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Thom Little (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 05:11 AM Original message |
One-third believe victims of rape are to blame if they were drunk |
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NMMNG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 05:16 AM Response to Original message |
1. Does this mean that robbery victims are to blame if they are drunk? |
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Azathoth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 05:39 AM Response to Reply #1 |
8. Yes to the first part |
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FreedomAngel82 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:28 PM Response to Reply #8 |
327. So I guess |
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rucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:33 AM Response to Reply #1 |
31. hey...nice sig line! |
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Sabriel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:03 PM Response to Reply #1 |
159. Yes, and drivers are just ASKING to be carjacked |
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JesterCS (627 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 05:23 AM Response to Original message |
2. I'm sorry but |
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bluestateguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 05:25 AM Response to Reply #2 |
3. Uh, you do have a flame suit on, right? |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 05:37 AM Response to Reply #3 |
6. He doesn't need a flamesuit, he needs a conscience. |
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JesterCS (627 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:20 AM Response to Reply #6 |
19. it wasn't |
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freeplessinseattle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 08:53 AM Response to Reply #19 |
74. wow, no wonder you're so messed up |
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bumblebee1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:19 PM Response to Reply #19 |
175. Jester, |
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FreedomAngel82 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:35 PM Response to Reply #175 |
333. Exactly |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:22 PM Response to Reply #19 |
178. At 23 you should know better |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:42 PM Response to Reply #19 |
204. and i say you absolutely have a point and i wont pretend |
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FreedomAngel82 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:30 PM Response to Reply #19 |
330. Tell that to a rape victim |
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Nikki Stone 1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 05:32 AM Response to Reply #2 |
4. So if you get drunk and flirtatious and I pick your wallet, spend the cash |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:24 PM Response to Reply #4 |
179. Yup, Nikki -- it's your fault |
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ErisFiveFingers (354 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 05:38 AM Response to Reply #2 |
7. Burquas for everybody! |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:00 AM Response to Reply #2 |
9. Yes, You Are Sorry Indeed |
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JesterCS (627 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:04 AM Response to Reply #2 |
12. add. |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:08 AM Response to Reply #12 |
15. There Aren't Two Sides |
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Behind the Aegis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:09 AM Response to Reply #15 |
16. Point of order... |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:25 AM Response to Reply #16 |
24. Sorry; I Was Thinking of the "Dressed Provocatively" Qualifier |
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Behind the Aegis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:29 AM Response to Reply #24 |
28. I understand. |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:38 AM Response to Reply #28 |
35. I Was Thinking More Along The Lines Of |
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Azathoth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:17 AM Response to Reply #15 |
18. There are different degrees of "rape" |
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JesterCS (627 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:23 AM Response to Reply #18 |
20. I agree |
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Behind the Aegis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:27 AM Response to Reply #20 |
25. You have the rapist to blame! |
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JesterCS (627 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:29 AM Response to Reply #25 |
27. yes obviously :P n/t |
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freeplessinseattle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 08:56 AM Response to Reply #20 |
75. "insinuation" is very different from actual consent! |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 10:24 AM Response to Reply #75 |
96. Of course consent to sex is rarely verbally explicit. |
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FreedomAngel82 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:43 PM Response to Reply #96 |
341. When the rape victim |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 10:28 AM Response to Reply #20 |
98. Fuck you... |
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MissB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:18 PM Response to Reply #98 |
172. What Velma said. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:28 PM Response to Reply #172 |
184. I third that, and request the Mods not to delete her post |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:30 PM Response to Reply #184 |
186. Thanks, but I'm not sure it matters at this point... |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:27 PM Response to Reply #20 |
183. The rapist is to blame |
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Catherine Vincent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:35 PM Response to Reply #20 |
196. I'm speechless |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:28 AM Response to Reply #18 |
26. Wrong. |
