gender neutral people.

[bridgit]

112. i've worked in hollywood so can relate...

not that there's anything wrong with that :rofl:

[HarukaTheTrophyWife]

119. Yeah, and I've got the theatre thing going on.

My one regret in life was sleeping through a game of naked tag in the Equity house featuring the hottest actors in the cast.

[bridgit]

123. HEY! sup, sistah, i'm all about Equity...

http://www.sagawards.com i have to be i still pay the dues :thumbsup:

[HarukaTheTrophyWife]

124. I'm not Equity yet, but hopefully this fall.

I just ended up living in Equity housing for awhile because the company ran out of non-equity housing. The naked tag participants all got reprimanded for "not acting like adults." They all tried to argue that they were pretty much acting like well...actors.

[bridgit]

127. preee-cisley, tell them it's all about 'method'...

:-) actors not acting like actors i mean really :rofl:

[HarukaTheTrophyWife]

131. I would have had no excuse though.

I'm stage management.

[bridgit]

134. takes a big tent putting on a show, i'm admin, script & lighting tech...

we're all so ka-razzy on some level somewhere, fuck'em if they can't get with the program...well i mean if you wanna that is ;-)

[HarukaTheTrophyWife]

136. Oh I have.

;)

[Nicole]

128. I wait for him to instigate the first kiss

I reserve my instigations for the bedroom. ;)

[Deja Q]

130. Logical.

Now all I need is practice. :)

[BlueIris]

149. I have always, always, always been the one to kiss first.

Couldn't tell you why that is--other than that I keep picking the shy/polite guys, who don't want to appear as if they are too forward or aggressive when it comes to the kissing. I think it's kinda weird that I've always been the one to initiate the kissing, because, well, er, it's rare that I will initiate much else...except, um, other kinds of kissing...but there you have it. When it comes to the kissing, BlueIris is a hooer.

[buddhamama]

151. i have initiated

but i will only do so if i think the kiss will be welcomed and the feelings are reciprocated.



edited for clarity