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StellaBlue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-17-06 09:25 PM
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Poll question: You're a single woman, living alone.
Someone knocks on your door at 9:22pm, while you are surfing DU.

You peek out the hole, and don't recognize the strange man outside.

Do you answer the door?
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no name no slogan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-17-06 09:27 PM
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1. HELL NO. I'm a single guy living alone, and if somebody did that...
I'd tell them to come back the next day, or tell me through the door what their business is.
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StellaBlue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-17-06 09:27 PM
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2. I didn't answer.
My heart was beating really fast, though.

Weird.
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YellowRubberDuckie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-17-06 09:28 PM
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3. What happened?
Did this happen to you tonight? You can't just say that and give no details. Did it freak you out?
Duckie
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StellaBlue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-17-06 09:28 PM
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4. I might also add that
I live downtown, and near a bus stop, and that there are a LOT of drugged out people and weirdos around this area.
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-17-06 09:31 PM
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5. Hell no.
:scared:
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Strangefire Donating Member (74 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-17-06 10:51 PM
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6. I'm a single woman living alone...
...and half the time I don't open the door even if I know the person outside. :P

Let them come back at a decent hour, I say.
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Brigid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-17-06 10:56 PM
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7. Absolutely not.
Edited on Wed May-17-06 11:30 PM by Brigid
Even though I live in a pretty secure building, that's no reason to open the door to a stranger.

Anyone remember the scene in "Bowling For Columbine" where Michael Moore is told that Canadians do not lock their doors, and he went out to test that statement? That was amazing. If he did that in America, he would likely get shot, even if no one recognized him.
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-17-06 11:27 PM
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19. That scene is kind of crap
I mean, sure, SOME Canadians don't lock their doors, but he would have had to try a LOT of homes in urban Ontario to find a bunch unlocked.
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kay1864 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-18-06 09:50 AM
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34. Thanks GinC!
I always kind of wondered about that scene. Most of my Toronto friends live in apartments, so I didn't know enough to say. But I would wager that if they lived in houses, they would indeed lock their doors.

I love Michael Moore, but he bends things a bit in his movies.
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-18-06 06:16 PM
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37. Well, also
The middle of the day in a fairly suburban area... sure, if you're home and in the kitchen or whatever, you don't always lock the door behind you. But he was giving the impression that we just leave our doors hanging open willy nilly all over the place, which is BS.

:)
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-17-06 10:56 PM
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8. as far out in the boonies as I live....NO FUCKING WAY
where's my gun???
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-17-06 10:57 PM
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9. I don't even peek out the door
nope
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MissB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-17-06 10:58 PM
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10. If it'd been 9:11 pm, I would've opened it.
Otherwise, no.
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BikeWriter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-17-06 10:58 PM
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11. #### no!
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Lady Effingbroke Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-17-06 10:59 PM
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12. not just no, HELL NO!!!
And I would grab my spotlight and bat, while I was at it!

(If someone breaks into my house, I have a plan - I'm gonna shine the spotlight into their eyes (1,000,000 candlepower Q-Beam) and hit 'em over the head with the bat).
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StellaBlue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-17-06 11:22 PM
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15. Great plan.
I already have a bat - but a Q-Beam... that's just pure genius!
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Lady Effingbroke Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-17-06 11:36 PM
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22. Yeah, if anyone walks in my house without permission, they're gonna
leave with a hell of a headache and seeing purple spots for a week! :D
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radwriter0555 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-18-06 12:01 AM
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26. I have a machete I keep next to the front door. And I know how to use it.

"Don't fuck with me..."

that's all I'm saying...
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Robeson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-17-06 11:40 PM
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24. I've always liked your style, Lady Effingbroke....
...:thumbsup:
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realisticphish Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-17-06 11:12 PM
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13. What you need to do
Edited on Wed May-17-06 11:12 PM by realisticphish
is: buy a shotgun.

Now, you don't need to buy slugs, or anything. Just the shotgun.