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Azathoth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:33 AM Response to Reply #26 |
32. You have much to learn, friend |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:40 AM Response to Reply #32 |
37. Teach Your Grandmother To Suck Eggs First, Child |
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Azathoth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 07:03 AM Response to Reply #37 |
44. Ah, name calling, now we're getting somewhere |
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MarsThe Cat (978 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 08:28 AM Response to Reply #37 |
64. WRONG! |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 09:33 AM Response to Reply #37 |
85. I'd like to live in your fantasy world... |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:04 AM Response to Reply #37 |
111. I have a friend |
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MarsThe Cat (978 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 08:33 AM Response to Reply #26 |
69. in your opinion.. |
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bloom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 10:42 AM Response to Reply #69 |
103. So you're saying that it is "normal" for teenage boys to rape? |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:39 AM Response to Reply #103 |
132. or a young or old man who believes that when they want it |
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MarsThe Cat (978 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:49 PM Response to Reply #103 |
272. in a way, yes- it's in the genetic make-up. |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:51 PM Response to Reply #272 |
275. Hormones are no excuse... |
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MarsThe Cat (978 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:58 PM Response to Reply #275 |
287. natural urges are not deviant. |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:04 PM Response to Reply #287 |
295. I have to disagree... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:11 PM Original message |
Honestly Velma I don't know HOW you can stand this. |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:13 PM Response to Original message |
305. I can't not have the discussion... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:15 PM Response to Reply #305 |
307. I get too #(&*%#$( angry. |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:14 PM Response to Reply #287 |
306. "Rape is a perfectly natural act"? Lovely. eom |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:54 PM Response to Reply #272 |
280. I would claim that is a failure of our society |
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MarsThe Cat (978 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:00 PM Response to Reply #280 |
290. i never said it was permissable. |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:03 PM Response to Reply #290 |
293. rape is how nature works. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:26 PM Response to Reply #290 |
326. God, that is such bulls@t |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:24 PM Response to Reply #272 |
322. That is such a cop out "boys will be boys" statement |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:31 PM Response to Reply #69 |
188. Then that teenage boy is also a deviant predator |
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MarsThe Cat (978 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:54 PM Response to Reply #188 |
281. no, he's not- unless you consider natural urges to be "deviant"... |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:07 PM Response to Reply #281 |
297. Its not the urge that is the deviance... |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:28 PM Response to Reply #281 |
328. Uh, yes he is -- he's a sexual predator and probably has a |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 09:30 AM Response to Reply #26 |
82. Absolutes are ridiculous... |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 10:07 AM Response to Reply #82 |
92. "Feminazi's"? Listen to Limbaugh much? eom |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:44 AM Response to Reply #92 |
133. I was raised by a feminist... |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:47 AM Response to Reply #133 |
137. I call bullshit... |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:52 AM Response to Reply #137 |
140. I meant the use of the word "feminazi" |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:54 AM Response to Reply #140 |
145. Real feminists... |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:55 AM Response to Reply #145 |
147. Are you serious? |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:56 AM Response to Reply #147 |
152. Probably fewer than the number who wonder... |
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Finder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:51 PM Response to Reply #152 |
276. Isn't this against the rules? |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:56 PM Response to Reply #276 |
284. Alert or don't... |
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Finder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:13 PM Response to Reply #284 |
304. I don't like alert.ing..I am one of those anti-censor type progressives... |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:15 PM Response to Reply #304 |
308. I don't generally alert either... |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:33 PM Response to Reply #147 |
195. Velma's statement was NOT "far left extremism" |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:32 PM Response to Reply #145 |
191. Agreed, Velma |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:53 PM Response to Reply #140 |
218. Sounds like you're saying, "I meant no offense, if you |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:22 PM Response to Reply #218 |
321. I'll admit that somewhat yes... |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:29 PM Response to Reply #321 |
329. Blaming others I see... |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:34 PM Response to Reply #329 |
332. How many times over and over again do I have to say I was wrong... |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:37 PM Response to Reply #332 |
336. Spare me... |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:43 PM Response to Reply #336 |
