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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-17-05 08:36 PM
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When did my babies get so big?!
I swear I just brought them home from the hospital a few months ago! *lol*








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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-17-05 08:37 PM
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1. I know the feeling.
I just made a scrapbook for my mother for her birthday, and I included pictures of all three kids as babies. It really doesn't seem possible that they've grown so fast (one will be 18 next month; the other two are 5½ and 3½).

How old are your kids? They sure are cute.
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-17-05 08:39 PM
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3. Ian is 7 and Brandon is 5 and did you really say
that your kids are 18, 5, and 3? :) How'd that gap happen?
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-17-05 08:42 PM
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5. The gap happened because...
I didn't meet my husband until my daughter was ten. :)

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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-17-05 08:46 PM
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6. That would do it. :^) I knew someone else who had a gap. She had
2 older boys, and when she was taking her oldest one to college she had her daughter strapped on in a Snuggli. She was a menopause baby. :)
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Bok_Tukalo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-17-05 08:38 PM
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2. While you weren't looking
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-17-05 08:40 PM
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4. Yeah, I spend a lot of time not looking, too :^( Which is why
when I put them to bed I realize how much time I wasted during the day not playing with them, and wind up snuggling and tickling and playing until later than they ought to be up. *lol*
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lildreamer316 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-17-05 08:52 PM
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7. How absolutely adorable!
They are precious!Good luck
--signed, the mother of and 18 month old little boy.....
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-17-05 08:53 PM
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8. Thank you. I miss them being toddlers.. That was a fun age. *g*
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tjwmason Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-18-05 03:56 AM
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9. What gorgeous chiLdren
You must be such a proud Mummy.
:hi:
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-18-05 12:56 PM
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16. I am indeed :^) (They are as bright and sweet as they are cute!)
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laylah Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-18-05 05:23 AM
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10. What sweet babies!
My oldest turned 24 on the 8th, my "baby" 21 yesterday. *sigh* Yes, it does seem like only "yesterday", even now.

Jenn
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-18-05 12:58 PM
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17. My mother told me even when I brought mine home from the hospital
that when they cried she still got "that feeling" that she needed to feed them. I guess that never really goes away. :)

Congrats on seeing yours into adulthood. Some days I worry mine aren't gonna make it. *lol*
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Spacemom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-18-05 06:38 AM
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11. It goes by way too fast
My "babies" are 9 and 4 now. They seem to grow up when you're not looking. :loveya:
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-18-05 12:58 PM
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18. If we lived closer our kids could play together. *g* They are fun ages
I mean I miss them when they were babies and tots, but I am loving them at this age too.

Funny how that works. :)
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Theres-a Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-18-05 06:56 AM
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12. They're adorable
Edited on Wed May-18-05 07:10 AM by there-s a
GrovelRat
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-18-05 12:59 PM
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19. Thank you. :^) Nice grovel rat. *l*
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Theres-a Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-18-05 01:18 PM
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23. It's actually fleabert's
I'm just promoting .This is my grovelrat,squeaky.
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-18-05 01:29 PM
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24. My SIL had a grovel rat named Buddy. Now they just have an
extremely large cat. (No, she didn't eat Buddy.)
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dbt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-18-05 07:13 AM
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13. It's an odd, bidirectional time distortion that only happens to parents.
At the same moment, days are as long as months (think teething) and years go by like days. It was, simultaneously, 23 years and just last week that my son's butt was so small that it would fit into my hand.

BTW, if you have any gray hairs, pull one out and put it under a miscroscope. You will find one of your children's names neatly engraved upon it!

