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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-27-05 01:27 AM
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Stories from the road
This is the story of Tom, a co-driver that I had when I was driving team for a cross country gig. Tom is not his real name, but the events that I'm about to describe are true. Tom was basically a good guy, but he had really poor judgment sometimes and one time it almost cost him his life. Here we go.

I had been trucking cross country for a year when I was assigned to drive with Tom after my other co-driver wanted to drive with a woman that he met and had gotten friendly with. Tom was old enough to be my father, but he was fresh out of trucking school and had no experience driving trucks. We talked for little bit at the trucking terminal before we got to the business of trucking and my first impression of Tom was that he was a nice guy.

When we got out on the road I soon found out that Tom was lacking in a few skills as most newbies are. He couldn't back up straight to save his life. It would take him 20 minutes to dock a trailer and often he would give up and have me do it. One day we worked on that in an empty parking lot when we had some free time. All he needed was a little guidance because he was soon backing up like a pro. I don't know why the instructors in the school that he went to didn't spend more time with him on backing. I also taught him how to float shift. I had to figure that out on my own and I was driving 3 months before I could do it. My trainer was a double clutcher. Tom was float shifting his first month of driving.

Tom brought a couple of things to the table though. He supplied the cb radio and he brought with him part of his collection of classic rock tapes. There were probably about 50 tapes in all. I'm not really into classic rock, but it beat the hell out of listening to Rush and country and western.

Team driving can be rigorous. We would often do a cross country trip in just 2 days. We would rotate 8 hours on 8 hours off. After about three such trips in a row we found ourselves in Portland, Oregon and I was feeling pretty wiped out. We were dispatched a load going from Seattle to L.A. and we had 2 days to get there. I was feeling very good about that considering how tired I was. I drove up to Seattle and got the load and then turned the reigns over to Tom.

I awoke later to some Allman Brothers being played at near distortion level. I got up and realized that I had been zonked out for 16 hours. I hopped in the passenger seat and the next thing I realized was that we were in the San Joaquin valley in California. Tom had driven somewhere around 800 miles in those sixteen hours.

I said, "What the fuck, man? Why didn't you wake me up?"

"I tried. You wouldn't wake up."

Tom may have been twice my age, but he probably also had twice the stamina as I did. But driving for 16 hours straight is not cool if you are a trucker. In fact it is illegal. At the time truckers were only allowed to drive for ten hours before they had to take an 8 hour break. And we had time to stop and smell the roses so I didn't understand why Tom felt the urgent need to go driving illegally.

And that sleeping thing is true about me. One time when I was driving solo I had to drive all night to get to my destination in time. When I got there I asked the dock worker if he would wake me up when he was done and went to sleep in the truck. Four hours later I woke up and wondered why the guy didn't wake me up. It turns out that they tried. I fell asleep with the windows open and they stood by the door and yelled into the window and banged on the door, but could not wake me up. The foreman was getting ready to call an ambulance because he thought I had a heart attack or a stroke or something.

The 800 mile incident made me question Tom's judgment, but I kept it to myself.

I don't know how long it was after that incident, but one day we found ourselves in San Francisco waiting to be loaded. You could see the ocean from where we were and there was a seafood restaurant right on the water. We asked the shipping foreman how long it would be until we were loaded and he said it was going to be a while so we decided to go to the restaurant and have some dinner. I love seafood and so did Tom. So we had a nice, big dinner then went back to the truck. Tom wanted to have some desert so he opened up a can of peaches in syrup and ate the whole thing and washed it down with a can of pop. Keep all this eating stuff in mind.

We sat there for a while while he listened to music and I read a book. Then Tom started to get sick. He leaned out of the window and puked. I asked him if he was alright and he said that dinner just didn't agree with him. After a few more pukes he got out of the truck and went in search of a bathroom. I noticed that he was kind of wobbly on his feet. A half hour passed and no sight of Tom. Now I needed to go to the bathroom. I found Tom sitting down in the hall outside the bathroom with his back against the wall. He said he needed help getting back to the truck. He could not walk on his own. I got him back to the truck and hauled his ass up in there and decided it was time to find a hospital. I told Tom that he needed a doctor and went inside to get directions to the nearest hospital.

I got him to the hospital pushing the truck on the city streets leading to it and honking my horn at slow drivers so they would get out of the way. Tom went nearly the whole way to the hospital with his head hanging out the window because he could not stop puking. I thought he had food poisoning, but we had the same thing to eat except for the peaches and I was fine. When I got him to the hospital an orderly helped me get Tom out of the truck and he rushed him inside in a wheel chair.

I waited in the emergency room waiting room for a little while. Then a doctor came out and spoke to me. He asked me if I might know what is wrong with Tom and I told that I thought he might have food poisoning. The doctor was very serious and said no the problem was much more dire than. He said that Tom was, "Very sick."

Later an orderly came out and told me that Tom was going to be in the hospital for a while and that I needed to get a hotel room or something. I called the company that we worked for and told them that my co-driver was in the hospital and no I didn't know what was wrong. They took us off the load and told me to keep them posted. I got a room for the night and wondered just what the hell had happened.

The next day I go to the hospital and I find Tom in his room. He looks a lot better now and I ask him what happened. He said that his blood sugar went through the roof and that he was now a diabetic. It seems like I remember him saying that his blood sugar was 900. I don't know what that means, but he almost died so I guess it's pretty high. I ask him if I can get him anything and he says that he's going to be in the hospital for a few days and would like to have his shaving kit.

So I go out to the truck and start looking around for his shaving kit. I found it on the ledge over the front seats. Here's the kicker to the whole story. The shaving kit is open. I shit you not. As God as my witness the kit was open. I go to zip it closed and I notice two things. A needle and an empty vial of insulin. He knew. Now think. The big meal. The canned peaches in syrup. The fructose laden soda.