342. I didn't fucking see it... |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:47 PM Response to Reply #342 |
346. My point was that... |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:51 PM Response to Reply #346 |
349. I said the only reason "I exploded" as I did was... |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:56 PM Response to Reply #349 |
353. Actually, I went back and read and I never... |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:03 PM Response to Reply #353 |
357. I discussed this... |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:08 PM Response to Reply #357 |
361. So...you're the one who called... |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:58 PM Response to Reply #349 |
354. I went back and read and I never... |
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Finder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:04 PM Response to Reply #137 |
294. It is called "rhetoric"... |
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Azathoth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 10:47 AM Response to Reply #82 |
105. Welcome to the club (no pun intended) |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 10:53 AM Response to Reply #82 |
106. Oh good lord... |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:47 AM Response to Reply #106 |
136. What amuses me is... |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:48 AM Response to Reply #136 |
138. read my reply to you above... |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:52 AM Response to Reply #138 |
143. lol... |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:38 PM Response to Reply #143 |
201. Good grief, two things:\ |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:45 PM Response to Reply #201 |
209. Okay... before you open your mouth again please read... |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:01 PM Response to Reply #209 |
227. Self delete |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:03 PM Response to Reply #227 |
230. Ouch... |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:51 PM Response to Reply #201 |
216. I appreciate you standing with me... |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:16 PM Response to Reply #216 |
234. I love being a Far Left, Extreme, Extremist, Absolutist Feminazi |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:36 PM Response to Reply #136 |
198. There are plenty of moderates and even conservative Dems on this board |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:37 PM Response to Reply #198 |
199. Its the internet man... |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:41 PM Response to Reply #199 |
202. Why such the nasty reply? |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:48 PM Response to Reply #202 |
213. How was that a nasty response? |
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geek tragedy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 10:58 AM Response to Reply #82 |
109. Feminazis? You know this isn't the Free Republic, right? eom |
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Azathoth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:17 AM Response to Reply #109 |
120. I don't think he was using it in the El Rushbo sense |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:20 AM Response to Reply #120 |
123. That word is a dead giveaway... |
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Azathoth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:25 AM Response to Reply #123 |
125. I'll take your word for it |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:54 AM Response to Reply #123 |
146. You want to act more like a fucking fundie? |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:55 AM Response to Reply #146 |
149. It's almost amusing... |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:58 AM Response to Reply #149 |
155. Okay, so I can be attacked baselessly, but.. |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:01 PM Response to Reply #155 |
157. So you use Rush Limbaugh's favorite gender slur... |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:08 PM Response to Reply #157 |
166. Yeah, I did use it... |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:12 PM Response to Reply #166 |
168. Gee...gender stereotype much... |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:20 PM Response to Reply #168 |
176. That is NOT a gender slur... |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:24 PM Response to Reply #176 |
180. No...I know I'm not a saint... |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:29 PM Response to Reply #180 |
185. I do understand what I stepped into... |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:33 PM Response to Reply #185 |
194. You have a much different perspective on what happened... |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:41 PM Response to Reply #194 |
203. I called you a fundie because... |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:44 PM Response to Reply #203 |
208. I think you're projecting... |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:34 PM Response to Reply #208 |
249. I have never seen it as a right wing slur... |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:49 PM Response to Reply #249 |
273. You just keep telling yourself that... |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:55 PM Response to Reply #273 |
283. Whatever... |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:57 PM Response to Reply #283 |
285. Oh, and be afraid I'll soon be teaching your children... |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:59 PM Response to Reply #283 |
289. Maybe it was the fact... |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:03 PM Response to Reply #289 |
292. I was wrong to do so, but it was in response to being called a right ... |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:08 PM Response to Reply #292 |
299. And I can't say... |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:11 PM Response to Reply #299 |
303. I'm far too lazy to spell check... |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:45 PM Response to Reply #166 |
211. There is NO such thing as a "feminazi" |
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geek tragedy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:14 PM Response to Reply #166 |
233. So you used the word "feminazi" because you knew it would |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:43 PM Response to Reply #155 |
