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rudy2 August 16th, 2006 01:42 PM
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How does your husband let you know "he's in the Mood"? I was just wondering how other men let their wife know they are in the "mood". I hate the way my dh does it. He says vulgar things and it really just turns me OFF.
LoveMyCats August 16th, 2006 02:24 PM
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Sadly... I don't know :noidea
I"m the one always initiating...
Kilokahn August 16th, 2006 02:27 PM
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I guess I try to be to the point with my wife, though when I am in the mood I am also very cuddily and kissy. Vulgar things? Yeah, I agree that would be a turn-off.
snb1014 August 16th, 2006 02:33 PM
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:spit Literally I almost choked when I saw this thread, this is too funny
My husband will sometimes flat out ask for 'it' or well be laying down and hell start rubbing my back (All four play starts with my getting a massage, smart, I know!)
As for dirty talk, not into it at all and I agree it would probably turn me off. Not that its bad, its just not my thing, everyone is different though so Im not trying to be offensive From what you've said you dont like it so I would definetly politely mention that to my husband and maybe suggest other avenues to try?
MandMsMommy August 16th, 2006 02:39 PM
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Usually it's a hint if he takes the phone off the hook, locks all doors and closes all windows. ROFL!
cherry August 16th, 2006 03:02 PM
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Originally Posted by MandMsMommy (Post 3474519) Usually it's a hint if he takes the phone off the hook, locks all doors and closes all windows. ROFL! --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
:pound
phight4life August 16th, 2006 03:08 PM
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My hubby usually closes and locks the bedroom door and says "I need some lovin' from my wife." And then when we get into bed...he says the vulgar stuff...so, that there has always turned me off. I know when the door goes shut that's what's on his mind...just turns me off right there. Of course, I'm now sick and have so much pain...that doesn't help. My question...I've seen several post on here that they have constant pain and take pain pills for it...how do you deal with doing "it"? Just curious. Thanks everyone. I'm having some issues in this area...lol. :faint
cherry August 16th, 2006 03:10 PM
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Originally Posted by phight4life (Post 3474615) My hubby usually closes and locks the bedroom door and says "I need some lovin' from my wife." And then when we get into bed...he says the vulgar stuff...so, that there has always turned me off. I know when the door goes shut that's what's on his mind...just turns me off right there. Of course, I'm now sick and have so much pain...that doesn't help. My question...I've seen several post on here that they have constant pain and take pain pills for it...how do you deal with doing "it"? Just curious. Thanks everyone. I'm having some issues in this area...lol. :faint --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
that may be beyond the scope of this board.
phight4life August 16th, 2006 03:28 PM
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OK, thank you! You can't say I didn't try...lol! :doh :thumb
badweather August 16th, 2006 03:54 PM
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:lol i would love to respond but i can't......this is a christian board and i just don't think it is appropriate.
ok, lets just say he is very direct and usually doesn't SAY anything... :faint that may have still be saying to much. i wish he would be more romantic but after 15 years i guess i am use to it
Sophie August 16th, 2006 03:56 PM
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He lets me know he's taken a Viagra, which gives me about a half hour to prepare.:lol
Funmudder August 16th, 2006 04:18 PM
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He flirts continually from the time he gets home. :lol
Kung Pao Smurf August 16th, 2006 04:21 PM
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Not sure if guys can respond...but it didn't say 'Guys only' and you DID want to know how we 'let y'all know.' :lol
My wife and I usually do it the same way....we'll give each other a smooch, but whereas we usually smooch and move on, one or the other will grab the other person as if to say "Hey, pal, I ain't done yet...."
That's a pretty good indicator that one of us is in the 'mood.' :lol
barb August 16th, 2006 04:21 PM
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He asks me if I would like a back rub. (Of course, the back rub is never "free"...) :rolleyes
Live4Jesus August 16th, 2006 04:23 PM
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He gives me a look that makes me weak in the knees. :love
LisaAnn August 16th, 2006 05:57 PM
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Can your hubby talk to my hubby? I would LOVE it if he did that!!! :nod He might find it really works to his advantage. :whistle
cookie August 16th, 2006 06:53 PM
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well he usually flirts with me all the time. :lol so thats out. If he really just wants sex? "honey can we have sex?" PLEASE!!!!!!! :lol If im in the mood and it aint the right time. Honey just waite till tonight. :heh
If not I say don't try it right now cause it aint going to happen. lol
mustangwife August 16th, 2006 07:06 PM
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:pound :spit i hear ya
mustangwife August 16th, 2006 07:08 PM
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oh my gosh, my husband is in the mood every night.....its crazy
Moony2ns August 16th, 2006 07:27 PM
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If my husband comes home breathing, it's usually a good indicator.
imfree August 16th, 2006 07:49 PM
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:pound yep....mine too.
MandMsMommy August 16th, 2006 08:20 PM
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Moony, Mustang and Imfree, go give your hubby a big hug and say: "Thank you for being facinated with God's greatest gift to you. Me!!!!!"....and leave them confused. :)
It really is a blessing to see that God has placed your husband's desires on you! May God continue to bless every one of us and our marriages, and to put his healing touch on us all, and protect our marriage beds. Amen? :hug
Diane 1611 August 16th, 2006 09:52 PM
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How do I know when my dh is in the mood? When I come into the bedroom after doing my nightly beauty routine and he's lying on the bed in his birthday suit. Gee, sometimes I wish he was a little more subtle. :rolleyes
rudy2 August 16th, 2006 10:10 PM
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I love all the different ways your guys let you know. I've tried telling my dh that I don't like the dirty talk, he doesn't always do that, once in a blue moon I might get a peck on the cheek and "I need you".
kitten August 16th, 2006 11:53 PM
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That's very true :D: also he does the back massage thing, other times he's more obvious :laugh
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