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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 03:32 PM
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I am head over heels in lust.
Because, I have decided that.....

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ewagner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 03:33 PM
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1. Nothing wrong with lust
...at least as near as I can remember.... :evilgrin:
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 03:35 PM
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4. Usually, there's nothing wrong with it.
Unless your lust torments you in multiple directions. :banghead:
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4_Legs_Good Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 04:41 PM
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42. Lust always does that
I don't think there's any way around it...

Mmmmmmmm luuuuust....

david
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johnnie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 03:35 PM
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2. Love doesn't suck
The people you might end up loving are usually the ones that end up sucking. And, get your mind out of the gutter people, I don't mean it that way. Although a case can be made.......well, forget it.
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 03:37 PM
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7. Yeah, you're right.
Well, on both counts. :P
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NewJeffCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 03:35 PM
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3. me, too
My wife is hot!

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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 03:36 PM
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5. You've got it all.
You're lucky. :)
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NewJeffCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 03:47 PM
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14. well, I went through divorce before
Sometimes, you have to hit bottom first...

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the Princess Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 03:36 PM
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6. Lust is the next best thing
To real love Sarah! And on a good day it can be the BEST!!
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 03:39 PM
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9. They have anything to do with each other.
which is a good thing sometimes
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 04:42 PM
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44. I meant to add "don't".
Too late to edit though.

Paging Dr. Freud.

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stellanoir Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 03:37 PM
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8. springtime. . .
be mindful of all the plethora of flying pheromones and have a blast !!!

Just always recognize the subtle distinction between lust and love. As long as you do that, then there's no problem and no one gets hurt.

Happy Spring !!!
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 03:40 PM
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10. Exactly!
I don't need the complications of human emotions anymore anyway. It's annoying.
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stellanoir Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 04:00 PM
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24. oh sweetie
Sounds as if you just need a break.

You may be experiencing a most temporary incidence of "rebound hysteria." PM me if you require details or a more specific definition.

Still truly, nothing gets us higher or lower than hormones and emotions on this silly sphere.

Again, have fun.

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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 04:02 PM
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25. I've been in rebound hysteria for some time now.
Edited on Fri Apr-08-05 04:26 PM by SarahBelle
Arrggghhh! :banghead:

I know what it is, I know why, and I'm nothing if not self-aware, but sometimes despite all that, people just are where they are and have to go through what they have to go through.
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libhill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 03:43 PM
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11. But-
Ya didn't have ta murder Cupid - I'm shocked, shocked!
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 03:45 PM
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12. I wouldn't kill him.
Someone else did. I still have my unfortunate heart. :(
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matcom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 03:46 PM
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13. but Mrs Matcom is taken!
although....... :evilgrin:
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 03:50 PM
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15. You're a farking tease!
Dammit, that's my job in the world. :grr:
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matcom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 03:50 PM
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16. got a fresh roll of film
and just ITCHING to use it! :7
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 04:02 PM
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26. Just send it my way.
:P
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 03:52 PM
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18. Yes, but by whom is she taken?
I hear the line is long...and getting longer. :evilgrin:
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matcom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 03:54 PM
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19. highest bidder
i'm a capitalist you know :evilgrin:
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 03:55 PM
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20. Ooooooh....you're going to get it for that one.
:nuke:

Her first name is WHAT again? :scared:
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matcom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 03:56 PM
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21. Lola
or whatever YOU want it to be :P
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 03:58 PM
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22. Playin' with fire!
She must be on her way home! :D
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matcom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 04:03 PM
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28. ssssssshhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
:D
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kmla Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 04:05 PM
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31. Is that L-O-L-A? Ummmm..... Errrrr....
*Has Kink's earworm eat through his brain*

Are you sure she's a girl? I'm just sayin' - if you trust what the lyrics said....

:evilgrin:
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 04:03 PM
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29. Fancy seeing you here!
:spank:
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 05:43 PM
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46. Moi?
O8)
:dilemma:
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Debi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 03:51 PM
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17. I wish I could put my heels over my head
Bet I'd be popular then :P
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 04:05 PM
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32. I used to be able to do that.
I should work on my stretches again. :evilgrin:
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Debi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 04:36 PM
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40. Works every time
that and the tequila! :toast:
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InvisibleTouch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 03:59 PM
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23. I hear you, SarahBelle
I'll take lust over love, any day. Much simpler and more straightforward ... and eventually it burns itself out and you're left happily alone again. :)
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 04:06 PM
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33. Yep.
:7
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Bok_Tukalo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 04:03 PM
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27. Well ... leave him at home on 23rd, dammit
mutter ... mumble
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 04:04 PM
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30. There's no him.
It was a copycat thread. Well, there's kind of a him, but he's nowhere near the CT/MA area anyway (well, kind of unless you want to get technical). Anyway, I am a woman of mystery. :D
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Bok_Tukalo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 04:18 PM
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34. Mysterious? Enigmatic?
Or just plain odd?
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 04:24 PM
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36. Depnds on how one defines "odd".
One person's "odd" is another person's sensitive-fiercely-intelligent-curious-loving-nurturing-calm-fiery-sweet-sexy-delightfully pure-deliciously depraved-thoughtful-visceral. But hey, odd probably sums it up better. :shrug:
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Bok_Tukalo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 04:31 PM
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38. "odd probably sums it up better."
I generally go with that as a self description.