207. Don't tell us to "fuck off" |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:43 PM Response to Reply #149 |
205. And saying "far left" and "extreme," and saying WE'RE all wrong |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:49 AM Response to Reply #120 |
139. Exactly... |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:52 AM Response to Reply #139 |
142. Yeah...'cause far left "whackjobs" are the real problem... |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:56 AM Response to Reply #142 |
151. Wow... what a suprise. |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:58 AM Response to Reply #151 |
154. You know what... |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:05 PM Response to Reply #154 |
160. I never once blamed women... + more. |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:08 PM Response to Reply #160 |
164. One last time... |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:12 PM Response to Reply #164 |
167. Oh, thats fine, we can disagree there... |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:14 PM Response to Reply #167 |
170. How exactly were you mocking the right? |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:17 PM Response to Reply #170 |
171. Who says a feminist has to be a woman? |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:18 PM Response to Reply #171 |
174. Oh good grief... |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:21 PM Response to Reply #174 |
177. Rush didn't use the term... I did. |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:25 PM Response to Reply #177 |
182. If you really want to distinguish yourself... |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:30 PM Response to Reply #182 |
187. Naw, I'd rather be able to be my own person... |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:50 PM Response to Reply #160 |
214. MAN, you use extreme or extremist in every post |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:53 PM Response to Reply #214 |
219. Heeeeeee... |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:32 PM Response to Reply #82 |
190. The hell with your" femnazis" -- go listen to Rush |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:33 PM Response to Reply #190 |
192. lol... |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:35 PM Response to Reply #192 |
197. You're digging yourself in deeper... |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:59 PM Response to Reply #197 |
225. Velma, you're either for him or against him! |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:38 PM Response to Reply #197 |
254. Hey, she called for the mods to step in... |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:52 PM Response to Reply #192 |
217. tsk tsk tsk... now you called VelmaD and myself Feminazis |
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MsTryska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:45 PM Response to Reply #192 |
344. I got your meaning too..... |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:54 PM Response to Reply #344 |
350. THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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MsTryska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:06 PM Response to Reply #350 |
359. *lol* you should have been around to see the |
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Azathoth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:14 PM Response to Reply #350 |
363. Dude, you really stirred up a shitstorm |
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ieoeja (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:15 PM Response to Reply #192 |
364. Add one-half to both sides. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:51 PM Response to Reply #82 |
215. "feminazi's"--sounds like Rush Limbaugh. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:53 PM Response to Reply #82 |
221. "irks my ire "? that's like saying, "It annoys my anger." nt |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:39 PM Response to Reply #221 |
257. cliches can be fun :-D |
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MarsThe Cat (978 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:05 PM Response to Reply #82 |
296. EXACTLY. |
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PerpetualWinter (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:08 PM Response to Reply #296 |
298. However, most involved are... |
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Finder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:20 PM Response to Reply #18 |
317. But...prosecutors know that. |
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Judi Lynn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 07:07 AM Response to Reply #15 |
45. Truly! How hard can it be to understand? You really have to wonder. n/t |
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MarsThe Cat (978 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 08:31 AM Response to Reply #15 |
65. not always |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:53 PM Response to Reply #65 |
220. Rape is a crime of control and violence - Always |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:00 PM Response to Reply #65 |
291. until druken date-rapist is told NO under no uncertain terms |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:43 PM Response to Reply #15 |
206. interesting point |
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Hosnon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:21 PM Response to Reply #15 |
238. It is the mark of an educated man (woman) to be able to entertain |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:50 PM Response to Reply #238 |
274. sadly in these conversations the other side almost exclusively means |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 08:20 AM Response to Reply #12 |
62. You are blaming the victim |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:36 AM Response to Reply #12 |
130. This is why rape is such an under-reported crime |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:24 PM Response to Reply #12 |
181. Two sides? Are you frigging insane??? |
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stanwyck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:33 PM Response to Reply #12 |
193. Do you also see both sides |
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MercutioATC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:07 AM Response to Reply #2 |
13. If I understand you correctly... |
