Start of Maarten & Julia buffer: Sun Aug 20 22:15:08 2006
<21:56> Helderheid Geloof: you around?
<21:56> Maarten & Julia: Yes I am :)
<21:56> Helderheid Geloof: hey you :)
<21:56> Maarten & Julia: Hey how are ya doing?
<21:56> Helderheid Geloof: How are you two doing?
<21:57> Helderheid Geloof: jinx!
<21:57> Maarten & Julia: Not too bad actually :)
<21:57> Helderheid Geloof: that is wonderful to hear! You still in the same place?
<21:57> Maarten & Julia: Yep, for now. We are looking to buy, but the market is horrible in socal
<21:58> Maarten & Julia: And looking to change employment, been with same company for 4 years now
<21:58> Helderheid Geloof: Utah....
<21:58> Helderheid Geloof: :)
<21:59> Maarten & Julia: Nah, not my kind of state, I am way too libaral ;)
<21:59> Maarten & Julia: We're seriously considering Portland, Oregon though
<21:59> Helderheid Geloof: LMAO!!!
<21:59> Helderheid Geloof:
http://vrijheid.livejournal.com/<21:59> Helderheid Geloof: I'm afraid to talk about it
<22:00> Maarten & Julia: Looks nice, yer personal blog?
<22:00> Helderheid Geloof: yes. One I've not posted to for over a year
<22:01> Maarten & Julia: So... I read it, and it seems you and M are somewhat on a rocky path at the moment?
<22:02> Helderheid Geloof: I need to hit the hay but can I call you tomorrow?
<22:02> Maarten & Julia: Well, you can Julia, I will be at work :) Unless you are specifically looking for me.
<22:03> Helderheid Geloof: Maarten I was confused! :P
<22:03> Maarten & Julia: Heh thats ok ;)
<22:03> Helderheid Geloof: Damn you! :P
<22:04> Helderheid Geloof: Please tell Julia I will call her tomorrow
<22:04> Helderheid Geloof: I do need her
<22:04> Maarten & Julia: I haven't changed my ICQ number since 1997, its yer fault ;)
<22:04> Maarten & Julia: Ok I will
<22:04> Helderheid Geloof: heheehhheheh!
<22:04> Helderheid Geloof: Nite
<22:04> Maarten & Julia: She is here right now if you want to talk before you go to bed
<22:04> Helderheid Geloof: That would be great
<22:04> Maarten & Julia: Let me ask, hold on :)
<22:05> Maarten & Julia: Go and call here, she has the phone :)
<22:05> Maarten & Julia:
<22:05> Helderheid Geloof: I will just cry
<22:06> Maarten & Julia: You wanna chat with her?
<22:06> Helderheid Geloof: Please
<22:06> Helderheid Geloof: brb
<22:07> Helderheid Geloof: k
<22:07> Maarten & Julia: hey its julia
<22:07> Maarten & Julia: crying is ok too you know
<22:07> Helderheid Geloof: hey honey -
<22:07> Helderheid Geloof: I can't be weak in front of him
<22:07> Helderheid Geloof: I really can't
<22:08> Maarten & Julia: ok.... in a nutshell. whats happened
<22:10> Helderheid Geloof: In a nutshell... It's hard to say. I can say 6 years of tension blew up in a night. I critisized his reaction to how I marinated steaks. He threw the meat in my face. The same man that makes fun of my weight, cooking, judgement, etc.
<22:10> Helderheid Geloof: I really am thinking we rushed it. I don't know what else to say
<22:11> Maarten & Julia: how long have you been pretending things were ok?
<22:11> Helderheid Geloof: Since Luc was born
<22:12> Helderheid Geloof: God woman
<22:12> Helderheid Geloof: You know the questions to ask
<22:12> Maarten & Julia: does he have regrets of moving to the US claire
<22:12> Helderheid Geloof: no
<22:12> Maarten & Julia: regrets about having the kids?
<22:12> Helderheid Geloof: he loves it here. I've asked him to move back
<22:12> Helderheid Geloof: oh yea. I really think he regrets them
<22:13> Helderheid Geloof: Can we do this tomorrow?
<22:13> Maarten & Julia: yes absolutely i am home all day
<22:13> Helderheid Geloof: I am crying too much with him 10 feet away
<22:13> Maarten & Julia: please go take care of yourself
<22:13> Helderheid Geloof: Bless you my friend
<22:13> Maarten & Julia: hugs to you my little sister
<22:14> Helderheid Geloof: night
<22:14> Maarten & Julia: til tomorrow
End of Maarten & Julia buffer: Sun Aug 20 22:15:08 2006