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datasuspect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 03:05 AM
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would you ever consider giving your child a weird/absurd/unusual name?
maybe balthasar, prometheus, or malcolm x?
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fleabert Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 03:06 AM
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1. yes.
my name is unusual, and I like it. :-)

we plan on using aztec names for our kids when we have some.
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merwin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 03:06 AM
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2. My brother named his kids Gryphon and Tempest. Of course, his wife's name
is Stormy, so I can sort of see where the odd name thing might come from.
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Robeson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 05:31 AM
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29. I'm impressed. He at least spelled Gryphon with the correct...
...Greek spelling!
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merwin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 06:23 PM
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66. They were going for the proper spelling. Problem is, everyone misspells it
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4_Legs_Good Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 05:37 PM
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65. Wow! I like Tempest!
We've got Boy #2 on the way and haven't chosen a name yet. It's very difficult for boys. We have like 200 girl's names picked out, but can't come up with another boy name we both like.

david
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madrchsod Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 03:08 AM
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3. my wife and i gave two of our
kids nordic names
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Not_Giving_Up Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 03:09 AM
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4. No....My name is unusual
I swore my kids would have normal names, and they do!
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 03:10 AM
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5. I named my first boy Arlechino
after a 13th century trickster. It got shortened to Arlo and hey, he's hip with that.

No matter what dumb thing we do, they tend to survive us :)
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datasuspect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 03:12 AM
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6. that is hip!
cool sounding name.
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FizzFuzz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 03:13 AM
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7. Snotley for a boy, Brattalina for a girl.
Heh heh heh.

I don't like kids.

(ducks the flames)
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 03:21 AM
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19. I like the Brattalina
I think that I will start calling my daughter that every time she needs it. She's already a monsterbaby and a doo-doohead.
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Wabbajack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 03:15 AM
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8. No way
that's a pet peeve of mine.
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Jamastiene Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 03:16 AM
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9. Not Moon Unit, Dweezil, or Ahmet,
but only because those are already taken. Jamastiene for a girl would definitely be interesting. I'd still use a usual name for their first name, so they wouldn't get picked on at school quite as much I guess. I like weird names. I get called them all the time. :P
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elperromagico Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 03:17 AM
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10. Unfotunately, Apple is already taken.
Maybe Grapefruit...
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datasuspect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 03:18 AM
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11. at least not adolph
maybe aubergine?
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elperromagico Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 03:19 AM
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13. How about Crabalocker,
in a nod to John Lennon?
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datasuspect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 03:20 AM
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16. or dimethyl oxylene carbonate?
or mangrove walrustitty?
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elperromagico Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 03:21 AM
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18. Or Raymond Luxury-Yacht,
pronounced "throatwarblermangrove"?
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datasuspect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 03:24 AM
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21. thank you for making me laugh . . .
"as we approach the hamlet of wainscotting . . . "

throatwarblermangrove yikes
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FizzFuzz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 03:32 AM
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26. laughing out loud! seriously!!!
too funny!

Absurdism rules!!
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ComerPerro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 03:18 AM
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12. You mean, like Gleemax?
No. Never considered it.
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murielm99 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 03:19 AM
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14. NO!
I had to live with a weird name. My children did not get yuppie names or unusual names.

Names can define and limit a person. A name is too important to mess with.
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 03:19 AM
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15. I have an unusual name-in the US at least.
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datasuspect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 03:20 AM
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17. i don't know many
people named xmas74.

joking
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 03:23 AM
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20. I won't post it -but I will pm it, if you would like.
Then just try to pronounce it.
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datasuspect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 03:25 AM
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22. okay
my name is Joseph btw.

