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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 05:13 PM Original message |
Have YOU ever thought about -- or tried -- an "Open Marriage"? |
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LaurenG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 05:28 PM Response to Original message |
1. I think I would rather just get divorced and then |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 05:40 PM Response to Reply #1 |
5. Excellent point. Mind telling us (about) how old you are? |
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MountainLaurel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 05:34 PM Response to Original message |
2. I've considered polyamory |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 05:42 PM Response to Reply #2 |
7. Do you mean "polyandry" (many husbands) or just a lot of guys |
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MountainLaurel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 07:26 PM Response to Reply #7 |
24. Interesting question |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 05:36 PM Response to Original message |
3. I think the definition is up to the people involved |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 05:58 PM Response to Reply #3 |
9. Skygazer, you sound like a very together person. Someone who |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 06:05 PM Response to Reply #9 |
10. Yes, sorry, the time differential |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 06:17 PM Response to Reply #10 |
13. One cat? That leaves me out. I'm allergic! |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 06:22 PM Response to Reply #13 |
14. That's the thing |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 06:34 PM Response to Reply #14 |
17. You are one wise woman, Skygazer of California! |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 05:37 PM Response to Original message |
4. i have tried open relationships |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 06:08 PM Response to Reply #4 |
11. Yes, I understand. As a matter of fact, this is a momentous twenty |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 05:42 PM Response to Original message |
6. my cousin had one, her husband was hitting on me when i was 15.... |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 06:28 PM Response to Reply #6 |
15. Goldie Hawn said it best about her SO, Kurt Russell. "Men are built |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 01:52 AM Response to Reply #15 |
44. I reject that idea -- |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 03:11 AM Response to Reply #44 |
51. i concur |
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realisticphish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 04:00 PM Response to Reply #44 |
68. Well |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 05:58 PM Response to Original message |
8. I've known 2 couples (1 gay, 1 straight) try 3-way marriage. Within months |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 06:45 PM Response to Reply #8 |
19. Bucky, I have to say -- you don't mince words. Thanks for the viewpoint. |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 08:56 PM Response to Reply #19 |
84. Larry King got arrested? |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 09:57 PM Response to Reply #84 |
85. Subject: It was a long time ago. I'll PM you the details if that's OK. |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 10:05 PM Response to Reply #85 |
86. Yes please do |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 10:24 PM Response to Reply #86 |
87. Check your PM for "the scoop" on Larry 'n' me" -- |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 06:10 PM Response to Original message |
12. I wanted to try it, but her husband got pissed at the idea. |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 07:09 PM Response to Reply #12 |
21. Seriously? Just the way you stated it, sounds funny... probably you |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 10:01 PM Response to Reply #21 |
39. No, I was being stupid with an attempt at funny... |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 06:35 PM Response to Reply #39 |
76. Here's my idea of a hot romance between lovers! (PHOTO) |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 06:32 PM Response to Original message |
16. It's definitely not for me. I'm a one-man woman, and I want a |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 01:45 AM Response to Reply #16 |
42. No, not on Saturday. My programs are heard on Mondays at 1 PM PT |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 02:00 AM Response to Reply #42 |
48. My bad! I'm sorry. I know you told me when your show was on. |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 06:15 PM Response to Reply #48 |
74. I have pretty hands, but boy, have they been trouble! |
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JanMichael (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 06:41 PM Response to Original message |
18. I'm not clever enough to convince my wife that it's a "good" idea. |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 01:54 AM Response to Reply #18 |
45. You seem to have an open attitude to the idea -- in principle. |
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CanuckAmok (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 04:06 AM Response to Reply #18 |
59. There's a great Mariel Hemmingway movie called "Sex Monster". |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 06:43 PM Response to Reply #59 |
78. Here it is, and haven't ever seen it! |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 07:08 PM Response to Reply #78 |
80. UPDATE: Reserved for Saturday (tonight) at Hollywood Video! |
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NNadir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 06:48 PM Response to Original message |
20. I would never dream of such a thing. |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 07:20 PM Response to Original message |
22. I gave him permission to get around if he let me know first |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 01:59 AM Response to Reply #22 |
47. LeftyMom... |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 01:18 PM Response to Reply #47 |
65. Thank you |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 07:26 PM Response to Original message |
25. Personally, I would never be interested in an "open marriage" |
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Common Sense Party (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 02:13 AM Response to Reply #25 |
49. Call me old-fashioned: Complete, total fidelity and monogamy, |
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Burma Jones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 07:32 PM Response to Original message |
27. This is why there are prostitutes |
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no name no slogan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 07:32 PM Response to Original message |
