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LiberalVoice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-12-04 10:50 PM Original message |
"Spare the rod, spoil the child" Your thoughts... |
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TOhioLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-12-04 10:54 PM Response to Original message |
1. I've never hit my kids.... |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-12-04 10:55 PM Response to Original message |
2. I have an almost 10 year old |
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philosophie_en_rose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-12-04 10:56 PM Response to Original message |
3. It seems to reinforce a kind of mental laziness. |
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No2W2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-12-04 10:59 PM Response to Original message |
4. I've had a difficult time in the past with my kids |
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LiberalTechie1337 (359 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-12-04 11:01 PM Response to Original message |
5. I am against physical punishment |
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mkultra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-12-04 11:02 PM Response to Original message |
6. I agree with the quote |
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spotbird (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-12-04 11:48 PM Response to Reply #6 |
16. The sheep follow the he shepherd's rod. |
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stopbush (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 12:28 AM Response to Reply #16 |
24. You are absolutely correct. Shepherds don't beat on their sheep with |
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YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 08:26 AM Response to Reply #24 |
36. No...Shephards use dogs... |
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Nevernose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-12-04 11:03 PM Response to Original message |
7. Let's discuss "negative reenforcement" vs "punishment" |
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Jim Warren (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-12-04 11:08 PM Response to Original message |
8. Parent here |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-12-04 11:19 PM Response to Reply #8 |
9. another parent opposed to spanking |
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Nevernose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-12-04 11:29 PM Response to Reply #9 |
11. That's what I'm sayin' |
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patcox2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 03:49 PM Response to Reply #11 |
66. I have seen people nearly ruined by negative reinforcement. |
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noahmijo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-12-04 11:27 PM Response to Original message |
10. Don't have kids but will never hit them when I do |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-12-04 11:31 PM Response to Original message |
12. I think you can tell a lot about a persons character |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-12-04 11:32 PM Response to Original message |
13. Even the frequent interpretation of that quote is wrong. |
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put out (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 12:19 AM Response to Reply #13 |
21. His rod and his staff, they comfort me. |
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stopbush (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 12:36 AM Response to Reply #21 |
25. The rod guides the sheep while the staff provides a steady |
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noonwitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 08:23 AM Response to Reply #25 |
35. Proverbs 23:13-14 |
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yellowcanine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 10:38 AM Response to Reply #35 |
43. Of course in that same book it says "the wringing of the nose bringeth |
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noonwitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 11:01 AM Response to Reply #43 |
45. Unfortunately, people take it very seriously |
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yellowcanine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 03:12 PM Response to Reply #45 |
64. The OT is a lousy place to look for parenting advice. Lot offered up his |
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put out (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 08:42 AM Response to Reply #25 |
40. Thank you for making this more clear for me. |
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DBoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-12-04 11:36 PM Response to Original message |
14. We don't have kids |
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Susang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-12-04 11:39 PM Response to Original message |
15. I agree with you 100% |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-12-04 11:54 PM Response to Reply #15 |
18. Yep...violence doesn't work |
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Susang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 12:27 AM Response to Reply #18 |
23. You're soft on crime |
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Paragon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-12-04 11:52 PM Response to Original message |
17. Beat the little buggers before I do! |
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Ready4Change (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 12:01 AM Response to Original message |
19. Not a Parent, mixed opinion here. |
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LiberalVoice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 12:19 AM Response to Reply #19 |
20. No flame here... |
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Ready4Change (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 01:12 AM Response to Reply #20 |
27. Thanks Zak. |
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Susang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 12:41 AM Response to Reply #19 |
26. I don't know if you read my earlier post |
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Ready4Change (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 01:51 AM Response to Reply #26 |
28. I'm sorry for your experience. |
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Susang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 12:41 PM Response to Reply #28 |
57. Oh, I knew exactly why I was being spanked |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 12:22 AM Response to Original message |
22. I'm all about the spanking |
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demwing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 02:44 AM Response to Original message |
29. It's not appropriate for the very young, or for teens |
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arwalden (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 06:13 AM Response to Original message |
30. This Is One Issue Where I Actually AGREE With Dr. Phil... |
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YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 08:30 AM Response to Reply #30 |
37. Unless you like it...then as long as it's pleasureable...SPANK AWAY! |
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arwalden (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 05:44 PM Response to Reply #37 |
77. Wait A Minute... Who Changed The Subject To Adults??? |
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YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 06:16 PM Response to Reply #77 |
82. LOL I was just being naughty... |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 07:20 AM Response to Original message |
31. I have had a very similar experience |
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johnnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 07:38 AM Response to Original message |
32. I don't have children.. |
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LiberalVoice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 06:16 PM Response to Reply #32 |
80. I suppose spanking was a bad word to use. |
