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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 07:54 PM Original message |
Ok, I need a relationship rules clarification |
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Fenris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 07:56 PM Response to Original message |
1. I'd be wondering if the rules worked both ways. |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 07:58 PM Response to Reply #1 |
5. I asked him about that... |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 07:57 PM Response to Original message |
2. If he wants to get involved with someone else, he should have asked |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 08:01 PM Response to Reply #2 |
6. We've known each other since 1990... |
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greatauntoftriplets (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 07:57 PM Response to Original message |
3. I think that she is either getting a bit of "strange".... |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 08:03 PM Response to Reply #3 |
10. I amlost hope she is... |
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greatauntoftriplets (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 08:05 PM Response to Reply #10 |
13. After reading WindRavenX's thread about her roommates .... |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 08:07 PM Response to Reply #13 |
16. Actually they haven't... |
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liberalhistorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 08:10 PM Response to Reply #10 |
19. If that's the case, she just might |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 08:13 PM Response to Reply #19 |
21. I could see that being it |
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liberalhistorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 08:17 PM Response to Reply #21 |
26. He may very well love her and |
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serryjw (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 08:23 PM Response to Reply #10 |
28. Before I read this post ....I figured this out |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 08:25 PM Response to Reply #28 |
29. He's 33...she's 31 |
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serryjw (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 08:30 PM Response to Reply #29 |
31. A while back one of our young DUers |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 08:32 PM Response to Reply #31 |
32. From what he's told me... |
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serryjw (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 08:47 PM Response to Reply #32 |
33. Where they virgins when they got married? |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 08:49 PM Response to Reply #33 |
34. Not virgins before the marriage... |
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serryjw (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 09:22 PM Response to Reply #34 |
35. I just don't get it...... |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 09:23 PM Response to Reply #35 |
36. Fortunately the couple from my original post... |
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serryjw (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 09:28 PM Response to Reply #36 |
38. If they don't have kids why |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 09:29 PM Response to Reply #38 |
39. inertia? |
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serryjw (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 09:34 PM Response to Reply #39 |
45. She is perfectly happy with the arrangement |
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Fridays Child (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 07:57 PM Response to Original message |
4. Does this friend have an erotic interest in you? |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 08:02 PM Response to Reply #4 |
7. Been there. Done that. Got the t-shirt. |
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Fridays Child (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 08:27 PM Response to Reply #7 |
30. Smart girl! |
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sundog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 08:02 PM Response to Original message |
8. maybe she has done something herself |
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tjdee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 08:03 PM Response to Original message |
9. It means "I'm not divorcing you, losing any money, etc." |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 08:05 PM Response to Reply #9 |
12. That was my first thought... |
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tjdee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 08:09 PM Response to Reply #12 |
18. Maybe it's a new way of dealing with it? |
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Bouncy Ball (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 08:04 PM Response to Original message |
11. He SERIOUSLY needs more clarification. |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 08:06 PM Response to Reply #11 |
14. That's what I told him... |
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Bouncy Ball (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 08:07 PM Response to Reply #14 |
15. Wha? |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 08:09 PM Response to Reply #15 |
17. They're both very non-confrontational... |
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Bok_Tukalo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 08:17 PM Response to Reply #15 |
27. No kidding |
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SOteric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 08:12 PM Response to Original message |
20. They only one who can provide a useful elucidation is wifey. |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 08:14 PM Response to Reply #20 |
23. Heeeeee... |
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Bok_Tukalo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 08:14 PM Response to Original message |
22. I take an extremely dim view of infidelity and would see that comment |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 08:16 PM Response to Reply #22 |
24. I personally would want... |
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BikeWriter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 08:16 PM Response to Original message |
25. If I were him I'd hide the guns, knives, and scissors! |
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knowbody0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 09:27 PM Response to Original message |
37. it is just a test |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 09:30 PM Response to Reply #37 |
41. now that is an interesting take... |
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knowbody0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 09:37 PM Response to Reply #41 |
47. i have a friend |
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MissB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 09:29 PM Response to Original message |
40. I'd be confused too |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 09:32 PM Response to Reply #40 |
42. It's good to know others... |
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MissB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 09:33 PM Response to Reply #42 |
43. Seriously, if my partner said that to me |
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texas1928 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 09:34 PM Response to Original message |
44. To me, I would be asking... |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 09:36 PM Response to Reply #44 |
46. If it was anyone else... |
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texas1928 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-18-05 09:38 PM Response to Reply #46 |
48. I had a girlfriend say that in so many words one time. |
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