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JesterCS (627 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:13 AM Response to Reply #13 |
17. Yes |
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tkmorris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:30 AM Response to Reply #13 |
29. Bingo |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:45 AM Response to Reply #13 |
134. wonder how many instances of accused rape have nothing to do |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:02 PM Response to Reply #134 |
228. Exactly. Some posters here seem to be focusing exclusively |
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Behind the Aegis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:08 AM Response to Reply #2 |
14. Apologist, of sorts |
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Boomer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:35 AM Response to Reply #14 |
33. And no one should be poor or hungry either |
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Behind the Aegis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:47 AM Response to Reply #33 |
40. Therefore... |
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Boomer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 07:33 AM Response to Reply #40 |
50. You're confusing idealism with reality |
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Silverhair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 08:52 AM Response to Reply #50 |
73. Outstanding set of posts. |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:13 AM Response to Reply #50 |
118. I think that Boomer |
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Azathoth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 07:45 AM Response to Reply #40 |
53. Your example is an interesting dichotomy, but a truism none the less |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:11 PM Response to Reply #53 |
362. a false dichtomy nonetheless |
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Azathoth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:20 PM Response to Reply #362 |
366. Interesting, isn't it? |
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ayeshahaqqiqa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 07:49 AM Response to Reply #33 |
55. but there should also be a price paid by drunken frat boys |
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muriel_volestrangler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 08:10 AM Response to Reply #33 |
59. "Probably going to end up in a gang bang"? |
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TomClash (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:24 AM Response to Reply #2 |
22. When men get in bar fights . . . |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:12 AM Response to Reply #2 |
116. I don't think you understand what rape is |
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dogday (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:26 AM Response to Reply #2 |
126. You know male rape is up in this country |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:32 AM Response to Reply #126 |
129. Oh that one is easy... |
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Greyhound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:00 PM Response to Reply #2 |
156. OMFG! What century is it? What country am I in? |
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Ravenseye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:08 PM Response to Reply #2 |
165. I understand what you're saying |
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stanwyck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:31 PM Response to Reply #2 |
189. Keep yourself safe from rape? |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:45 PM Response to Reply #2 |
210. "Being a flirt" is very subjective. |
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maximovich (407 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:26 PM Response to Reply #2 |
241. The Taliban Agrees with You |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:47 PM Response to Reply #2 |
270. I will speak up as a former rape victim. |
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ErisFiveFingers (354 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 05:33 AM Response to Original message |
5. Whiskey... Tango... Foxtrot!?! |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:03 AM Response to Reply #5 |
10. Deleted message |
freeplessinseattle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 09:01 AM Response to Reply #10 |
77. you just gave yourself away n/t |
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geek tragedy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 09:06 AM Response to Reply #10 |
80. Bye bye. Have fun wanking to pictures of Ann Coulter, Freeptard. eom |
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Hong Kong Cavalier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 09:39 AM Response to Reply #10 |
88. Feminazi's? Interesting... |
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Behind the Aegis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:03 AM Response to Reply #5 |
11. Question for you. |
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Moosepoop (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:46 AM Response to Reply #11 |
39. Aegis, you nailed it. |
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JesterCS (627 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:48 AM Response to Reply #39 |
41. I Apologize |
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Behind the Aegis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 07:08 AM Response to Reply #39 |
46. Thank you for sharing!! |
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Moosepoop (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 08:33 AM Response to Reply #46 |
68. Thank you for your story, too!!! |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:05 PM Response to Reply #46 |
358. Ugh per his comment |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:17 AM Response to Reply #39 |
121. Moose... |
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ErisFiveFingers (354 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:57 AM Response to Reply #11 |
43. Good questions! |
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Behind the Aegis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 07:32 AM Response to Reply #43 |
49. Whew! |
