I did an intense BDSM scene last nite (4+ hours) - ask me anything.

[darknemus]

Basically, it was an extended period of bondage & sensory deprivation - blindfolded, headphones w/ music playing, the whole nine yards - I slipped into a pretty dang deep 'trance' for lack of a better explanation). When the lovely Mrs. DarkNemus's 'streak' kicks in.. I pretty much just have to buckle myself in and enjoy the ride. She also managed to leave some rather wicked nail marks down my back - but that's ok.. the better to remember her with and all that.

(Yes, I'm a sick freak)

-darknemus

[Sephirstein]

1. :-P

Lucky you.

[darknemus]

3. Yeah, I had no complaints..

At she 'kicked in' to her Domme mode like, well, that. I mean, we were just chilling out, browsing the web, goofing off - and then she 'clicked', told me to get up, and we wandered off to the bedroom. It was even more trippy, I guess, because it was about the last thing I was expecting at that moment - I mean, we were talking about Kill Bill & diet soda.. not exactly 'turn-on- topics :)

-darknemus

[cprise]

2. Music too?

Here's a suggestion:



B-)

[darknemus]

5. lol.. not quite

We use alot of Enigma, Bauhaus, various classical, things like that when we 'scene'. Really depends on the nature of the scene, actually. Sometimes, we'll use like NIN or Genitorturers stuff - again, depends on the moment :)

-darknemus

[Snow]

4. You aren't the same person who posted earlier about

tantric sex last night, are you?

[darknemus]

6. Nope..

Never had / participated in tantric sex. Not my thing - but hey, for those that it works for - go for it - may you achieve enlightenment and all that good stuff :)

-darknemus

[Chovexani]

7. Wow

Sounds like my kind of night. :evilgrin:

Ever listen to The Changelings? Their music is very conducive to sensory deprivation scenarios.

Um, not that I would know anything about that...O8)

[darknemus]

8. Nope :)

Can you recommend any specific tracks? I'll fire up a P2P app, download them, and if I like it - I'll go buy the CD / CDs (see, RIAA, filesharing WORKS! :) )

The entire experience was quite intense. Probably ranks in my top 3 of intense experiences of my life - so, again, no complaints here :)

-darknemus

[Chovexani]

11. Sure

I've yet to hear a song by them that sucks, but some favorites: "Dervish", "Maelcum's Righteous Dub", "Flowers Cover Your Eyes", and "Eclipse".

Here's to more fun. :)

[darknemus]

13. Thanks :)

I'll grab those this evening. I always love to be exposed to new music.

-darknemus

[darknemus]

9. Kicking to see if I can get a response from Chovexani

:) I'm genuinely curious what tracks she recommends.

-darknemus

[Boudicea]

10. At least you know you're a sick freak

[darknemus]

12. :)

I've known I was 'wired differently' since about the age of 13 consciously, and I'm sure alot earlier than that in the subconscious.

And what's so funny is that, even though I'm a sick freak - you'd never know by meeting me. I keep my 'dark' side hidden from public view, unless its someone I'd feel comfortable revealing it to. At least in environments like work or social situations. This is the Internet, so its at least a bit more anonymous. I mean, its not like I'm shamed about what I'm all about.. - we each have our 'quirks' in life :)

-darknemus

[Lady Freedom]

14. Everyone has a...

a Dark, unknown side to them.

[darknemus]

17. Quite true..

Usually, the more 'repressed' a person is in their 'real life' - the more 'whacked' their dark side is. btw, I love the Vampire graphic, cool stuff :)

-darknemus

[Chovexani]

15. I know what you mean

Another proud sick freak here, though it's pretty obvious (at least I'm told :P). I know what you mean about knowing that you're "wired differently". Ever since I was little I've always had a darker sense of humor than most, liked different music, been introverted, etc. I used to feel uncomfortable about it, especially in high school, largely because my mom and most of the family are born again types and I used to feel guilty about being different. Now I wear "weirdo" as a badge of honor and don't care.

I can pass as a muggle if I really try. But I just have a weird aura I guess, people around me tend to instinctively know I'm not like most people.

[catpower2000]

16. I don't think you're wired all that differently from many people...

I do think you try very hard to SEEM different, though. Lots of lingo, isn't there?

Cat