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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-22-06 08:19 PM Original message |
Gay men - your thoughts on body image. |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-22-06 08:20 PM Response to Original message |
1. I'm a lesbian, but what about the "bears"? nt |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-22-06 08:21 PM Response to Reply #1 |
2. Ah, yes. The proportioned ones. |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-22-06 08:27 PM Response to Reply #2 |
3. You seem like a well-proportioned guy to me. |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-22-06 08:50 PM Response to Reply #3 |
6. I currently am able to hide it well. |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-22-06 08:58 PM Response to Reply #6 |
7. Okay, well if you can hide it that it's not too overweight. |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-22-06 08:59 PM Response to Reply #7 |
8. Thanks much! |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-22-06 09:15 PM Response to Reply #8 |
9. No prob. |
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khashka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 06:52 PM Response to Reply #7 |
92. Don't let him fool you.... |
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Touchdown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 03:44 PM Response to Reply #2 |
27. You look faily attractive, but you might want to... |
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kiraboo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-22-06 08:30 PM Response to Original message |
4. Okay. I've been a hairdresser and I've worked at Berklee |
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dfwguy (3 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-22-06 08:39 PM Response to Original message |
5. gm and body image |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 11:21 AM Response to Reply #5 |
11. One day I shall share your optimism, re: "someone for everyone" |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-22-06 10:59 PM Response to Original message |
10. I have mixed opinions. |
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MadAsHellNewYorker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 02:31 PM Response to Reply #10 |
12. wait, what? |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 02:45 PM Response to Reply #12 |
16. Yes. I've stopped going out to clubs |
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MadAsHellNewYorker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 03:06 PM Response to Reply #16 |
19. argh. |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 04:51 PM Response to Reply #16 |
59. I'll go with you. Nobody's saying |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 04:55 PM Response to Reply #59 |
61. LOL! They'd figure I'm your rich sugar daddy. |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 05:04 PM Response to Reply #61 |
62. If so, I'm sure a number of them |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 05:14 PM Response to Reply #16 |
66. You definitely need this: |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 05:15 PM Response to Reply #66 |
67. Thank you! |
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Runcible Spoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 01:35 PM Response to Reply #16 |
104. that's really pathetic. (of the rude assholes) |
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swimboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 02:41 PM Response to Reply #10 |
14. Shit! |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 02:49 PM Response to Reply #14 |
17. I would love to say that it doesn't bother me. |
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Marnieworld (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 03:49 PM Response to Reply #17 |
29. Can a straight gal be counted in too? |
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RobinA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 12:31 PM Response to Reply #29 |
101. But See, |
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LaurenG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 04:15 PM Response to Reply #17 |
39. Add me to the list , although I'm not gay or a man |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 04:21 PM Response to Reply #39 |
44. Hi OhioBlues |
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tjwmason (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 03:01 PM Response to Reply #10 |
18. Let's make that three guys pissed off with your treatment... |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 03:36 PM Response to Reply #18 |
22. Not that I mind semi-naked young men |
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enigmatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 10:23 PM Response to Reply #18 |
86. Make it four |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 11:34 PM Response to Reply #86 |
88. Thank you. |
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Duncan Grant (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 03:27 PM Response to Reply #10 |
21. Dear ThomCat, |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 03:37 PM Response to Reply #21 |
23. Awesome! |
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Schema Thing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 12:07 PM Response to Reply #21 |
100. Add me to the list of straight men |
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billyskank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 03:39 PM Response to Reply #10 |
24. Dude |
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tjwmason (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 03:54 PM Response to Reply #24 |
31. We seem to have quite the posse ready |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 04:00 PM Response to Reply #31 |
34. Posse is right. Hell, we'd take over the club. |
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Dangerously Amused (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 02:28 AM Response to Reply #34 |
89. Can I join your posse? |
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billyskank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 04:19 PM Response to Reply #31 |
42. Damn right |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 04:22 PM Response to Reply #42 |
45. You SO get a hug and kiss for that. |
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billyskank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 04:26 PM Response to Reply #45 |
48. ... |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 03:45 PM Response to Reply #10 |
28. You know I've got your back. |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 04:07 PM Response to Reply #28 |
36. Yes, I do. |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 04:26 PM Response to Reply #36 |
49. She sent me a PM but I forgot to respond until now. |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 04:28 PM Response to Reply #49 |
50. I have her number. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 03:51 PM Response to Reply #10 |
30. I don't know if I'm more mad or sad... |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 04:10 PM Response to Reply #30 |
37. Obviously I haven't done a very good job of ignoring it. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 04:13 PM Response to Reply #37 |
38. Yeah... |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 05:13 PM Response to Reply #10 |
65. There is a certain truth to what you say. But nothing is universal either |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 05:23 PM Response to Reply #65 |
69. If it was a one-time thing I'd probaby laugh about it |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 05:43 PM Response to Reply #69 |
71. Awesome! |
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roamer65 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 08:35 PM Response to Reply #10 |
83. That treatment |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 08:46 PM Response to Reply #83 |
84. Welcome to DU |
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roamer65 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 10:13 PM Response to Reply #84 |