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ErisFiveFingers (354 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 08:10 AM Response to Reply #49 |
58. Assume good faith (it's an old school thing)... |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 08:46 AM Response to Reply #5 |
72. "In my book, a partner has to say *yes*. " - BRAVO!!!!!!! |
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tkmorris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:23 AM Response to Original message |
21. Another case of people talking past each other. |
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JesterCS (627 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:25 AM Response to Reply #21 |
23. tkmorris gets the point across |
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jmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 07:53 AM Response to Reply #21 |
56. If that was the case they why did |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:52 AM Response to Reply #21 |
141. Sadly were women to avoid all aspects of risk |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:55 PM Response to Reply #141 |
223. Best post of the thread |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:26 PM Response to Reply #223 |
242. perhaps they would like us to bring back chastity belts? |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:18 PM Response to Reply #141 |
236. Great post. |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:22 PM Original message |
They know that if they muddy the waters enough... |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:29 PM Response to Reply #236 |
246. I would love a discussion that focused on what attitudes spawn the action |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:35 PM Response to Reply #141 |
250. "Why is it always about what the victims do... |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:43 PM Response to Reply #250 |
262. certainly a lot of evidence to that point on this thread |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:36 PM Response to Reply #141 |
251. But this is true of risk for all crimes and other bad outcomes. |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:45 PM Response to Reply #251 |
267. read this thread and tell me it is condemned, there is evidence here |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:54 PM Response to Reply #267 |
279. I have not seen a single post in this thread CONDONING rape. |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:58 PM Response to Reply #279 |
286. adolescent boys with hormones will be boys... its nature |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:17 PM Response to Reply #286 |
311. I never saw that either. Some boys will do vile things - they will |
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Clintmax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:32 AM Response to Original message |
30. And they are wrong. |
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tkmorris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:35 AM Response to Reply #30 |
34. Again, that isn't what they are saying |
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Clintmax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:38 AM Response to Reply #34 |
36. Oh, ok... |
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Boomer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:43 AM Response to Reply #30 |
38. Nobody deserves to be murdered either |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 06:50 AM Response to Reply #38 |
42. that's a pretty sad commentary on men |
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Boomer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 07:49 AM Response to Reply #42 |
54. Even dolphins have gang bangs |
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BuelahWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 08:06 AM Response to Reply #54 |
57. Aren't we supposed to be higher up on the food chain |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:41 PM Response to Reply #57 |
260. "Boys will be boys" |
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geek tragedy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 09:04 AM Response to Reply #54 |
78. You mean "gang rapes" right? "Gang bangs" is a pornographic |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:08 PM Response to Reply #78 |
232. I was just going to say |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:22 PM Response to Reply #54 |
239. You made some good points there. |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:54 AM Response to Reply #38 |
144. Why the assumption that women who are raped put themselves at risk? |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:07 PM Response to Reply #144 |
360. it's the drunken, provacatively dressed stereotype |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:20 PM Response to Reply #360 |
367. in Elvis's words... "I'm not Angry... anymore" |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 07:11 AM Response to Original message |
47. What utter horseshit. |
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Bridget Burke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 07:29 AM Response to Reply #47 |
48. Judging by some of the answers here at DU.... |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 08:27 AM Response to Reply #47 |
63. absolutely |
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Azathoth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 08:32 AM Response to Reply #63 |
67. That's disingenuous |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 07:38 AM Response to Original message |
51. Those must be the same people that think Junior is doing a good |
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ayeshahaqqiqa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 07:42 AM Response to Original message |
52. same old same old |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 08:14 AM Response to Original message |
60. And This Is Why It's So Hard For Victims |
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Judi Lynn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 08:18 AM Response to Original message |
61. What is anyone to make of the reports of sexual assaults on nuns? |
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thebigidea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 08:32 AM Response to Original message |
66. its the same idiot third that's protorture and needs a lobotomy |