i was named after god jr.'s earthdad.
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 03:26 AM
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23. I was supposed to be a boy.
Check your inbox in a minute.
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UncleSepp Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 04:54 PM
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58. Me too
My mom had picked out the name Joseph Paul. Surprise, she got a Jen! Then she tried to give me the middle name Joe Ann (yes, with the "e" and two words) but the person who filled out the certificate just put Anne, with the "e". Bah, perhaps someday I'll probably take that name back :-D
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AlienGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 04:56 PM
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59. Joe Paul, eh? It kinda suits you!
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UncleSepp Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 04:57 PM
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60. Yes, except that would then make me Uncle Joe (n/t)
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AlienGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 05:03 PM
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61. I can't think of a reply to that
Other than a monitor-coffee interface!
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AlienGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 05:23 PM
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63. You kind of look like a Joe.
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 06:39 PM
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68. My aunt was supposed to be Susan Anne
but the nurse messed up and named her Suzanne-no middle name. One of my other aunts and my mom both had their names messed up on their birth certificates.
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Rabrrrrrr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 03:30 AM
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24. Depends on the weirdness - if something dumb like "shaqeel"
or "Shaniya" or etc., then, no, of course I wouldn't consider such a name.

But if it's something unusual, but sensible, like "Moon" or "Star" or "Ventricle" or "Wippet" or something, then that's totally cool.
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datasuspect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 03:31 AM
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25. ventricle
or maybe myocardium?
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MrOctober Donating Member (69 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 03:38 AM
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27. No way
I wouldnt want them to be teased.
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Rhiannon12866 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 05:28 AM
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28. No way, ever. Plus, it's been done.
Kids, these days, have enough problems, with the reinstatement of the draft, global warming and a state of constant war. They don't need to have silly names, on top of all this. And the names I have heard people giving their kids are just short of criminal. Why saddle a kid with a name that he has to live down? I'm not talking about family or ethnic names, which he will come to value, but these half-assed, misspelled, efforts just to find some misbegotten moniker that no one else will ever have. There's a good reason for that.:-(
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TyeDye75 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 05:57 AM
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30. I like the sound of Lucifer for a boy
I would seriously consider it if it weren't for the satanic connotations
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tjwmason Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 02:34 PM
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54. It means bringer of light
Lucifer was originally the most beautiful angel in heaven, before he blotted his copybook.

My copy of Paradise Lost has a picture of 'Lucifer in his original glory' on the front.

It is a pretty good name in itself, but a sure-fire cause of bullying at school; and some very dodgy connotations.
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InvisibleTouch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 02:48 PM
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56. It'd be a great name for a pet, though! n/t
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Stop_the_War Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 06:22 AM
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31. My name is Stancel and I'm male, is that an unusual name?
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izzie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 06:35 AM
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32. No if they want odd names, they can do it them self in court
Life is hard for kids so I did not believe in giving them an odd name to fight over with other kids.
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Nikia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 11:42 AM
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33. No, it gives them a disadvantage
Children need names that will work for them as adults. They need names that will allow them to be taken seriously. We plan on giving our children traditional names, probably named after grandparents. I feel this way despite the fact that I do like the sound of some more unsuaual names.
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Longgrain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 11:44 AM
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34. If I ever had a daughter I always wanted to name her Dulcinea
Which is a bit of an obscure name, but legit never the less...
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scarlet_owl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 01:24 PM
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40. I have a very good friend named Dulcie.
I always liked that name.
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fleabert Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 02:15 PM
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50. I love that name!
It's also a Toad the Wet Sprocket album, so that's good! There's a difference between unusual and weird!
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Longgrain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 02:24 PM
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53. I liked it because of the song from "Man of LaMancha"
It's derived from the Latin for "Sweetness" and it's just a pleasant sounding name.
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LincolnMcGrath Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 11:45 AM
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35. Trevor Spencer Lincoln
Are they cool names?
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ffm172 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 11:48 AM
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36. yes
not weird or absurd but definitly unusual. Mine and my brothers names are unusual and I wanna give my kids a not-every-day-name also. One name I really like is Athanasius, but I won't punsih my kid with it. I just like the name.
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LosinIt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 12:40 PM
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37. Arliss, after the younger boy in Old Yeller
Edited on Sun Mar-06-05 12:41 PM by LosinIt
The kid that always had frogs in his pockets. My husband sprung this one on me and I thought he was nuts, but I went with it. Our Arliss is indeed a unique individual and everybody knows him by just that name. He has served as dorm president and president of his college's chapter of the Wildlife Society (I think that is the organization). So I guess it didn't hold him back.