85. Thanks for the welcome |
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AussieDave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 03:02 AM Response to Reply #10 |
90. It just shows that it takes all kinds to be assholes |
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Mayberry Machiavelli (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 07:37 PM Response to Reply #10 |
93. No, the straight guy has to get inside the bar and talk to the women, |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 02:40 PM Response to Original message |
13. who is "cattier" ??? Gay men or Women??? |
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Wetzelbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 02:43 PM Response to Original message |
15. totally freakin' hetero |
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progmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 03:39 PM Response to Reply #15 |
25. heh |
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asthmaticeog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 04:18 PM Response to Reply #25 |
41. Methinks the gentleman doth protest TOO much. |
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Wetzelbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 05:51 PM Response to Reply #41 |
78. hahaha |
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LaurenG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 04:19 PM Response to Reply #25 |
43. lol |
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Wetzelbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 05:47 PM Response to Reply #25 |
74. no I'm just not qualified to answer the question |
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arwalden (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 04:35 PM Response to Reply #15 |
52. Uh... Oka-a-a-ay? A-a-and? |
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Touchdown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 04:45 PM Response to Reply #15 |
56. That's just a phase. You'll grow out of it. |
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Wetzelbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 05:48 PM Response to Reply #56 |
75. I know |
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terrya (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 04:46 PM Response to Reply #15 |
57. I'll call the New York Times. |
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Touchdown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 05:10 PM Response to Reply #57 |
63. I'll tell the NSA. |
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Wetzelbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 05:49 PM Response to Reply #57 |
76. yeah but they probably won't report it |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 05:13 PM Response to Reply #15 |
64. Congratulations. |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 05:44 PM Response to Reply #15 |
72. ROFL! Your response is sooooo hetero! |
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Wetzelbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 05:50 PM Response to Reply #72 |
77. Hey Ozzie Guillen has been |
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CanuckAmok (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 03:24 PM Response to Original message |
20. An interesting read: |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 03:54 PM Response to Reply #20 |
32. Yup... body dysmorphism... it's not just for females anymore! n/t |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 04:35 PM Response to Reply #20 |
53. Interesting. |
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CanuckAmok (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 08:33 PM Response to Reply #53 |
82. There's more to it.... |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 10:32 PM Response to Reply #20 |
87. Look at old pictures of lumberjacks |
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Touchdown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 03:41 PM Response to Original message |
26. I'm fat, and I know it. |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 04:03 PM Response to Reply #26 |
35. If they'd turn the volume down to something tolerable |
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Touchdown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 04:38 PM Response to Reply #35 |
54. I love people watching...and shooting. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 03:54 PM Response to Original message |
33. I'm a woman and not gay, but... |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 04:24 PM Response to Reply #33 |
46. I always make sure they are not talking about me |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 04:25 PM Response to Reply #46 |
47. hahahaha |
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swimboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 09:20 AM Response to Reply #33 |
98. well that just means we like a lot of the same things! |
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6000eliot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 04:16 PM Response to Original message |
40. I like a guy with a bit of a belly |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 05:46 PM Response to Reply #40 |
73. Kewl! |
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khashka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 04:34 PM Response to Original message |
51. The gay community tends to be |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 04:42 PM Response to Reply #51 |
55. Personals sites are poisonous. |
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KurtNYC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 04:50 PM Response to Original message |
58. In my experience there are about 4 major categories for gay men |
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Roon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 04:54 PM Response to Original message |
60. It's rough |
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Guy Fawkes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 05:17 PM Response to Original message |
68. unfortunately common problem... |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 05:42 PM Response to Original message |
70. i would say that just like in the rest of society there are far more |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 05:52 PM Response to Reply #70 |
79. Logical. |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 06:10 PM Response to Reply #79 |
80. i live in the bay area -- and i can say for a fact -- |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 11:58 AM Response to Reply #80 |
99. I am glad there are decent people about. |
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roamer65 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-23-06 08:24 PM Response to Original message |
81. The gay male community |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 03:07 PM Response to Reply #81 |
97. Been there and done that |
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RobinA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 12:49 PM Response to Reply #97 |
103. Pointless Crudity |
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Placebo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 03:12 AM Response to Original message |
91. I am worse than my girl friends when it comes to body image. |
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SacredCow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 08:14 PM Response to Original message |
94. I can easily understand your frustration... |
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querelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 08:24 PM Response to Original message |
95. No Short Men! |
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Touchdown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 10:23 AM Response to Reply #95 |
96. Oh' come on. Mini-gays are so convenient. |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 12:36 PM Response to Reply #96 |
102. No pun intended! |
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