Why do SOME guys have to be jerks when they drink?

[BlondieK143]

Is there some little part of your brain that makes you be a dickhead??? I mean, seriously!?!? No one cares how loud you burp, how long you pee. GRRRRRR. :mad:

On edit: I didn't mean to put every guy into that category. I apologize.

[Lestat]

1. Where'd that come from?

[BlondieK143]

2. Just got a phone call.

From someone I was glad to hear from. But let's just say a bunch of guys that just got released from the field + alcohol makes for one certainly annoying/interesting conversation. UGH.

[Lestat]

3. Ahh...I see.

[BlondieK143]

6. Can you enlighten me??

Are you like that when you drink?

[Lestat]

8. Nope.

I'm a sad, somewhat quiet drunk. Sorry.

[BlondieK143]

10. Awww

:hug:

[Lestat]

11. I guess it's better than being a dick.

:shrug: :hug:

[BlondieK143]

15. Definitely.

Not so much just a dick, just annoying.

[DS1]

59. Ahh, still dating your Marine then

These things happen, it's part of the show. Don't take it personally.

[BlondieK143]

60. I'm trying not too.

It's just kinda hard not too.

[DenverDem]

4. I drink Patron Anejo with orange-tomato juice back.

That is how I choose to be different when I drink.

[BlondieK143]

5. I have no clue what that is.

Explain?

[DenverDem]

28. Aged blue agave tequila.

The chaser mix of orange and tomato juices is called "sangrita".

[BlondieK143]

30. oooooh.

See, now THAT would kill me.

[DenverDem]

34. This is sipping tequila, cactus congac.

It's really quite delicious that way, and not slamming it an ounce at at time helps regulate your dosage.

[BlondieK143]

36. I've only done tequila once.

It hurt. But then again we were doing shots.

[BBradley]

7. Because you don't like it.

[BlondieK143]

9. So if I didn't like you not showering for two months..

you would do that too?

[BBradley]

12. I enjoy a heavy musk.

[BlondieK143]

16. That's pretty disgusting.

To each his own I suppose? :shrug:

[jeff30997]

13. Showering?

Is that a new word?:silly:

[BlondieK143]

17. Sure is! :)

[JVS]

18. For you, anything

[BlondieK143]

lol and what's so special about me?

Assuming you WERE talking to me..

[tcfrogs]

14. I get more friendly when I drink

But that's juat me....

[BlondieK143]

19. That's how I am. Well, emphasis on the flirting.

:shrug:

[tcfrogs]

25. Me too....

[jeff30997]

21. "that's juat me"?

Ooops! Are you friendly right now?:)

[tcfrogs]

55. OOPS

guess I was thinking of something else...SORRY!

I'm a grammar/spelling freak, so I almost never post anything with spelling or grammar problems...

[Rowdyboy]

20. Why are young men different when they drink? (are DRUNK)

Because most young men are stupid, horny, and basically worthless. Give them time to grow.

I'm a 50m year old gay man, and my straight friends from 30 years ago are all MUCH classier guys now than they were then. Mostly, they need someone to help them become adults.

My friend Robert was a worthless POS at 19. Today, he's a class act with a good future. He's taking his wife to Angor Watt in Cambodia next month on vacation.

Please don't give up on men. Roughly 10% of us are really class acts to start with. The rest-well, they're at least mostly better than shower-massagers (or so I'm told by my female buddies) Give them time to become men that you will surely enjoy. (If you don't, I'll be happy to take up the slack)

[BlondieK143]

I'm not giving up on men.

It's just frustrating. And I understand what you're saying. This guy is 22 and I just suppose they're letting out frustration from a really long two weeks. :shrug:

[Rowdyboy]

50. You're talking about a REALLY YOUNG MAN

Most of us guys are total idiots at 30, much less 22. Damn, I didn't even know I was GAY until I was 25 or so and you expect this kid to make sense when he can barely change his own underwear?

I wish we were smarter, but we're not...

[BBradley]

22. Also, I think the women have the men beat in the annoying drunks departmen

But that's just my opinion.

[BlondieK143]

26. How do you figure that?

Most of them are more friendly when drunk.

[Cheswick2.0]

61. I think men and women are equally capable of obnoxious

behavior when drunk. The question is, why are you hanging out with drunk people?

[BlondieK143]

62. Well I wasn't technically there.

I was just on the phone with one. And he's of age, allowed to drink. And he had just got in from an extensive training op for 10 days and has to go back in a few days as well. Stress reliever I suppose. :shrug:

[JVS]

35. Do you mean the women who bellow "I'm sooooooooooooooooooooooooo drunk"...

followed by vomiting and or crying jag? Yeah, that can be bad.

