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These people are brainwashed into thinking this legal thing about abortion is more important than it is. It's been over-emotionalized. They are told that Democrats are baby killers, pro-abortion, etc. This is ludicrous to me, because personally, I'm not pro-abortion at all, not even remotely. (In fact, it always struck me as weird that the women I knew who had abortions tended to be the ones who would always say they were absolutely against abortion--before they got pregnant. There is no point in telling anyone that, though. They don't believe it.)
If you want to argue, the best way to "argue" is just to state the facts without becoming religious about it or opposing people's values.
For example, you can point out that the issue has to be worked on from a social angle rather than a legal angle if any good is really going to be done. The law won't stop abortions. A woman could get an "underground" abortion in the hospital right here in Florida before Roe v Wade. At the most, all she will have to do if it is overturned is to drive from one county to another.
When someone talks about waiting lists for adoption, you can point out that there are special needs children waiting to be adopted right now, 40 to 50,000. These may be children who were exposed to drugs during pregnancy, who are HIV positive, who are mentally retarded, who are emotionally disturbed. These are the babies for adoption who are most likely to increase if Roe v. Wade is overturned. How many people will open their homes to one or more of these babies?
It's a big job to take care of these kids. I knew of a couple who put enormous effort into raising their two adoptive children with special needs. The husband bragged about how great the boys were doing, the progress they had made, placed in classes for the gifted, etc. A few years later, as teenagers, the boys developed serious behavior problems and moved out of the home. Not long after that, one of the boys murdered someone.
The most effective solution is to solve the social and medical problems that damaged these children in the first place.
It's the principle that worries me, though. If the demagogues don't have abortion as an issue, they will just find something else to use as a wedge issue. People have to be educated about wedge issues in general.
Cindy
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