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Rising Phoenix (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 08:30 AM Original message |
do you think its ok for men to cry? |
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bicentennial_baby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 08:32 AM Response to Original message |
1. yep |
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Rising Phoenix (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 08:34 AM Response to Original message |
2. me too... |
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WillParkinson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 08:38 AM Response to Original message |
3. No... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 04:39 PM Response to Reply #3 |
94. I hear that a lot. The "picked on" excuse. |
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Callalily (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 08:45 AM Response to Original message |
4. Oh yes, |
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swag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 08:48 AM Response to Original message |
5. It's pretty fuckin' far from okay. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 04:39 PM Response to Reply #5 |
95. Huh? |
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swag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 04:48 PM Response to Reply #95 |
97. Kind of a Marcellus Wallace paraphrasal there. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 04:54 PM Response to Reply #97 |
98. I thought that might be the case. |
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swag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 04:55 PM Response to Reply #98 |
99. Maybe I should just quit posting shite, eh? |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 04:55 PM Response to Reply #99 |
100. hahah, no! |
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sniffa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 08:49 AM Response to Original message |
6. onLy when cutting onions |
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bicentennial_baby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 08:53 AM Response to Reply #6 |
11. ... |
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kick-ass-bob (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 09:05 AM Response to Reply #6 |
17. what about 'Saving Private Ryan'? |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 01:30 PM Response to Reply #17 |
79. That movie was just stupid, not sad! You want to see a sad war movie... |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 01:29 PM Response to Reply #6 |
78. I'm third, man! |
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billyskank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 08:49 AM Response to Original message |
7. Yes |
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Mizmoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 08:50 AM Response to Original message |
8. Not in our culture |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 08:50 AM Response to Original message |
9. Yes |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 08:52 AM Response to Original message |
10. Absolutely. |
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Taxloss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 08:53 AM Response to Original message |
12. Yes, but it depends on the circumstances. |
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billyskank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 08:56 AM Response to Reply #12 |
13. I don't think anyone is suggesting |
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Taxloss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 09:08 AM Response to Reply #13 |
19. Well, I would say there are cultural expectations. |
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billyskank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 09:10 AM Response to Reply #19 |
23. I didn't know you were also a Brit until just now |
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Taxloss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 09:11 AM Response to Reply #23 |
24. That's OK. Did my post answer your question? |
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billyskank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 09:14 AM Response to Reply #24 |
25. As I understand it |
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Taxloss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 09:19 AM Response to Reply #25 |
33. Yes, that's what I'm saying. |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 01:11 PM Response to Reply #19 |
70. is that a class related thing in Brit society |
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Taxloss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 02:34 PM Response to Reply #70 |
88. Well, it's tempting to get all Marxist and attribute everything to class. |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 04:35 PM Response to Reply #88 |
92. very nice distinction |
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kick-ass-bob (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 09:04 AM Response to Reply #12 |
16. there are also times when women must hold it together for the good of |
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Taxloss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 09:10 AM Response to Reply #16 |
22. That's exactly what I just said to Billyskank. n/t |
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kick-ass-bob (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 09:01 AM Response to Original message |
14. Of course. And I'll kick the ass of anyone who says otherwise. |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 09:03 AM Response to Original message |
15. Yep |
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progmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 09:06 AM Response to Original message |
18. definitely |
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billyskank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 09:09 AM Response to Reply #18 |
20. Hi progmom |
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progmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 09:15 AM Response to Reply #20 |
27. hello lovely man |
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bicentennial_baby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 09:10 AM Response to Reply #18 |
21. hey you! |
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progmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 09:15 AM Response to Reply #21 |
26. hey friend |
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Rising Phoenix (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 09:17 AM Response to Reply #26 |
28. hi progmom |
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progmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 09:19 AM Response to Reply #28 |
34. hi!!! |
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GOPisEvil (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 11:27 AM Response to Reply #18 |
55. You made me cry. |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 09:17 AM Response to Original message |
29. Sure, |
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kick-ass-bob (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 09:45 AM Response to Reply #29 |
40. "women's hormones can cause us to be more emotional at times" -- ??? |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 09:46 AM Response to Reply #40 |
41. Well not me, but some women!! |
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billyskank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 10:05 AM Response to Reply #41 |
45. I've never seen any evidence of that |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 10:16 AM Response to Reply #45 |
50. LOL!! |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 01:28 PM Response to Reply #29 |
77. Emotions should be released by telling fart jokes. |
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Hardrada (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 04:56 PM Response to Reply #77 |
101. Or actually |
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tjwmason (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 09:18 AM Response to Original message |
30. For other men yes. |
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CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 01:19 PM Response to Reply #30 |
72. No, you are NOT! |
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just a girl (173 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 09:18 AM Response to Original message |
31. Absolutely. |
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dr.strangelove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 09:18 AM Response to Original message |
32. I cry |
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Rising Phoenix (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 09:20 AM Response to Reply #32 |
36. your a good man |
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dr.strangelove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 09:27 AM Response to Reply #36 |
37. Thanks |
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AnarchoFreeThinker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 09:19 AM Response to Original message |
35. sniff...that one always gets me. |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 09:28 AM Response to Original message |
38. Only for sissy men, mama's boys, and girly boys, but not for a man |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 09:42 AM Response to Original message |