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jmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 08:39 AM Response to Original message |
70. Most people who were raped know their rapist. |
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bicentennial_baby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 08:41 AM Response to Reply #70 |
71. Yes! and Hi! |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:45 PM Response to Reply #70 |
268. Best post in the thread! |
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geek tragedy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 08:56 AM Response to Original message |
76. Poorly phrased question, to be honest. |
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Tierra_y_Libertad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 09:05 AM Response to Original message |
79. Until it happens to them. |
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laureloak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 09:29 AM Response to Original message |
81. No woman should be considered fair game for rapists |
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Azathoth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 09:33 AM Response to Reply #81 |
84. Now there's an interesting scenario |
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laureloak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 09:36 AM Response to Reply #84 |
86. The rapist is TOTALLY responsible. Period. n/t |
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Azathoth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 09:39 AM Response to Reply #86 |
87. Really? I don't think too many people would agree with you |
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laureloak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 09:51 AM Response to Reply #87 |
89. Who is responsible for the crime - the rapist. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 09:56 AM Response to Reply #89 |
90. But who is responsible for managing their own risk? |
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laureloak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 10:15 AM Response to Reply #90 |
94. Whether or not I leave a car door open doesn't matter. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 10:19 AM Response to Reply #94 |
95. Your lack of legal responsibility will not comfort you much if your car |
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laureloak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 10:30 AM Response to Reply #95 |
99. If you agree that the thief is 100% responsible that's all that |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 10:35 AM Response to Reply #99 |
101. The thief is 100% LEGALLY responsible. But you are responsible for your |
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laureloak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 10:46 AM Response to Reply #101 |
104. We agree. |
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Azathoth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 10:11 AM Response to Reply #89 |
93. I think you hit the real issue |
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laureloak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:44 PM Response to Reply #93 |
382. There are bad parents out there and we can't pick the ones |
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bloom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 10:58 AM Response to Reply #87 |
108. The rapist is the only one responsible for the rape. |
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Azathoth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:12 AM Response to Reply #108 |
117. Who said the frat boys would be off the hook? |
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bloom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:30 AM Response to Reply #117 |
128. Seems to me you have repeatedly tried to assess blame on others than the |
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Azathoth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:36 AM Response to Reply #128 |
131. Then perhaps you should read my posts a little more carefully |
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bloom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:45 AM Response to Reply #131 |
135. You don't get it |
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Azathoth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:57 AM Response to Reply #135 |
153. Oh come on |
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bloom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:05 PM Response to Reply #153 |
162. And I'm saying that if we want to live in a civil society |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:59 PM Response to Reply #153 |
226. do you want your daughter to live in a world like that? |
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Azathoth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:20 PM Response to Reply #226 |
237. I don't see her world changing anytime soon |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:34 PM Response to Reply #237 |
248. my first thought would be: another asshole raped a woman |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:38 PM Response to Reply #248 |
256. You can't control someone's decision to rape. But you can control |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:55 PM Response to Reply #256 |
282. someone breaks into your house and rapes you |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:37 PM Response to Reply #282 |
335. Again, WHO ever said you could ELIMINATE risk? |
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Azathoth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:47 PM Response to Reply #248 |
271. You're missing the point |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:58 PM Response to Reply #271 |
288. of course she has responsbility...that has nothing to do with the crime |
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Azathoth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:21 PM Original message |
Pathology is a completely different matter |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:45 PM Response to Original message |
343. that's your judgement |
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Azathoth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:54 PM Response to Reply #343 |
389. Obviously, it's your judgement as well |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:29 PM Response to Reply #226 |
