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I just recently moved and acquired a new friend, an 8yr old girl that lives upstairs from my new place. She's a nice enough kid, and I have tried to be a good neighbor and adult role model, so I have been chatting with her and asking about her home-school, TV and the lot.
The problem is that the child has trouble giving me space, and hangs out in front of my place often. Yesterday, for example, she was outside my apt. and I was talking to her about dinosaurs or Yu-Gi-Pokemon (whatever) and when I was ready to eat I told her so and said that maybe I'd see her tomorrow. Later on that night, while I was watching a DVD, I kept seeing her sneaking around outside my living room window trying to get my attention.
So, this morning, I found her outside my window again and I calmly told her that I don't mind if she visits occasionally, but sneaking around people's windows is rude and when I go in for the night she needs to leave me be. She obviously felt chided and ran off.
However, I just caught her hanging around my window again, but she left before I could say anything.
This is causing me a bit of stress. I realize that the child is just wanting attention (I don't think she's getting much at home, and she has no other friends that I have seen), and I really would rather not bring the parents into this as I have a suspicion that they may not understand or may be overly punitive. However, I am a fairly private person and personal space is a paramount concern to me.
Alright DU'ers, you are an insightful bunch of folks, got any advice?
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