It's not considered such an odd name anymore since the HBO series by that name, but in 1983 it turned a lot of heads.
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Ellen Forradalom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 12:43 PM
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38. I considered Michigan J. Frog for my son
but rejected it. Would have been so much fun to tell the in-laws that their first grandchild was named that, though.
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bleedingheart Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 01:49 PM
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42. "Hello my Honey Hello My Baby...Hello My Rag Time Gal"
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Ellen Forradalom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 01:55 PM
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44. "Rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrbit"
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Ellen Forradalom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 01:55 PM
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45. "Everybody's doing the Michigan Rag!"
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gollygee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 05:33 PM
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64. Love it :D
Edited on Sun Mar-06-05 05:34 PM by gollygee
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scarlet_owl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 01:23 PM
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39. No. I have one of those damn hippie names and
it has been a source of irritation for me my whole life. Every day I have to explain to people that my name isn't "Amber", even if my name is clearly printed on a nametag for all to see. Sure, lots of people think my name is pretty, but I can't see it that way. I see it as a burden.
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crispini Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 01:46 PM
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41. Yes. I have an unusual name, and I love it.
I get remembered. And there's really only one of me. Which is PERFECT.
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bleedingheart Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 01:50 PM
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43. I was almost named Salome when I was born...
now as an adult ...I would have liked it... other than the name I did get which is somewhat traditional...
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datasuspect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 01:56 PM
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46. that is a cool name
nietzsche's gf was named salome.
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Ellen Forradalom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 01:56 PM
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47. I was almost named Alva Harriott
but my parents reconsidered when they realized I'd already be spending my life spelling my last name.
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Ellen Forradalom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 01:58 PM
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48. There's a whole state full of 'em: Utah
Check out the Utah Baby Namer at http://www.wesclark.com/ubn/
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Patiod Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 02:09 PM
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49. There's a difference between unusual name & just weird spelling
I think the latter is just a pain for the kid. S.O.'s nephew's girlfriend named their kid "Rion". Now what the hell is that?

It's not different, it just says "my mother can't spell". Nobody on my SO's side of the family knows whether the kid's name rhymes with Ryan or Dion.
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proud2BlibKansan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 05:08 PM
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62. I have a student named
Orviron. The day I met him he said the v is silent. Well since he pronounces it oh-ry-an, the second r is silent too.

I have another named Trivonnuntay, pronounced tri-von-tay. His mom added a syllable in there.

A teacher friend says she's convinced the hospitals give these moms alphabet blocks and tell them to keep rolling em until they run out of letters.
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Kerrytravelers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 02:18 PM
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51. try this website:
notwithoutmyhandbag.com


There is a baby naming message board there. The chick that runs it, Diana, is pretty cool. 95% of the posters are big Dems, but there are a couple of 9/11 bushies.

Enjoy!
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wowsers Donating Member (3 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 02:22 PM
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52. I saw the evolving 1000 most popular names from thaw 20th century site,
and I want to bring back the name "Godfrey" (it peaked in the 20's with 30,000 and pretty much died in the 30's) to my future son. My current girlfriend doesn't approve of that name. However I can always settle for a "Mortimer" or a "Maxwell".
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InvisibleTouch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 02:37 PM
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55. Unusual, definitely. Absurd, no.
I was given an unusual name. I didn't like it - not because it was unusual, but because it represented someone else's interpretation of who I was and should be. So I selected my own name - equally unusual, if not more so. I'm big on individuality, and I love names - for pets, for characters, what-have-you. A name should mean something, stand for something. It's not that difficult to find something that's both unique, accoustically pleasant, and meaningful.
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HeyManThatsCool Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 02:55 PM
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57. Soda... or Seven
(from Seinfeld)
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name not needed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 06:24 PM
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67. Seven Costanza
:)
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-06-05 06:44 PM
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69. My daughter was almost a Flannery.
I just loved the name. If I were to ever have another child, I think that I would go with that.
I named her after my great-grandmother instead.
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