I feel really crappy right now...

[sakabatou]

Not physically, but emotionally crappy right now.

Story is, I let a girl into my heart a few days ago, only to find out now, she's been playing me all this time. But I'm not sure if she really said that (Her friend was the one being a total dickwad to me a couple minutes ago.) So now, I really don't know how to feel.
Either anger, sadness, depression, general destructivity.

[RetroLounge]

1. Understood

that's my normal state of being...

:hug:

RL

[sakabatou]

3. thanks

I feel... welll I still feel fucking lousy. Thanks anyway :hug:

[miss_american_pie]

2. You and half the lounge, it seems

:hug:

[sakabatou]

4. thanks

I feel... well I still feel fucking lousy. Thanks anyway :hug:

[auntAgonist]

5. Instead of feeling lousy

Can't you talk to the girl and find out exactly what was said and how it was said and what it meant? It may be that she never said any such thing. Not finding out from the source may be your downfall.

:hug:
aA

[sakabatou]

6. She's not online now

so I guess I'll have to wait until tommorow... -_-

[kiraboo]

7. I've had a situation involving something of an intermediary

lately. It wasn't intended, but it happened. And there's no doubt that wires get crossed and signals confused. Don't give in to despair until you've spoken to her directly. If she's still a player, THEN you can despair. :0

[sakabatou]

8. I'll wait until I can get an explanation

If she is a player, may god forgive her, because I won't.

[kiraboo]

9. S/he'll forgive her.

God's nice that way. But I respect your feelings.

[sakabatou]

10. thank you

[ZombieNixon]

11. I completely understand that.

Better to find out now, after only a few days, than later, after some years, when things are deeper and more involved (or at least that's what you'd think).

If she hurt you, forget about her, you're better off without her. Yeah, it's difficult, and it's the hardest thing I ever had to do. but eventually you get over it and wake up one day happy to have dodged that bullet and laughing about how she'll end up with some douchebag and they'll ruin each other's lives. (Believe me, that's now a thought that brings a smile to my face every time! :D)

:pals:

[sakabatou]

12. thanks

:hug:

[MissB]

13. I'm sorry.

Not all of us like to play headgames. I do hope you find someone eventually. :hug:

[sakabatou]

14. Her other friends are saying it was somebody else

impersonating her. So I'll find out today.

[TK421]

15. I hope it isn't her, but if it is....kick her to the curb

of course, this is coming from someone who trusts absolutely NOBODY

[In_The_Wind]

16. Affairs of the heart can wreak havoc on the brain.

BTW general destructivity probably won't make you feel any better in the long run.

[sakabatou]

17. But I want to feel better now!

I'll be better once I know the truth. But I did feel better after kicking in a file cabinet. :)

[In_The_Wind]

18. Can you go out for a walk and look at the clouds or trees or birds?

Find something pleasant to distract yourself.
Don't think too much ~ it'll drive you crazy. Trust me. I know.

[MissMillie]

19. Do as I say, not as I do

I've managed to build a wall around my heart--no one getting in anymore.

I would wait until you know all the facts before deciding how to feel, that's for sure. You'd hate to waste your energy on negative feelings now and find out that it was the friend that was being the prick.

If this girl really did play you, I'm sorry. That just sucks. Do yourself a favor though, don't let your heart harden over it.

:hug:

[sakabatou]

20. To all people that have replied:

Thank you for your concern. As it turns out it was just someboyd pretending to be my girlfriend. So no worries. We're not gonna break up or anything. So stop worrying. I'm back to my old self. :)

[miss_american_pie]

21. Much better news

But what is up with that?

[sakabatou]

22. What's up with what?

[miss_american_pie]

23. Somebody pretending to be your girlfriend?

If I'm being too nosy you can tell me to get lost.

[sakabatou]

25. I was talking to her online

but it turned out to be her bitch of a friend.

[miss_american_pie]

26. Aha

Some friend.

[Deja Q]

24. I'm sorry.

:hug:

I know how you feel. You've been hurt by another; a games player. There's nobody as sick and twisted as their lot.

Let it go. It's all you can do.

Otherwise it will consume you. And your life is more valuable. Don't continue giving her any part of it. Give her an inch and she'll take a yard and demand a mile more.

Leave her alone. Karma will have its day in due course.

[sakabatou]

27. see post #20