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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 12:43 PM
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Have you ever typed up a response only to decide it's not worth it?
Today I have started to respond to a thread nearly a dozen times...but I'm certain nothing I can say will change anyone's mind. It's frustrating.

That is all. You may now return to your regularly scheduled lives.
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BrklynLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 12:43 PM
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1. Yup. Typed it up..and never hit enter.
Edited on Wed Mar-23-05 12:44 PM by BrklynLiberal
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ZenLefty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 12:44 PM
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2. Umm..
Edited on Wed Mar-23-05 12:45 PM by ZenLefty
never mind.
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 12:45 PM
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3. Always. As recently as last night. I was going to reply in length to
someone who found me to be arrogant (;)) and I found it was just too tiring. :hi:
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 12:48 PM
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12. I continued that discussion with him via PM
He shouldn't have taken his anger out on you.
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 12:51 PM
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19. And thanks again for taking up for me. What angered me was that I
knew it was directed at me because he quoted me. I know times are tough and all but yowza.
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 12:52 PM
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He backed down when confronted
He seems like a really really sad guy.
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 12:53 PM
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22. That he did.
I hope things look better for him today.
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 12:45 PM
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4. Yep. Often
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BurtWorm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 12:45 PM
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5. Never mind.
Edited on Wed Mar-23-05 12:46 PM by BurtWorm
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frictionlessO Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 12:46 PM
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6. Nearly every other response! You're not alone;)
We need a Second Thoughts and Apathy Group!
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Cyndee_Lou_Who Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 12:49 PM
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14. Psssst....
Hey there, stranger!! Yer in the lounge!??!!?
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katinmn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 12:47 PM
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7. Yup. And there's some I wished I hadn't responded to.
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katinmn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 12:47 PM
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8. Not this one, of course.
;-)
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lumberingbear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 12:47 PM
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9. Been there, done that.
ALOT !!!
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Huckebein the Raven Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 12:47 PM
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10. All the time
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GOPBasher Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 12:48 PM
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11. I've done that. n/t
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Beware the Beast Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 12:49 PM
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13. SELF-DELETE
Edited on Wed Mar-23-05 12:49 PM by Beware the Beast Man
Forget it.
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Beware the Beast Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 12:49 PM
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15. On that note...
Edited on Wed Mar-23-05 12:49 PM by Beware the Beast Man
Never mind.
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 12:49 PM
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16. Deleted message
:P
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Beware the Beast Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 12:52 PM
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21. Ignored
:D
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 12:53 PM
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23. Oh - I doubt that person would post in one of my threads.
:P
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4_Legs_Good Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 12:49 PM
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17. Oh Lord yes
all the time.

david
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LynzM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 12:50 PM
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18. Yup... definitely have.
Oh well!
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jonnyblitz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 12:52 PM
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20. most of the time I never hit "send" and back out of the response.
about 8 out of 10 of my posts never go through. the ones I DONT send are usually the longest. I often find people whom I have befriended in the lounge have political views that I dont agree with when i see their posts in the political forums and I am reluctant to get into it with them.
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 12:57 PM
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25. Yes.
It's always disheartening to find that someone you really enjoy in the lounge has opinions that are so radically different from yours about issues that matter to you. I can relate.
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jonnyblitz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 01:34 PM
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36. i should never post in religion threads either..
and when/if i DO hit "send" I always regret and often don't dare to venture back when i see responses to my comments in "my posts". I am a hardcore atheist who believes most our problems stem from religion so you can see why.I find it useless most of the time to even discuss because atheists and religionists don't except the initial premise of each other so how can an argument be of any use. I am not trying to hijack your thread and start a discussion on this particular topic but it is the ONE general topic I need to just walk away from everytime here at DU but sometimes I just can't help myself. and i hit "send" when I should just back out.
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Mr. McD Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 12:56 PM
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24. Yes, more often then not,
Thats why I only have 1500 post in over 3 years.:shrug:
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terrya Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 12:57 PM
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26. I've done the self detete thing a few times.
But it's silly, isn't it? :-)
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Misunderestimator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 12:58 PM
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27. I swear it happens more often than I actually post.
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 01:05 PM
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33. I maybe should have done more of that last night.
But there were a few threads that got my dander up.
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fob Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 12:58 PM
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28. Let's put it this way, my post count here is short by probably a couple
hundred...


And some of those were my best work, woulda changed a lot of minds, but I felt the issue needed to be fleshed out a little more before I brought it to a conclusion :evilgrin:
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ret5hd Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 01:01 PM
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29.  .
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Blue-Jay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 01:02 PM
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30. About 1 out of every 10 replies.
Usually when I'm about to be snarky. It feels good typing it, even when I don't submit the response.
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 01:03 PM
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31. I do that so much.
It's not even funny, I'll read threads in GD and type something out, and then I'll say to myself "you don't want to get into" and I'll cancel out. I do it sometimes in the lounge too. D'oh.
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Parrcrow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 01:04 PM
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32. many times
.....okay, might as well send this.
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texas1928 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 01:06 PM
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34. I have done it many times.
Sometimes I have posted a response then decided it is to personal and deleted. I am shy, when it comes to people knowing me. And I have started to post angry responses in GD and stopped because I am just not in the mood to have a slugging match with someone. They have their opinion and I have mine.
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Radical Activist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-23-05 01:08 PM
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35. On occasion.
Usually when I decide a person is getting too mean, ugly or irrational. Yes I could defend myself from some jerkoff's angry post but then it would just continue and get worse. Its no reason to make a mean and snide post of my own in response.
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