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johnnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 06:34 PM Response to Reply #80 |
88. I agree |
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Hubert Flottz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 07:38 AM Response to Original message |
33. If Lindie England's mom had busted her ass, she wouldn't have |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 12:14 PM Response to Reply #33 |
56. I'm willing to bet that Lyndie England DID receive such "discipline" |
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ChavezSpeakstheTruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 07:39 AM Response to Original message |
34. Nothin' says "I love you" like a belt to the buttocks |
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YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 08:33 AM Response to Original message |
38. I won't get into the arguement except to tell you what my boss says... |
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Beware the Beast Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 08:37 AM Response to Original message |
39. I felt bad enough when I slapped my cat |
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DemWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 09:03 AM Response to Original message |
41. When I was a kid... |
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Az (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 09:23 AM Response to Original message |
42. Simply put it teaches children that violence is a viable solution |
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demwing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 11:52 AM Response to Reply #42 |
48. A spanking is not a beating |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 12:12 PM Response to Reply #48 |
55. Where do you draw the line between spanking and beating... |
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Susang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 12:55 PM Response to Reply #48 |
59. That is exactly when it shouldn't be used |
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Az (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 01:32 PM Response to Reply #48 |
63. To the child's eye a spanking is violence |
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southpaw (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 12:07 PM Response to Reply #42 |
53. Agreed... |
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The Flaming Red Head (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 10:46 AM Response to Original message |
44. What if they |
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Bridget Burke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 04:25 PM Response to Reply #44 |
68. You raised the little monster. |
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The Flaming Red Head (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 05:43 PM Response to Reply #68 |
76. Burke |
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notadmblnd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 11:12 AM Response to Original message |
46. I have an 11yr old and a 13 yr old |
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arbusto_baboso (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 11:46 AM Response to Original message |
47. If you spank your kids... |
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kitkatrose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 11:55 AM Response to Original message |
49. Well, okay. |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 11:56 AM Response to Original message |
50. An unqualified, it depends. No, a child should not be beaten ever. |
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demwing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 12:04 PM Response to Reply #50 |
51. Thanks for emphasizing the difference |
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The Flaming Red Head (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 12:06 PM Response to Original message |
52. Columbine |
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chicaloca (704 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 05:08 PM Response to Reply #52 |
74. How do you know they didn't? n/t |
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The Flaming Red Head (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 05:42 PM Response to Reply #74 |
75. Pipe bombs in the garage? |
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LiberalVoice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 06:24 PM Response to Reply #52 |
83. Then before they left their houses that morning... |
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The Flaming Red Head (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 06:31 PM Response to Reply #83 |
84. true |
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belladonna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 07:33 PM Response to Reply #52 |
90. Do a little reading on serial killers and mass murderers |
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The Analog Kid (4 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 12:09 PM Response to Original message |
54. Never, never, never... |
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Solly Mack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 12:52 PM Response to Original message |
58. means to use |
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Commendatori (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 01:05 PM Response to Original message |
60. It only works if it REALLY hurts, and that's the problem. |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 01:08 PM Response to Reply #60 |
62. Good point... |
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HuckleB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 06:34 PM Response to Reply #60 |
87. That's still just punishment. |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 01:07 PM Response to Original message |
61. I don't believe in spanking |
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bif (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 03:14 PM Response to Original message |
65. Spare the cattle prod, spoil the child |
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The Flaming Red Head (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 04:20 PM Response to Original message |
67. Jeeze yer all perfect |
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Beaverhausen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 04:26 PM Response to Original message |
69. interesting story in the LA Times Magazine last Sunday |
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HuckleB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 07:13 PM Response to Reply #69 |
89. What does this have to do with spanking? |
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cally (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 04:38 PM Response to Original message |
70. There is no reason to ever hit your children |
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belladonna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 04:52 PM Response to Original message |
71. I've put off replying to this thread |
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Susang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 06:13 PM Response to Reply #71 |
79. No flames from me |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 06:16 PM Response to Reply #71 |
81. You are a WONDERFUL parent. You have some lucky children. |
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aint_no_life_nowhere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 04:53 PM Response to Original message |
72. The Golden Mean |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 05:03 PM Response to Original message |
73. The only works the instant Junior does something wrong... |
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manic expression (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 06:10 PM Response to Original message |
78. Parents should almost never hit their children |
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HuckleB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 06:33 PM Response to Original message |
85. The rod is lazy parenting. |
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Angelus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-04 06:33 PM Response to Original message |
86. If I had a kid, I'd smack him/her. |
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