It's certainly easier than cryptic-opaque-bright-infuriating-aloof-romantic-clever-stupid-consistent-loyal-perceptive-creative-witty-banal-durable-insatiable-ready-fearless-deep-spontaneous-debauched-comfortable-mischevious.
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 06:47 PM
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51. Odd is highly underrated.
Embrace your oddness I say. :D
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Debi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 04:38 PM
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41. I thought you were dead?
Wasn't there a post about your death eariler this week?
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 07:17 PM
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56. That?
My ex (can I officially call him my ex now as our divorce is final in 6 weeks?) "inadvertantly" put on an internet dating site that he was a widower. :eyes:
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bridgit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 04:20 PM
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35. straight no chaser no strings attached...
now there is a viable m.o.
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 04:27 PM
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37. cut and dry
:thumbsup:
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Bok_Tukalo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 04:36 PM
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39. One of the biggest myths is the myth of "no strings attached"
Every time there is and it's attached to a small piece of yourself that you don't notice is until several have gone.
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bridgit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 04:42 PM
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43. aw, that's sweet...but it does happen...
not every day in every way but it does. too much attaches like a leech for that matter. too many lay anchor & start sucking. here's the tag on the personal lic plate to be scouting...

"there's no shame to my game"

not the biggest of myths...only rare by comparison imo
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inflection Donating Member (67 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 04:42 PM
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love hurts.... when it ends at least. =(
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 06:45 PM
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49. Yeah.
I haven't been much in love for about 7 years. Just getting divorced now. Slow... death. My marriage was rather like Terri Shiavo when I think about it. 'Bout damn time someone pulled out the feeding tube at least.
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tjwmason Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 04:42 PM
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45. With anybody in particular
Or merely with the notion of being in lust?

Also, I would note that the phrase 'love sucks' can be interpreted in two different ways - meaning close to diametrically opposed concepts.
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 06:42 PM
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48. Both.
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leftofthedial Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 05:44 PM
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47. I have that effect on women
Actually both those effects.

<sigh>
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 06:46 PM
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50. That's a good thing.
Just make sure you utilize all that mojo! :D
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Kat45 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 06:56 PM
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52. Lust can be good. Real good.
(especially when it involves a man 15 years younger than me!) :D
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 06:59 PM
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53. Let's see...
33 - 15 = LEGAL!!!!

:woohoo:
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Kat45 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 07:07 PM
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54. Whoa! You're right!
But that might be too young to know what he's doing. LOL

At my age, 15 years younger is older than you! :-)
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 07:11 PM
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55. I could comment on this entire thing, but for once...
I will be a lady and not talk about it, but yeah. 18's too young, but they have it down pretty good by mid-20's usually. :blush:
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Bok_Tukalo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 07:18 PM
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57. 18 is too young ... way too young
Anything less than 25, actually.

Maybe it is different for women in their 30's, though.
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 07:20 PM
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58. Sometimes it's hard to match up those "peaks" in genders.
Nature's joke I think. :(
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Bok_Tukalo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 07:28 PM
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59. I'm not sure I buy that.
It hasn't been my experience, anyway.

If I wasn't so suspicious of The Media and the images and ideas they try to push in order to sell shit, I would be freaked out right now waiting for my dick to suddenly stop working.
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 07:35 PM
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61. True.
Plus, we're all individuals. Maybe some of it has more to do with particular men in their 40's than necessarily the age itself. Plus, when I think about it, I'm not much different than I was in my late teens or early 20's other than being more confident and comfortable with myself.
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Kat45 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 07:45 PM
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64. I believe in the peak age thing for women.
As I got older, my hormones went wilder. In my forties, I'd swear my hormone-level wasn't far from that of a 19-year-old man. It's still true. :shrug:
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Bok_Tukalo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 07:47 PM
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65. The thing is, I'm giving 40 a good hard shove
and I have never, in my life, been more ... easily enticed.
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Kat45 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 11:20 PM
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76. You sound like just the kind of guy I'd want to meet.
:-)
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tjdee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 07:33 PM
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60. That's all many men want, anyway.
I've come to that decision. It's like, love sucks and everything--and also, a lot of guys just want you to have sex with them and shut up.

Oh, okay, you can talk for a while, but if you start to get on their nerves there's always someone else to have sex with.

Uh, it could be said that I'm bitter.

:silly:
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 07:36 PM
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62. I think I was a man in my former life.
Or I'm bitter in other ways perhaps. :crazy:
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tjdee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 07:39 PM
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63. It's certainly stress free livin'!
I think, like Madonna, I may be a gay man trapped in a woman's body.

:crazy:
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Bok_Tukalo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 08:07 PM
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68. It's all men want ... it's all women want
They just rarely want it at the same time.
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Lilith Velkor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 08:39 PM
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69. They only want that from women who want relationships.
Boy, do they scream when they find out they've been used for sex.

*Those* guys seem to think making a woman happy will fuck up their street cred or something.

Maybe I'm bitter, too. :crazy:
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 10:00 PM
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74. That balance is hard to find.
Seriously, you never seem to get what you want or need from whomever you want or need it from.
It used to be all I did was give, give, give, but dammit, I got my own needs too.
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SOteric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 07:55 PM
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66. It was the pic of matcom in the pink thong, wasn't it?
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 08:05 PM
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67. Either that or Martin and the paddle.
;)
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fluffernutter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 08:42 PM
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70. lust is way underrated.
enjoy it, sweetie!
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 08:55 PM
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72. I'm tryin'.
:7
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GalleryGod Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 08:55 PM
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71. Sarahbelle! Report to Boston on 23 April '05
:grouphug: Prepare to stoke thy lust

Let the Bacchanal begin :spray: :spray: :wow: :smoke: :evilgrin:
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 08:56 PM
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73. For some heavy group lovin'.
:P
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liberalhistorian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-08-05 10:13 PM
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75. Well, it's been so long since I've been in
either love or lust that I now think they BOTH suck!
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