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but...wow...the last few days have been amazing...
One of the most beautiful girls I had ever known back when I was in HS and college (we went to the same college) sought me out by calling all of the people with my last name in Portland and Eugene, Oregon where my brother lives (since she knew I had a brother there eight years ago when we last spoke and she had no idea where I lived)....she eventually found my brother and he gave me her contact info by email a couple years back....I emailed her periodically - about once every three to six months....
Then in the last three months or so, she starts to contact me more often by email and starts calling me a bit (she is 3000 miles away)...then she asks if she can come out to visit....sure I say...then she comes out and I have to say - that was the most amazing time I have had with a woman in 10 years.
The last ten years I was almost exclusively a playboy...I never found any woman I could take a serious interest in. I always found huge flaws in everyone and I was very unforgiving of those flaws for some reason. I do not expect people to be perfect, but there are certain expectations I want met that I could never find to my satisfaction all wrapped in one (available) person. I dated so many women it is ridiculous...I love exotic women and I have dated women from damn near every country in existence it seems - ranging from the Scandinavian to the Mediterranean to the Eastern European to the Indian to the Chinese to the SE Asian...Korean...Latin American...of course American girls too...It probably has a lot to do with my incredible wanderlust. I would date them for a month...then move on to the next one....maybe the intellect was not the level I like...or she was too much of a conservative...or too needy...or too selfish....or didn't quite have the look I was shooting for...or not the best in bed...or whatever....
Then she comes into town and I pick her up....she is still hotter than ever and boy did we click from the first moment. We shut off our phones for the next three days and we took some cool day trips and we had an absolute blast. Everywhere I took her was great - we had the places all to ourselves in the great outdoors...or other places in the city that should be well known to others, but amazingly are not - we owned those places too - we were literally the only people in this one incredibly beautiful place in the heart of the city with amazing views and lush gardens on a beautiful estate of magnificent proportions that was converted to a park. That place has always been a winner for me on dates ;)
As a matter of happenstance, we will be living within 100 miles of each other very soon. All this time, I have been such an unemotional jerk...then she comes along....I was unaware that there were women that simultaneously:
1) Were incredibly down to earth
2) Total Givers (She took me out as I much as I took her out - after flying here)
3) Incredibly Incredibly good in bed
4) Smart, well educated, and has her shiit together - she is a veterinarian - so she loves animals too which is indicative of how good she is as a person.
5) Looks like an Elite runway model (no kidding - 5'11" with that "It" face and body.) That whole super down to earth factor and strong intellect that she did not want to waste while pursuing modeling gigs is probably the only reason she did not do serious modeling. During the day we went out in the city and she wore jeans and any old shirt - no make up - and guys were ogling her all over the place.
She is not perfect...she has flaws like anyone else, but they are very acceptable and even endearing!
Now....I have not completely fallen for her, but it certainly has me thinking....especially since we will be living close to one another soon and the timing is right...we shall see...No matter what happens, I do know that what I have always been so incredibly picky about does indeed exist, so I am glad that I have held out on what kind of woman I would be willing to be with long term.
So, there I was dating women from all over the world in various cosmopolitan venues thinking that was the path to take....and a total All-American girl from my very own white suburban home town has the biggest effect a woman has had on me in ten years!! LOL....maybe it is partly because we can get past the bullshiit right away with our common ground - I mean I have known her in some capacity since I was eleven years old or so!
Good times...She just went home...we will see where this goes...If it does not work out for whatever reason, then no worries - at least I know it is possible to find what I want!
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