:hi:
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-18-05 01:00 PM
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20. I have many badly disguised grey hairs, and there
is no doubt that my kids' names are on a lot of them *l*

Those first 6 months take forever with small fry. I think it's because we are awake the entire time! *lol*
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all.of.me Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-18-05 07:48 AM
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14. i think it happens while you are trying to figure out
how to raise them!

i'll understand parenting with 20/20 hindsight. in the meantime, they have gotten to be 11 & 15.
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-18-05 01:03 PM
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21. I am dreading the teen years. I like them small because
they are always with you. Teen years they don't want to be with you and thus you worry when they are off with their pals doing who knows what. (Just thinking back on the weird stuff my lil bro did as a teen. Like playing tag war games at night wearing black clothes.. and running across roads while doing it.)
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CornField Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-18-05 07:58 AM
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15. You know, I use to get all melancholy about them leaving infanthood
and then toddlerhood and then childhood. The truth is, however, that teenagerhood (LOL!) is my favorite so far. I love being able to have debates on current events, visit museums and discuss art, and watching for all those "light bulb" moments on philosophical levels.

Don't get me wrong, I still love those moments when my little guy comes to cuddle in my lap when he's warm with sleep. I just don't dread the growing so much anymore. To watch them grow, inside and out, is one of the most blessed and sacred things I've ever had the pleasure of knowing.

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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-18-05 01:03 PM
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22. Well, that's true. The light bulb moments will still be there even if
the cuddling won't be. :)
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happyphantom Donating Member (26 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-18-05 01:40 PM
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25. tell me about it
I can't believe she's starting Kindergarten next year






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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-18-05 03:26 PM
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29. What a beauty! :^D Bran is not at all keen to go to school. He
wants to stay home with mommy. *g*
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Magrittes Pipe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-18-05 01:43 PM
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26. That'll teach you to feed them.
;)

Cute kids. :)
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-18-05 03:26 PM
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30. *lol* thanks!
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hunter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-18-05 01:48 PM
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27. I used to think changing diapers, cleaning up spills, etc., was hard work.
When my kids were small, taking care of them was a 24/7 job.

Now that they are teenagers it is much more than that. If I couldn't rely on my wife, my extended family, the schools, and our community I would be stark raving insane.

I had no idea the storms I dragged my own parents through when I was a teenager. Now I'm beginning to have some idea.
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-18-05 03:27 PM
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31. Yeah. Funny how payback always comes from the next generation. *L*
Are you parents rubbing it in at all?
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hunter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-18-05 04:01 PM
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33. Yes.
My dad doesn't say anything, he just looks at me and his grandkids and smiles, but my mom always bursts into gleeful wicked laughter and tells embarassing stories whenever I dare complain.

I'm lucky, my kids don't come home from school in very black moods and punch holes in the drywall like I used to do. My dad always made me patch the holes, sometimes over and over again until they were patched perfectly and invisibly.

By the time I moved away to college I was so good at patching drywall I got a job refurbishing student apartments, and this paid for a large part of my schooling. Thanks to my dad, I never had to take out a student loan.
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-18-05 04:07 PM
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34. Well, that is intriguing! What a wonderful full circle with the drywall.
For me, it's always been my dad who liked to watch my youngest one tear up my house and say "Hmm just like his mother". (and he is, too. Even looks just like me. *g*)

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Debbi801 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-18-05 01:52 PM
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28. Very sweet. I love pictures of sleeping children...
They look so peaceful. My parents used to take pictures of us that way, too.

It is amazing how quickly they grow up.

Debbi
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-18-05 03:29 PM
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32. Thank you. I thought the flash would wake 'em up for sure, but
obviously not.

I love to watch my guys sleep. I even pat their faces and hold their hands. They sleep right through it. *g*
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SW FL Dem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-18-05 04:15 PM
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35. I know the feeling!
Your kids are adorable. You are right, each year goes by a little faster than the previous one.

My "little" boy just had a physical for high school sports next year. He's 5'8" and 170 pounds (solid muscle) and he's only 14.
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-18-05 06:55 PM
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36. Thanks. Ian, the top one there, is already almost up to my shoulder, so
I suspect he will be looking me in the eye before long. *l* (And he's only 7!)
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