And that's the story of Tom.







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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-27-05 01:53 AM
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1. Diabetic Coma
and yes yuor friend tom could have died there...
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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-27-05 01:58 AM
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2. Thanks for reading my story
Edited on Fri May-27-05 02:04 AM by Droopy
Tom was out of the hospital after 3 days. He did not have insurance at the time because he hadn't been working for the company long enough. The hospital in San Francisco told Tom not to worry about paying anything when he told them he was poor and didn't have insurance. I love San Francisco now.

I drove with Tom for a few more months before I bought my own truck and went into business for myself. I wish I had gotten his number because I would like to know how he's doing now.
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Heidi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-27-05 01:59 AM
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3. Holy cow.
Edited on Fri May-27-05 02:05 AM by Heidi
Glad Tom wasn't at the wheel when his blood sugar spiked, or you wouldn't be here to tell that story.

You're an _excellent_ storyteller, Droopy. :hi:
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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-27-05 02:04 AM
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4. Thank you, Heidi
Like I said, Tom is a good guy. Just poor judgement. I think that there are a lot of people like him. It's amazing that I never saw him shooting insulin given the close quarters. I was blown away when I saw that needle and the empty vial of insulin.
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Heidi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-27-05 02:06 AM
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5. Both of my maternal grandparents
Edited on Fri May-27-05 02:07 AM by Heidi
were insulin-dependent diabetics. I'm dang careful about my health; needles sort of freak me out.
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driver8 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-27-05 05:04 PM
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12. I agree -- Droopy, that was a great story! n/t
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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-27-05 05:07 PM
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14. Thank you, driver8
I appreciate it. I do one of these threads every once in a while about my experiences on the road. I still drive for a living, but I do short haul now and I'm home every night. I've got today off because our customer that we haul to is shutting down both today and Monday for the holiday.
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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-27-05 04:04 AM
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6. Kick
Hopefully this will be on the front page for the morning crew. I hope y'all don't mind a little long-windyness here in the lounge.
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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-27-05 04:16 PM
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7. Kick
One more time.
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Mrs_Beastman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-27-05 04:29 PM
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8. Holy Crap
My mom is diabetic and tries to keep her blood sugar between 80-120. Anything else can do permanent damage to her kidneys.

I wonder what he was thinking? I know with my mom, when she was newly diagnosed, she had trouble with her blood sugar.

Here is my theory. Tom had a big meal. He took his insulin to help him digest the big meal. Like most newbies, he took too much insulin. So after dinner, his blood sugar started to crash. To compensate for the crashing blood sugar, he wolfed down sugary stuff...and then he overshot in the other direction...causing him to go in the 900.
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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-27-05 04:49 PM
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9. I think he just ran out of insulin
And thought he could handle the food. It could be as you say, though.

I never asked Tom about it and I didn't tell him that I found the needle and the empty bottle of insulin.
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Mrs_Beastman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-27-05 06:06 PM
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21. That too
I was telling Mr B about your post while we were making dinner and mentioned the empty vile..I think your right.
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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-27-05 06:45 PM
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22. Also
Tom did not have health insurance at the time and I don't know if he had a prescription for more insulin. Tom was somewhat poor and trucking was the best job that he ever had. He may have been getting his insulin on some program designed to help the poor. We never stopped at a place out on the road where he could have gotten insulin, either.
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Mrs_Beastman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-27-05 06:57 PM
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23. true
Insulin is $50.00 a pop and is usually not covered by insurance...my mom, who is one of those seniors who has used up her savings on medicine...I've seen her 'stretch out' her insulin by eating a practically Atkins-like diet.
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-27-05 04:58 PM
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10. Hi, Droopy,
That is one heckova compelling story, and you tell it superbly! How scary! I hope he got more sense, and is still alive, and driving. And thank goodness you were there with him...otherwise, he'd be dead right now. wow...
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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-27-05 05:02 PM
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11. Thank you, Peggy
When Tom got out of the hospital we went back to his home town so he could visit with his family. I was introduced to his wife and kids and Tom credited me with saving his life. I told Tom that I'm sure he'd do the same for me.
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yewberry Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-27-05 05:05 PM
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13. Y'know what, Droopy?
I love your stories from the road. I do.


And I'm picky as hell about what I read.
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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-27-05 05:09 PM
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15. Thank you, tofunut
You'll have to sharpen up your writer's quill and tell us a story, too. Everybody has got stories.
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yewberry Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-27-05 05:16 PM
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17. Not anytime soon.
I get busy enough editing and critiquing other people's stuff that I don't feel like working on mine. I just finished a project that kept me chained to the computer for three weeks...this is as much as I can commit to writing for now!

Duh. Nice work ethic I have, huh? At least I finish the paying work; the labor of love stuff will wait a little.
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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-27-05 05:20 PM
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19. You're an editor, eh?
I always thought that would be a great job to have. But I read at a snail's pace so I'm afraid I wouldn't be any good at it. My grammar skills aren't the best, either.
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yewberry Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-27-05 05:32 PM
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20. Sometimes.
Lowliest of the low...the freelance editor.

I essentially lived in writing workshops my last two years of college--that's the fun stuff for me.

Your grammar is fine. I'll take a writer who can write in his own voice over a perfect grammarian any day.
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knowbody0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-27-05 05:12 PM
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16. droopy,
tom was LUCKY to have you on board. great story
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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-27-05 05:17 PM
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18. Thank you, knowbody0
I'm glad you enjoyed the story. And I think Tom would do the same for me if I were in trouble. That's what I told him and his wife when they thanked me for what I did.
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