[Taverner]

23. Like I've always thought

Smoke pot, and CHILLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL :)

[BlondieK143]

27. Can't.

That stuff just makes me sleepy.

[Taverner]

31. Funny how some get paranoid

Some get giggly, some get mellow (me) and some just fall asleep...

[BlondieK143]

32. I think the first time I tried it,

I giggled until someone locked me in my room. :shrug: Probably someone like you that would've liked to remain mellow.

[Taverner]

38. Ahhh not me

I never locked anyone in their room :)

I would just turn on some Marley or Burning Spear....

[BlondieK143]

39. :)

There ya go! Best way to do it!

[freetobegay]

24. Is Powell, TN. next to Powell Valley, TN.?

[BlondieK143]

29. Never heard of it.

Why?

[freetobegay]

37. We use to vacation on Norris lake there

Just outside of Knoxville. Brings back a lot of fond memories.

[BlondieK143]

40. Really??

That's awesome!! Really pretty area up there. Sometimes I really love this place, other times, no way.

[Tom Kitten]

33. I'm the same always!

I post from work at 8:30 am Pacific Time sometimes...I post from home at 1:30 am Pacific Time sometimes...No matter what time of day I succeed mostly at killing threads. Such is the hand the DU deck of cards has dealt me.
I always pee in private, belch in private, engage in acts of flatulence (I purposely avoid the use the word "f@rt" here in order to avoid offending sensibilities) in private, you name it. private (I live alone)...
I hang out here a lot because I'm interested in the current state of affairs and this forum does sometimes have use as a barometer of how like -minded people feel (I work with a lot of non-like-minded people)

[rucky]

42. I was going to add something

but it appears that this thread is dead now.

:)

[JackDragna]

41. Why do you gals have to be so stupid when you drink?

"Oh, sure! I can drink just as much beer as you, no problem! I'll be fine to drive home. You can trust me."

Three beers later..

"I don't feel so goodd...whaaarrrrrf." *passes out*

There you go.

[BlondieK143]

43. That's only some girls

I can hold my alcohol, thanks.

[LastKnight]

45. and only some guys act like idiots...

some dont, i think thats what hes getting at here.

-LK

[JackDragna]

46. Not all men are louts when they drink, either..

..but thank you for upholding your own reputation. :)

[BlondieK143]

53. I know and I'm sorry.

I edited the post.

[LastKnight]

44. way to lump half the species into the dickhead category there...

i for one... dont drink... and i know what your talking about... i fail to see the enjoyment ill get out of acting like an ass and not remember it the next day, but still... guys arent the only ones who act stupid when inebreated.

-LK

[BlondieK143]

47. Okay okay!

I didn't mean every guy! I'm sorry

[LastKnight]

48. ehh im just yankin yer chain... dont worry about it. nt

[Feanorcurufinwe]

49. They are jerks when they're sober, too, they just don't show it. nt

[leftofthedial]

51. I would have answered sooner

but I was busy burping and man, I must have peed for an hour straight.

Whew!

Because deep down, all guys ARE jerks and alcohol is like a magnifying glass for your "personality."

[BlondieK143]

52. I get it already.

I edited the post. I didn't mean ALL guys (though that's what I typed). I just needed to vent and I changed it. I'm sorry.

[leftofthedial]

54. no worries

all us guys ARE jerks in one way or another.

And when we drink, we are loud, obnoxious jerks.

try to forgive us.

[ForrestGump]

56. Ditto for SOME women

I've had enough of the receiving end of this kind of messed-up behavior to not want any more.

People, in general, really.

[SarahB]

57. Been there, done that.

Don't worry. As they get older, they seem to forgo the pissing contests and find entirely new ways to embarrass you or otherwise screw things up.

Moderation please.

[BlondieK143]

58. hahaha!

Glad to know it gets better! :)

[Cheswick2.0]

63. As I once said to my sister..If you are hanging out at bars

you are going to meet people who hang out at bars. She did and now he is on his 4th DUI, in jail for 6 months and she is trying to end the relationship with her daughters father while working on her own alcohol issues.

Hate to get all serious on you. But I will assume you need a big sister and say it to you anyway. :hug:

[BlondieK143]

64. Thank you.

I really appreciate the advice. I wasn't, however, hanging out in a bar. I'm pretty careful with the people I hang out with. This was just a weird situation and it was a phone conversation. Thank you though, seriously. I'm sorry to hear that your sister has chosen the things she has. I really hope it works out for the best! :hug: