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Blue_Roses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-05-05 11:27 PM Original message |
I think I want a divorce. When is it time to move on? |
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CanuckAmok (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-05-05 11:29 PM Response to Original message |
1. Don't have an affair. |
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YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 07:56 AM Response to Reply #1 |
49. Dr. Joy Browne is way too polite. |
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CanuckAmok (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 10:54 AM Response to Reply #49 |
58. either/or. |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-05-05 11:30 PM Response to Original message |
2. I Knew It Was Time |
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mike_c (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-05-05 11:34 PM Response to Reply #2 |
3. that's a good sign.... |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-05-05 11:39 PM Response to Reply #3 |
7. Those Are My Initials - Not a "K" |
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Blue_Roses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-05-05 11:35 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. well |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-05-05 11:50 PM Response to Reply #2 |
15. OMG REP |
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Starlight (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 12:11 AM Response to Reply #2 |
23. I think it was already PAST time!! |
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WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 01:48 AM Response to Reply #2 |
36. Remind me to stay away from you LOL |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 02:51 AM Response to Reply #36 |
41. So Not A Problem - Celebrate 13th Anniverary August 16th |
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WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 03:40 AM Response to Reply #41 |
44. Good for you ,, Have at the happiness.... |
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rwenos (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-05-05 11:35 PM Response to Original message |
5. If You Want to Walk Away and Never Come Back |
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Swede (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-05-05 11:37 PM Response to Original message |
6. You've lost that lovin' feeling. |
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bluestateguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-05-05 11:40 PM Response to Original message |
8. When he has a beer gut and a wandering eye. |
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Blue_Roses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-05-05 11:43 PM Response to Reply #8 |
9. what about my wandering eye |
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madinmaryland (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-05-05 11:46 PM Response to Reply #8 |
13. What about my beer gut? |
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Merrick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-05-05 11:44 PM Response to Original message |
10. Why marriage is a bad idea: |
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radwriter0555 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-05-05 11:44 PM Response to Original message |
11. Well, you could try talking to him. But the thing is, these fellas really |
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Blue_Roses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-05-05 11:50 PM Response to Reply #11 |
16. wow |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 07:35 AM Response to Reply #16 |
47. Sounds a little like my ex. |
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BiggJawn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-05-05 11:52 PM Response to Reply #11 |
17. Damn, rad, I thought *I* had "issues".... |
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radwriter0555 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 12:18 AM Response to Reply #17 |
24. Well, it's not about *issues*, it's about experience. I hired a really |
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Robeson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 12:37 AM Response to Reply #24 |
30. I know what you are saying. I used to work at a family owned.... |
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rwenos (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-05-05 11:55 PM Response to Reply #11 |
19. Spot On |
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NNadir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 01:19 AM Response to Reply #11 |
33. I hate these "me first" divorces. |
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Kathleen04 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 01:47 AM Response to Reply #33 |
35. That's too |
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NNadir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 02:45 AM Response to Reply #35 |
40. I have a cousin who did his divorce with class; gave his wife 5 M bucks. |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 10:41 AM Response to Reply #40 |
55. You can divorce well - I have |
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NNadir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 12:10 PM Response to Reply #55 |
62. I'm sure you did it with grace. Congratulations on your happiness. n/t. |
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LastKnight (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 05:59 PM Response to Reply #11 |
70. ya know, i have a feeling thats one reason why alot of guys |
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quiet.american (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 06:00 PM Response to Reply #11 |
71. Excellent advice. |
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hickman1937 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-05-05 11:45 PM Response to Original message |
12. I was told by a good friend, picture your life without him. |
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u4ic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-05-05 11:48 PM Response to Original message |
14. I would try counselling first |
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Blue_Roses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-05-05 11:54 PM Response to Reply #14 |
18. thanks so much |
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u4ic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 12:05 AM Response to Reply #18 |
20. Sounds like my ex |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 12:06 AM Response to Reply #18 |
21. I'm so sorry that you are having a tough time of it... |
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Blue_Roses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 12:11 AM Response to Reply #21 |
22. I definitely needed to vent |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 12:19 AM Response to Reply #22 |
25. You're not alone... |
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radwriter0555 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 12:22 AM Response to Reply #22 |
26. Well, be careful having an affair. It could be used against you in |
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Blue_Roses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 12:29 AM Response to Reply #26 |
28. honestly, |
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lizzieforkerry (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 12:28 AM Response to Original message |
27. When you just can't take his breathing anymore.... |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 12:36 AM Response to Original message |
29. I've never been married, but I KNEW I had to get out of one relationship |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 12:46 AM Response to Original message |
31. An affair will only serve to confuse you more |
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leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 12:54 AM Response to Original message |
32. try to make him meet you half way |
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kodi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 01:26 AM Response to Original message |
34. its the day you realize that your future is better apart than together, |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 02:13 AM Response to Original message |
37. When the children would be better off with you split up |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 02:32 AM Response to Reply #37 |
38. You sound like a good person and a good dad, joby. |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 02:52 AM Response to Reply #38 |
42. Thanks |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 02:58 AM Response to Reply #42 |
43. That made me smile. |
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RummyTheDummy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 02:44 AM Response to Original message |
39. This is precisely why I do most of the house and yardwork |
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KamaAina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 04:03 AM Response to Original message |
45. As soon as you meet a desperate DUer from the tropics? |
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Left_Winger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 07:11 AM Response to Original message |
46. I can sympathize... |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 07:43 AM Response to Original message |
48. I wrote more above, but... |
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latebloomer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 08:38 AM Response to Original message |
50. I would advise trying marriage couseling |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 10:04 AM Response to Reply #50 |
52. agreed |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 10:45 AM Response to Reply #52 |
57. "Real heterosexual men"? |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 12:16 PM Response to Reply #57 |
63. mature women don't go on vacation |
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oldcoot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 01:25 PM Response to Reply #63 |
66. She is being fair |
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Blue_Roses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 05:39 PM Response to Reply #63 |
67. "mature women don't go on vacation" |
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Bat Boy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 12:17 PM Response to Reply #52 |
64. Uh oh.... |
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Blue_Roses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 05:47 PM Response to Reply #52 |
68. "real heterosexual men" |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 06:03 PM Response to Reply #68 |
73. I think that poster has a few issues of his own to work out. |
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miss_kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 09:57 AM Response to Original message |
51. when you ask a question like this on a large message board |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 10:05 AM Response to Original message |
53. Think back to your wedding day? Are there still times you feel that same |
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Blue_Roses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 06:02 PM Response to Reply #53 |
72. I have mixed emotions |
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LynzM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 10:23 AM Response to Original message |
54. I can see why you are so frustrated |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 10:45 AM Response to Reply #54 |
56. messies don't become neatniks |
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LynzM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 12:38 PM Response to Reply #56 |
65. True |
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peacebuzzard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 11:55 AM Response to Original message |
59. It is time to move on when you have a drunk slob for a mate. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 11:56 AM Response to Original message |
60. I read the whole thread. I don't have any advice, but I wish you |
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Dastard Stepchild (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 11:57 AM Response to Original message |
61. Is this person your partner? |
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LaurenG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 05:50 PM Response to Original message |
69. When you are done you will know. |
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