Strangest DittoHead Ever... She Married a Gay Man...

[Tom Yossarian Joad]

And still insists she has no liberal leanings...

Okay, long story short: I had an affair (long term) with a dittohead and then she married a gay man. I'm straight. (No comments on my prowess:) )

I know the guy and love him. He's a great guy but leans right.

I fell in love with the girl for reasons I won't get into. And have now been told sex is still okay????

I said congratulations... Let's all pool our resources and buy a villa in SA and it went over great....

She still loves Rush, is an MBA from Samford... But is so fucking liberal in her actions that I am left confused.




Dear Abby, WTF should I do?

[ComerPerro]

1. That's not necessarily liberal. Maybe she was trying to "cure" him

of his gayness.

And, BTW, hes probably still very gay.

[Tom Yossarian Joad]

7. Yes, he is.. And she isn't trying to "cure him." They have been close for

thirty years....?

[ComerPerro]

9. Sounds like she's more selfish than liberal

its not like she thinks its ok to be gay.

Quite the contrary, it seems.

She wanted him, so she went after him.

Nothing especially liberal about that.

[Tom Yossarian Joad]

13. A rational part of me says that...

There's the comfort factor and an economic factor involved here...

[Deja Q]

19. No, but to be wanted is one helluva nice feeling. TO be loved and sought.

Maybe that's why he married her?

This is all conjecture, which makes it even more bizarre when I can say I can empathize with all that! :)

And it isn't liberal.

It's not hippie either.

It's human.

Go after what you want. Carpe diem.

[Tom Yossarian Joad]

21. I think you are very, very right. n/t

[acmavm]

2. Probably not her.

[Tandalayo_Scheisskopf]

3. Tom, I want you to read your post over...

Anywhere between 5 to 10 times, before it really sinks in what you have described. Then, ask yourself one simple question:

Do I really need to go there?

[Tom Yossarian Joad]

8. I know....! But goddammit, I love the both of them in different ways

and have seen this coming for a time....

Jesus, this has been an odd voyage.

[Tandalayo_Scheisskopf]

15. Thomas...

take it from me:

Way. Too. Fiddly.

[Tom Yossarian Joad]

16. LOL... I know... I just had a pair of socks knocked off me. n/t

[The Velveteen Ocelot]

4. Run away.

[NMDemDist2]

5. is this a joke Tom?

if not, watch out she's setting you up for a three way

and the mods will be setting this up for the Lounge any minute

:pals:

[Mojambo]

6. That's not liberal, it's dysfunctional

I say bag the whole thing.

[Nikki Stone 1]

10. Sounds like you've got a great sitcom pilot

:)

[Swamp Rat]

11. LOLOLOL!!!!!

:rofl:

[Tom Yossarian Joad]

14. LOL, Fuck you, Swamp Rat!

:toast:

That IS funny!

[walldude]

12. Hmmm.. I got nothing man...

except Good luck...

[Tom Yossarian Joad]

17. HELP ME LOUNGE! n/t

[Deja Q]

18. As long as he doesn't cheat, who cares who he marries?

I know a gay guy who married... and things got worse for him after divorcing.

I won't go into the details, but I saw the pain he, his wife, and his children went through. I wish he never divorced and kept thinking of his family. His divorce proved he loved them the most.

[Tom Yossarian Joad]

20. Hi, HT... This shouldn't be the case... The logic (RePug) I heard was for

"financial" reasons. It seems to me at the moment, that they are just using each other's freindship for very selfish purposes.

[Deja Q]

22. Now I think you are very, very right.

:)