After much consideration ...

[MissHoneychurch]

>M.,
> after much consideration, I've decided I don't
> want a relationship with you of any kind. Please
> don't call again.
>
> MissHoneychurch

His answer:

after much consideration you dont want a relationship
with me of any kind??? lol are you kidding me? you are
just upset because you never got what you wanted..
typical females....

i have never been any thing but nice to you... any
way.. wish you the best, dont worry, i wont contact
you again as i really wasnt interested from the
start.... this is why i didnt puch the issue for you
to move here, i didnt think it was right...

i was never really keen on you.... too many reasons to
get into now..


Correct, I didn't get the love and respect I deserve, that is why I don't want to be together with him anymore. He wanted a "break" in a relationship that never was there really. He tried to call me 3 times this weekend and sent a text message he thinks about me. Now he wasn't interested in me to begin with? I see bullshit when I read it. Guess his ego is hurt because I decided I don't want him anymore and not the other way around. Bad luck M .....
Latest with this email he showed his true colors.

[HarukaTheTrophyWife]

1. He's a total asshat.

[MissHoneychurch]

4. He truly is

when I tried to explain my feelings to him after he called for a "break" he never really listened. He always blamed me for everything. I was the bad person in it. He never excused for anything.
So I called it a quit. I don't want to deal with an egoistic idiot.

[jpgray]

2. At least the fox in Aesop was coherent about the proverbial grapes

:D

[MissHoneychurch]

7. Not quite sure I understand

I know the story of the fox but can't really put it into relation at the moment :) Please explain it again to a stupid German girl :)

[jpgray]

11. Not the first time I've done a header into the language barrier

:D

I meant that it's his way of saying "those grapes were sour anyway" like the fox, but he sounds even more immature and whiny. But don't mind me, I try to express my ideas in a confusing way so people might mistake them for something intelligent or insightful.

:patriot:

[MissHoneychurch]

13. Thank you

as said I know that tale of the fox, I just didn't remmeber it 100%.

Now that you enlightend me again ... you are so right. He didn't get what he wanted ... a little, obediant, demure girl that waits at home for him and fulfills all his wishes but isn't allowed to have her own wishes. I am a strong woman and I know what I want. And I don't want to be that.

[NMMNG]

3. He doesn't deserve you

Make it official-delete his number from your cell phone. (little in joke from an American TV commercial)

[MissHoneychurch]

5. Believe me

I will.

[Nicholas D Wolfwood]

55. No, don't do that.

Keep the number in your cell phone and have a ringer ID that doesn't ring at all. That way if he DOES call you, you won't be tricked into answering by seeing a number you don't recognize. In fact, you won't hear the phone ring at all. Done and done. :-)

[MissHoneychurch]

56. One day I will delete his number

but you are right, I will keep it in for the next couple of months just in case. He called this weekend and I saw it was him. So I didn't pick up (both home phone and cell). I have to figure out how to give him a special ring tone. I do believe it is possible.

[Nicholas D Wolfwood]

59. Yeah, I set my ex to a ringer ID that doesn't ring at all.

So I don't even have to get my lazy ass up off the couch to not answer the phone if she calls. :-)

[Dangerously Amused]

6. His loss.

Hug anyway for a strong and beautiful woman.


:hug:

[MissHoneychurch]

8. Thank you

yes it is his loss. I really cared for him and wanted to move to England to be with him. Good thing I didn't do it.

[Dangerously Amused]

9. Yeah, those British lads are bad news. Wise call.

:hide:

[billyskank]

14. ...

:spank:


:P

[Dangerously Amused]

21. See what I'm talking about?

They spank you for no good reason.













:P

[MissHoneychurch]

15. He wasn't really a Brit

he was a Jamaican, living in Britain. So I guess I can't call out the Brits :rofl:

[Dangerously Amused]

20. Oh.

Well that doesn't get them off the hook. They're STILL bad news anyway.


:yoiks:

[MissHoneychurch]

24. If you just WANT billyskank to spank you

why don't you just start a thread asking for it? :rofl:

[RagingInMiami]

34. You were going out with Billyskank?

Man, he sure gets around.

[billyskank]

36. First I heard of it

:wtf:

[MissHoneychurch]

39. That is

how rumors start :rofl:

[MissHoneychurch]

37. Now don't mix me up with yvr girl

:rofl:

[billyskank]

40. I'm not going out with her either!

Sheesh!

[MissHoneychurch]

42. But you visited her

and I haven't visited you :)


:hug:

[billyskank]

43. I did indeed

I'm still hoping to see you at a European meetup sometime :hug:

[MissHoneychurch]

45. I hope so too

and we will make it happen ... somehow :hug:

[billyskank]

49. Please check your PM

[MissHoneychurch]

50. Answered n/t

[Robeson]

10. Move on MissHoneychurch....

...sounds like a lot of immaturity going on there...:pals:

[MissHoneychurch]

12. Didn't you know?

I am the immature here. Oh and rude. Not he :rofl:

I am even more looking forward to my trip to the U.S. now.