28. I think we're talking about two different things |
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bicentennial_baby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 07:40 PM Response to Reply #28 |
30. i love you |
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no name no slogan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 07:45 PM Response to Reply #30 |
33. I'm glad to hear you are all doing so well!!! |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 07:59 PM Response to Reply #28 |
36. I agree. |
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khashka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 07:41 PM Response to Original message |
31. Polyamory is the only thing that makes sense to me. |
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bicentennial_baby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 07:42 PM Response to Reply #31 |
32. rock on baby |
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khashka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 07:55 PM Response to Reply #32 |
34. She's back! |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 12:48 PM Response to Reply #31 |
61. That's interesting to me, because for me, personally |
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khashka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 04:07 PM Response to Reply #61 |
70. Hey that's cool |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 07:56 PM Response to Original message |
35. I would not be interested in an open marriage. |
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Wapsie B (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-31-06 08:33 PM Response to Original message |
38. I think it may be something that sounds good as a fantasy |
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Kat45 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 12:13 AM Response to Original message |
40. I read "Open Marriage" in sociology class in the '70s |
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politicat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 12:41 AM Response to Original message |
41. I got my husband through an open relationship.... |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 01:56 AM Response to Reply #41 |
46. Wow... |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 03:36 AM Response to Reply #41 |
53. wow, what a story |
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madokie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 01:11 PM Response to Reply #41 |
64. My wife and I had a short fling when I first got out of the navy |
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NNadir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 06:50 PM Response to Reply #41 |
79. That is a great, compelling story, with a very happy ending. |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 01:50 AM Response to Original message |
43. Marriage = 1 Man + 1 Woman |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 10:58 AM Response to Reply #43 |
60. Bah! No one liked my joke.... |
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petronius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-02-06 01:57 PM Response to Reply #60 |
89. Your joke was excellent |
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Robeson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 02:15 AM Response to Original message |
50. AIDS did a lot to end that party.... |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 03:28 AM Response to Reply #50 |
52. Some parties are better left unattended |
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Robeson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 03:54 AM Response to Reply #52 |
54. Hey SeattleGirl! How's it going?.... |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 03:57 AM Response to Reply #54 |
55. Hey, my friend! |
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Robeson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 04:00 AM Response to Reply #55 |
56. I loved it. I think it is really you. You look great! |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 04:06 AM Response to Reply #56 |
58. Oh, thank you, baby! |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 12:52 PM Response to Reply #58 |
62. Backtrack: Link to your photo, SG? I missed the hairstyle! |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 04:06 PM Response to Reply #62 |
69. Here's the link |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 05:45 PM Response to Reply #69 |
72. Love the look! Always been partial to RED and BLONDE hair! |
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CanuckAmok (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 04:04 AM Response to Original message |
57. I was in one. |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 12:58 PM Response to Reply #57 |
63. Thanks, Canuck. I'll look for it. Much has been written, and much |
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philosophie_en_rose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 01:24 PM Response to Original message |
66. Nope. Not for me. |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 06:06 PM Response to Reply #66 |
73. Are you French, philosophie_en_rose? My father had a mistress, |
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philosophie_en_rose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 06:15 PM Response to Reply #73 |
75. Part French/ British, Mostly Asian though. |
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NNadir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 08:51 PM Response to Reply #73 |
83. That was a very interesting post. |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 10:26 PM Response to Reply #83 |
88. You're welcome, I'm sure. |
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mongo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 02:29 PM Response to Original message |
67. I think it is generally very compelling for most people |
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WritingIsMyReligion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 04:39 PM Response to Original message |
71. No. No. And no. |
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WilliamPitt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 06:37 PM Response to Original message |
77. I have had a couple of friends who tried it |
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Sparkly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 07:12 PM Response to Original message |
81. I think it sounds great in theory |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-01-06 07:23 PM Response to Original message |
82. People are so FUCKING complicated that it's hard enough for just two |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-02-06 06:01 PM Response to Reply #82 |
90. Oh -- oh. Redstone, are you having more senior moments than usual? |
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