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angee_is_mad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-20-04 11:07 PM Original message |
saying ma'am is it regional? |
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WestHoustonDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-20-04 11:09 PM Response to Original message |
1. Having lived in NY and TX, I'd say it's regional |
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teach1st (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-20-04 11:09 PM Response to Original message |
2. Sign of respect in urban Florida |
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angee_is_mad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-20-04 11:16 PM Response to Reply #2 |
10. some blacks |
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Sannum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-20-04 11:10 PM Response to Original message |
3. I don't see it as a negative at all... |
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PinkTiger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-20-04 11:11 PM Response to Original message |
4. How could it be a racial thing?? |
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qnr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-20-04 11:11 PM Response to Original message |
5. I've lived all over the country and have heard it used everywhere. |
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angee_is_mad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-20-04 11:23 PM Response to Reply #5 |
12. more often in the South? |
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qnr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-20-04 11:34 PM Response to Reply #12 |
23. Probably more in the south, but it is quite common in the |
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angee_is_mad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-20-04 11:45 PM Response to Reply #23 |
27. Some blacks |
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qnr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-21-04 12:11 AM Response to Reply #27 |
31. Yeah, well, everyone is an individual. I grew up in the ghettos of |
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angee_is_mad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-21-04 12:13 AM Response to Reply #31 |
34. thank you |
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qnr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-21-04 12:23 AM Response to Reply #34 |
36. Well, I don't know if I would be the best person to ask. |
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angee_is_mad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-21-04 01:02 AM Response to Reply #36 |
41. I'm a continuing student |
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masshole (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-20-04 11:11 PM Response to Original message |
6. I use it at work often |
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nutsnberries (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-20-04 11:33 PM Response to Reply #6 |
21. hahahahahaha |
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asjr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-20-04 11:12 PM Response to Original message |
7. I was taught that it is a sign of respect especially |
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CAcyclist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-20-04 11:12 PM Response to Original message |
8. It's not regional |
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Cadence (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-20-04 11:15 PM Response to Original message |
9. I get called Ma'am ALL the time |
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JanLip (26 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-20-04 11:28 PM Response to Reply #9 |
15. First sign of getting old... |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-21-04 12:26 AM Response to Reply #15 |
37. First sign of getting old as a woman is when |
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KarenS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-20-04 11:29 PM Response to Reply #9 |
17. I agree !!! |
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Cadence (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-20-04 11:40 PM Response to Reply #17 |
24. well....welll....if they're doing it to you both |
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fleabert (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-20-04 11:22 PM Response to Original message |
11. having lived in TX, OK, KA, NY, OH, KY, and CA |
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angee_is_mad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-20-04 11:25 PM Response to Reply #11 |
13. Why is that |
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fleabert (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-21-04 02:21 AM Response to Reply #13 |
43. Everyone who got offended said they thought it implied they were old. n/t |
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Mabus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-21-04 04:24 AM Response to Reply #43 |
49. Yep. I remember the first time I got "ma'am'ed" |
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Hog lover (411 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-20-04 11:27 PM Response to Original message |
14. Okay, y'all, as a Southerner, I can explain how it is in the South. |
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Phentex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-21-04 08:34 AM Response to Reply #14 |
53. same here |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-20-04 11:28 PM Response to Original message |
16. It's short for madam and refers to a married woman. |
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angee_is_mad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-20-04 11:42 PM Response to Reply #16 |
26. single women |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-20-04 11:56 PM Response to Reply #26 |
28. Yes, I know they are.... |
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realisticphish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-20-04 11:31 PM Response to Original message |
18. i hear it once in a while |
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Nicole (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-20-04 11:32 PM Response to Original message |
19. I never heard of it being an insult |
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Frogtutor (739 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-20-04 11:33 PM Response to Original message |
20. No, ma'am! I've only heard it used as a sign of respect... |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-20-04 11:34 PM Response to Original message |
22. The Word is Not, But the Intent Is |
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qnr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-21-04 12:13 AM Response to Reply #22 |
33. That's strange. I grew up in NYC, and while I agree with the two |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-21-04 08:25 AM Response to Reply #33 |
52. Yes But |
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bobbieinok (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-20-04 11:41 PM Response to Original message |
25. first heard it when teaching mid 60s at the U of FL |
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angee_is_mad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-21-04 12:09 AM Response to Reply #25 |
30. do you say it? |
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aquaman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-20-04 11:58 PM Response to Original message |
29. I live in the south........... |
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gmoney (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-21-04 12:13 AM Response to Original message |
32. I'd heard it's regional... |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-21-04 12:16 AM Response to Original message |
35. I'm a Wisconsin boy born and raised, and I use "sir" and "ma'am" |
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foreigncorrespondent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-21-04 12:29 AM Response to Original message |
38. Nope! |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-21-04 12:33 AM Response to Original message |
39. One more perspective |
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yellowdogintexas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-21-04 12:39 AM Response to Original message |
40. My daddy came down on me like a ton of bricks if I did not |
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angee_is_mad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-21-04 01:15 AM Response to Reply #40 |
42. But, if she had been black |
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yellowdogintexas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-21-04 04:25 AM Response to Reply #42 |
50. did you read my whole post? |
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TexasSissy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-21-04 03:08 AM Response to Original message |
44. Why would it have racial connotations? I don't get it. |
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Turn CO Blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-21-04 03:20 AM Response to Original message |
45. Born and raised in Texas, and |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-21-04 03:44 AM Response to Original message |
46. I'd say it's definitely a southern thing. |
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Timebound (454 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-21-04 03:51 AM Response to Original message |
47. It's all you hear in NC. |
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Liberal Mommy (197 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-21-04 04:14 AM Response to Original message |
48. Raised in the south |
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angee_is_mad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-21-04 05:28 AM Response to Reply #48 |
51. and sweetie |
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CRK7376 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-21-04 08:39 AM Response to Original message |
54. As a Son of North Carolina |
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Sabriel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-21-04 09:35 AM Response to Original message |
55. When I was teaching |
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