:hug:

[Robeson]

16. I think it will be a good trip for you....

...and give you an opportunity to clear your head from stuff like that...:thumbsup:

[MissHoneychurch]

17. Exactly

three weeks without the complications of men

[Robeson]

18. Now, if I could just figure out how I could spend 3 weeks in Europe...

...I'd be one happy Robeson...;-)

[MissHoneychurch]

19. LOL

wouldn't you say your wifey would have something against it? :D

[Dangerously Amused]

65. Pssst. We have men here.

And they complicate everything all the hell up here, too.


x(

[MissHoneychurch]

66. You have???

I mean men??? :wow:

:rofl:


This species is made to complicate everything. How is this one saying? Without men the world would be full of happy fat women :rofl:

But then I do love them, I can't deny that.

[Dangerously Amused]

67. I never heard that saying before, but I like it.

:hi:

[Random_Australian]

22. Hi there Miss Honey!

Would you like me to set up an ebarrassing and amusing accident for him involving seven camels, a vacuum cleaner, a keylime pie, an ex-boyfriend sans pants, and a large, glossy photo?













(Because if you would like that, I have no idea how to get it to happen. Just ask random people!)

[MissHoneychurch]

26. Now we could leave out the lime pie

if that helps any

:D



Thanks R_A :hug:

[Random_Australian]

27. Sure, we can share it, in fact. Pies are tasty, and it would be a shame to

waste it on that guy.

Here for you any time! (And everyone else but I don't tell you that so you think you are extra-special. ;))

:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:
                                                  :loveya::loveya::loveya::loveya::loveya::loveya::loveya::loveya::loveya::loveya::loveya:
                              :loveya::pals::pals::pals::pals::hug::hug::hug::hug::pals::pals::pals::pals::loveya:
          :loveya::loveya::loveya::pals::pals::pals::hug::hug::hug:YOU ARE HERE:hug::hug::hug::pals::pals::pals::loveya::loveya::loveya:
                             :loveya::pals::pals::pals::pals::hug::hug::hug::hug::pals::pals::pals::pals::loveya:
                                                  :loveya::loveya::loveya::loveya::loveya::loveya::loveya::loveya::loveya::loveya::loveya:
:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:

[MissHoneychurch]

28. I feel special

to be honored of you to get such a hug. I don't care who else is getting this hug. Whoever gets it deserves it :hug:


During my lunch break I will have another piece of lime pie. I will eat some bites in your honor m:)

[Guava Jelly]

29. get a room... lol

you two geesh..
:)

[MissHoneychurch]

30. You are just jealous

because I don't share my pie with you :)

[Guava Jelly]

31. So...you aint gotta be so mean about it

pie hoarder

[MissHoneychurch]

32. Be a man

bake one yourself :)

[Guava Jelly]

33. fine I'll make a better pie

and see if i share it with you.. greedy
:)

[MissHoneychurch]

35. You know you could not resist me

once I look at you with my big brown eyes :)

[Guava Jelly]

38. you women with your Big brown eyes

Yeah you probably are right..
shit i got to get off and go to work
Have fun pie Lady

[Random_Australian]

41. Thanks! And Gop....... SUX!

Have a slice for him too. :)

[Guava Jelly]

23. your better off with out him MissHoneybu I mean church

:)
He realizes you dont need his @$$ so he's trying to save some face.
Again your better off without him

[MissHoneychurch]

25. Bingo

that is exactly what I read in his insulting words as well.

And it proves me correct in my decision.

[NewWaveChick1981]

44. What a creep!

Good riddance! :hug:

It's his loss. :D

[MissHoneychurch]

46. He is a man

that can't deal with being polished off ....

[BlueIris]

47. Yikers. That message displays just a ton of shitheadedness.

Though selfishly, it made me feel better about my day (which sucked). Good luck! I'm sure you will find someone excellent in no time.

[MissHoneychurch]

48. If that email can make you feel better

go ahead. Be selfish!!!

[Anarcho-Socialist]

51. Well done in getting rid of that creep

Hopefully when you feel like dating again you can find a lovely person to be with.

:hug:

[MissHoneychurch]

52. I wish that again and again every time I date

but somehow I have the ability to always date assholes :shrug:

[wildhorses]

53. .......

:hug:


we are going to have fun....Joani and YOU and me:bounce:

[MissHoneychurch]

54. Oh yes

I will have fun with the two of you and the rest.

Those three weeks will be hilarious. I always enjoy my times in the U.S. You could say I am more open in the U.S. than I am in Germany.

:woohoo:

[miss_american_pie]

57. You are so much better off

:hug:

[MissHoneychurch]

61. I would say so too

I am sooo glad he showed his true face in time.

[datasuspect]

58. so did you email this or was it a text message?

if so, a simple "you're fired" would have sufficed.

[MissHoneychurch]

60. This was by email

Cheaper than sending a text message to the U.K.

[AirmensMom]

62. You went and washed that man right outta your hair!

:bounce: GOOD FOR YOU! :applause: He doesn't have nearly enough class to hang around with you.

:loveya: :hug: :yourock:

[MissHoneychurch]

63. He doesn't have class at all

that proved this email (and the ones before)

Thanks for all MissAirmens :hug:

[AirmensMom]

64. You're right about that!

He sure is a piece of work ... you are SO lucky to be rid of him!

You're welcome. :hug: :hug: :hug:

[GalleryGod]

68. God Bless you, for having the cajones to publish this to 90,000 people.

I certainly wouldn't have. But,of course, I'm Old, retro at best, and really wise these days in affairs of the heart.

[MissHoneychurch]

69. He is the idiot here not me.

I wish I would be wise in affairs of the heart as well. But I always seem to fall into the same trap.