If that happens again, stand by the door, and pump the shotgun.

that should be enough :evilgrin:

but seriously, I wouldn't have answered the door either
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Brigid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-17-06 11:23 PM
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16. Michael Moore had that in his movie too!
There was a scene in a gun shop where the proprietor was demonstrating how to rack a shotgun. He said that sound would be all a would-be criminal would need to hear. :rofl:
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realisticphish Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-17-06 11:24 PM
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17. Pat McManus
calls it an "Idaho Burgler Alarm" :D
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mwooldri Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-17-06 11:19 PM
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14. Doesn't matter if I'm single, married, whatever. NO NO NO!
This man is not for opening the door to strangers late at night.

Not in my neighborhood anyway.

Mark.
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Robeson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-17-06 11:25 PM
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18. Unless I've invited someone, I don't answer the door, period.
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anarch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-18-06 09:17 AM
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32. damn straight...and that goes for the daytime, too
I don't even bother getting up out of my chair...if it was a friend, they would have called first.

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jukes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-17-06 11:27 PM
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20. somewhat single male
Edited on Wed May-17-06 11:28 PM by jukes
and i have a port for my Saiga 12 cut in the door. (6) 12 ga shotshells loaded w/ 10 dimes ea.
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leftofthedial Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-17-06 11:27 PM
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21. Of course not!
I gave up and left after a few minutes anyway.

just kidding!






I'm still there . . . :evilgrin:
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StellaBlue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-17-06 11:39 PM
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23. Wow...
You came all the way from New Mexico just to knock on my door and walk away?
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leftofthedial Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-17-06 11:53 PM
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25. well, it's really not that far
and I needed the exercise.
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Nicole Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-18-06 12:36 AM
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27. Hell no
I'm a single woman living alone & I won't open the door to strangers anytime. It doesn't matter if it's a man, woman, or child.

If it's daytime I might ask them through the door what they want. If it's nightime, I ignore them completely.
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reyd reid reed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-18-06 12:38 AM
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28. Hell no...
Alone or not, I won't answer the door at that time of night if I don't know the person on the other side.

Period.

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Sisaruus Donating Member (703 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-18-06 06:00 AM
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29. Time of day is not the issue
If I don't expect you or recognize you, I won't open the door for you no matter the time of day. My boss was stranger-raped when she opened the door at 5 p.m. for someone who appeared to be in a gas company uniform.

However, I also have a tendency to forget to lock my back door.

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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-18-06 06:04 AM
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30. Nope, I call through the door to see what he wants
all the while allowing my dog to bark as though she is a ferocious beast (she isn't, but still). :D
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kwassa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-18-06 09:11 AM
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31. Answer the door naked.
why be normal?
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OrangeCountyDemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-18-06 09:53 AM
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35. Address Please?
LOL! :-)
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Samurai_Writer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-18-06 09:18 AM
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33. One thing I like about my place now
People can't even GET to my door without going through a gate, and into the yard with a 150 pound Newfoundland and a 90 pound yellow lab, both of which would bark like crazy, and are very protective of me.

I live up in the mountains, and we keep our doors unlocked. Heck, I don't even have a key for my door. But with those two dogs around, who needs to lock a door?
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Patiod Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-18-06 11:55 AM
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36. I stick my head out the window, and give the pizza guy direction
for some reason, they ALWAYS ring our doorbell to find out where the other units are. Our landlord has never labeled any of the buildings, but people still tell the pizza guy to deliver to "D1", even though none of the buildings are marked "D", much less D1.

That's what's nice about the 2nd floor.

I can also tell the people from the Kingdom Hall down the road that I already have a religion I'm fond of, but thanks anyway.
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StellaBlue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-18-06 06:23 PM
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38. UPDATE: MYSTERY SOLVED
My best friend was talking on the phone last night to her ex, who lives in the same complex as me. They were together while I was out of the country for four years and, thus, I have never met the man.

Hence, why I didn't recognize him.

Apparently, she told him, as a joke, that she was at my place (as some kind of alibi). So he came to check.

:shrug:
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