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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 08:48 PM Original message |
Can you turn down being a bridesmaid? |
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texanwitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 08:50 PM Response to Original message |
1. Yes you can, just so no. |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 08:52 PM Response to Reply #1 |
3. thanks, good to know |
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Kire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 08:52 PM Response to Original message |
2. My first reaction was that you would regret it forever. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-17-06 12:31 AM Response to Reply #2 |
34. kire, you will NEVER regret it |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-17-06 01:39 AM Response to Reply #2 |
38. Yup. You're right on, Kire. |
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Sugar Smack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 08:53 PM Response to Original message |
4. You are not cut of the "Bridesmaid cloth". Say "NO" and it will |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 08:53 PM Response to Original message |
5. Yes. |
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IsIt1984Yet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 08:55 PM Response to Original message |
6. Will you be attending the wedding at all? |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 08:56 PM Response to Reply #6 |
8. yes, I will go. |
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IsIt1984Yet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 09:00 PM Response to Reply #8 |
10. Do you think she could be reaching out... |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 09:03 PM Response to Reply #10 |
14. no, she doesn't have to ask me, not at all |
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IsIt1984Yet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 09:13 PM Response to Reply #14 |
24. That's too bad. |
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China_cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-17-06 06:40 AM Response to Reply #6 |
41. Nah...she saw a chance to finally totally humiliate |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 08:56 PM Response to Original message |
7. Well... |
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Redneck Socialist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 08:58 PM Response to Original message |
9. I'd say suck it up and say yes, |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 09:02 PM Response to Reply #9 |
13. I must be |
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Kire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 09:23 PM Response to Reply #13 |
28. self delete |
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Scout1071 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 09:00 PM Response to Original message |
11. I've tried. You can't. Just suck it up and make the most of it. |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 09:01 PM Response to Original message |
12. I got out of being a bridesmaid at my mom's wedding. |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 09:06 PM Response to Reply #12 |
15. If I said that worry about the dress wasn't part of it |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 09:08 PM Response to Reply #15 |
18. Yeah, picture a jeans & t-shirt type person suddenly seeing themselves |
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Nicole (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 09:07 PM Response to Original message |
16. You can turn it down but... |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 09:10 PM Response to Reply #16 |
22. naw, it's no big deal |
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yellowdogintexas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 09:08 PM Response to Original message |
17. do you see her often? do you live near by? If this is an out of |
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politicat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 09:09 PM Response to Original message |
19. Ask her what her colors are going to be. |
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NNadir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 09:10 PM Response to Original message |
20. It would be easy for me. I'm a man. |
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sbj405 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 09:10 PM Response to Original message |
21. She may be happy that you would decline |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 09:12 PM Response to Reply #21 |
23. wow, good point. |
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Hobarticus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 09:16 PM Response to Original message |
25. If your heart's not in it, no... |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 09:17 PM Response to Original message |
26. It would be REAL easy for me. I don't look good in a dress. |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 09:21 PM Response to Original message |
27. I'd say you have every right to politely say no. |
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spacelady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 10:39 PM Response to Original message |
29. It's just one day, if it's not a serious hardship, be there for |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-17-06 12:35 AM Response to Reply #29 |
35. the cost is a hardship for most people |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 10:52 PM Response to Original message |
30. Ask yourself seriously if you would have any regrets if you didn't |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-17-06 12:05 AM Response to Original message |
31. I want to be a bridesmaid in my sister's wedding, but she won't let me... |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-17-06 12:15 AM Response to Original message |
32. She's probably asking you out of a sense of assholish obligation, |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-17-06 12:30 AM Response to Original message |
33. YES and please do so |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-17-06 01:29 AM Response to Reply #33 |
37. speaking of nermal |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-17-06 01:40 AM Response to Reply #33 |
39. Oh, that's ridiculous. |
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CanuckAmok (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-17-06 12:38 AM Response to Original message |
36. Enlist. |
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Dulcinea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-17-06 05:28 AM Response to Original message |
40. Do they do wedding readings at your church? |
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donheld (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-17-06 06:50 AM Response to Original message |
42. Yes I can |
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