39. Yes, but... |
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ZombieNixon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 12:49 PM Response to Reply #39 |
67. I fell asleep during my last round of dental surguery. |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 02:52 PM Response to Reply #67 |
90. Lucky |
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CBHagman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 09:50 AM Response to Original message |
42. Uh, yes. |
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Arkana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 09:51 AM Response to Original message |
43. Yes. |
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MarianJack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 10:00 AM Response to Original message |
44. I Think That I Cry... |
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LaraMN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 10:07 AM Response to Original message |
46. Absolutely! I think it shows they don't have a masculinity complex. |
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Beware the Beast Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 10:08 AM Response to Original message |
47. Of course. |
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Magrittes Pipe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 10:08 AM Response to Original message |
48. Sure. |
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swimboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 10:15 AM Response to Original message |
49. It had better be or I can't watch the Grinch's heart grow three sizes |
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TheProphetess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 07:32 PM Response to Reply #49 |
109. LOL |
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UrbScotty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 10:18 AM Response to Original message |
51. I cried at my grandfather's funeral. (nt) |
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flordehinojos (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 11:08 AM Response to Original message |
52. yes, except when it is the bushes' crocodile tears...of which they spill |
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Ladyhawk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 11:24 AM Response to Original message |
53. Of course. I like men who can defy what is considered "normal." n/t |
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Trigger Hippie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 11:25 AM Response to Original message |
54. Only when I spank them. |
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billyskank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 04:15 PM Response to Reply #54 |
91. I must introduce you to SeattleGirl |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 11:28 AM Response to Original message |
56. Yes. |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 11:29 AM Response to Original message |
57. Gee, I hope so |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 01:15 PM Response to Reply #57 |
71. I'm married to one of those softies too |
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ProfessorGAC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 11:49 AM Response to Original message |
58. I Sure Hope So |
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gpandas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 11:50 AM Response to Original message |
59. yes |
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Wapsie B (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 11:56 AM Response to Original message |
60. Yes and not just when cutting onions. |
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sinkingfeeling (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 12:00 PM Response to Original message |
61. Certainly...unless it's Bill O'lielly whining about how he's not treated |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 12:01 PM Response to Original message |
62. I suppose so, because so many do it. I don't. |
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realisticphish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 12:21 PM Response to Original message |
63. yeah |
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RedCloud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 12:22 PM Response to Original message |
64. Don't be afraid to cry at what you see... |
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Jed Dilligan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 12:24 PM Response to Original message |
65. If you have a choice, you shouldn't cry, male OR female |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 01:26 PM Response to Reply #65 |
76. Bingo! Crying is to be avoided if possible and never used to "win" |
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WindRavenX (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 12:24 PM Response to Original message |
66. Of course |
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I Have A Dream (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 12:56 PM Response to Original message |
68. Yes. n/t |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 12:58 PM Response to Original message |
69. Depends....is the alleged "male" crying during Steel Magnolias? |
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CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 01:23 PM Response to Original message |
73. Of course it's OK...... |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 01:25 PM Response to Original message |
74. Men cry when people should cry, women cry at inappropriate times! |
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pdx_prog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 01:25 PM Response to Original message |
75. I went for years and years.. |
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Moochy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 01:32 PM Response to Original message |
80. Your post |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 01:33 PM Response to Reply #80 |
81. Baby jesus was a baby I thought. |
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Moochy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 01:37 PM Response to Reply #81 |
82. He is both |
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billyskank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 01:44 PM Response to Reply #82 |
84. I thought that was the President? |
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Moochy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 01:47 PM Response to Reply #84 |
85. Oh darn |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 01:47 PM Response to Reply #82 |
86. No, he's both 100% God and 100% human, but he does have... |
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Moochy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 02:13 PM Response to Reply #86 |
87. Collect them all!! |
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Moochy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-16-05 02:38 PM Response to Reply #86 |
113. You forgot |
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sakabatou (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 01:42 PM Response to Original message |
83. Depends on what happened. |
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atomic-fly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 02:36 PM Response to Original message |
89. yes...only not while playing baseball |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 04:38 PM Response to Original message |
93. Hell yes. |
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Vektor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 04:45 PM Response to Original message |
96. They're supposed to. That's why mother nature gave them lacrimal glands. |
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Hardrada (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 05:07 PM Response to Original message |
102. My background (Nordic) discouraged any visible emotion. |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 05:13 PM Response to Original message |
103. They have tear ducts, don;t they?? Must be there for a reason |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 06:39 PM Response to Reply #103 |
106. Statements like that are what bring "Intelligent Design" into schools! |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 07:02 PM Response to Reply #106 |
107. Huh?? |
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lovelaureng (434 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 06:35 PM Response to Original message |
104. Yes, I do. n/t |
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tjdee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 06:37 PM Response to Original message |
105. Watch a Bollywood movie, and you will see it is WONDERFUL. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 07:31 PM Response to Original message |
108. Yes, as long as it's not part of a temper tantrum |
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Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 08:07 PM Response to Original message |
110. It is better that they cry than let all emotions turn to anger |
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ikojo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 08:13 PM Response to Original message |
111. Yes, I do. |
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mvd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-05 08:22 PM Response to Original message |
112. Definitely |
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