245. Both need to happen. |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:37 PM Response to Reply #245 |
253. fuck caution |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:39 PM Response to Reply #253 |
258. Why does fighting negate the need for caution? |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:47 PM Response to Reply #258 |
269. perhaps not |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:52 PM Response to Reply #269 |
277. My daughters don't get a message of fear. |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:11 PM Response to Reply #277 |
302. the bad people |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:19 PM Response to Reply #302 |
314. Of course. But I want my kids to have EVERY tool they need, |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:21 PM Response to Reply #314 |
320. i hear you |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:55 PM Response to Reply #108 |
222. THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!! |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:56 AM Response to Reply #84 |
150. Yes, the parents of the boys who instilled in them that it is okay |
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Azathoth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:14 PM Response to Reply #150 |
169. Well, that was a neat dodge of my question |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:18 PM Response to Reply #169 |
235. you seem to be arguing out of both sides of your mouth |
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Azathoth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:25 PM Response to Reply #235 |
240. There's a term in civil law known as "comparative negligence" |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:28 PM Response to Reply #240 |
244. So basically you are saying... |
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Azathoth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:37 PM Response to Reply #244 |
252. Oh give me a break |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:43 PM Response to Reply #252 |
263. You're the one who said you had little sympathy... |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:42 PM Response to Reply #240 |
261. your sympathy is not the issue |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:41 PM Response to Reply #169 |
259. Your dodge of putting any responsibility on the frat boys |
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Azathoth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:08 PM Response to Reply #259 |
300. Your post doesn't really apply to anything I've said |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:18 PM Response to Reply #300 |
312. You just summed up why a lot of women are so mad... |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:30 PM Response to Reply #312 |
370. bingo |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:34 PM Response to Reply #370 |
372. It is so nice for once... |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:39 PM Response to Reply #372 |
374. we disagreed? |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:43 PM Response to Reply #374 |
380. We did... |
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Freddie Stubbs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:38 PM Response to Reply #81 |
255. Of course it isn't ok to rape anyone |
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PaulaFarrell (840 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 09:31 AM Response to Original message |
83. IN the sense that a bicyclist riding down a busy road is responsible |
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truebrit71 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 09:58 AM Response to Original message |
91. Isn't it funny how no-one seems to think the same about men.... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 10:24 AM Response to Original message |
97. there is a difference betweeen owning what i have created and |
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noonwitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 10:30 AM Response to Original message |
100. Rape is more likely to happen when the victim is drunk |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 10:37 AM Response to Reply #100 |
102. Indeed. Being drunk increases the riisk of all sorts of bad outcomes. |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 10:56 AM Response to Reply #100 |
107. So no more alcohol for you wimmen folk! eom |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 10:59 AM Response to Reply #107 |
110. Yup...no lives for us... |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:08 AM Response to Reply #110 |
112. It's not an issue for women only. Anyone who is drunk is more likely to |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:19 AM Response to Reply #112 |
122. You still don't seem to get it... |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:55 AM Response to Reply #122 |
148. But I do get it. I don't see why you think I don't know that |
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noonwitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:06 PM Response to Reply #122 |
163. You can minimize your risk of being raped |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:02 PM Response to Reply #163 |
229. even the most "careful" people can be attacked |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:30 PM Response to Reply #229 |
247. That's why caution MINIMIZES the risk - no one said it eliminates |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:15 PM Response to Reply #247 |
309. i think that's a nice fantasy |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:21 PM Response to Reply #309 |
319. What's fantasy? That we can make choices that minimize risk? |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:25 PM Response to Reply #319 |
324. yes, in a way... |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:30 PM Response to Reply #324 |
331. I'm sorry, but I'm not helpless to impact my life and neither |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:36 PM Response to Reply #331 |
334. we don't disagree...really |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:39 PM Response to Reply #334 |
338. No problem. I think it's common, especiaslly on hot button issues, |
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Moosepoop (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:09 AM Response to Reply #110 |
114. "I suppose we'll all just have to lay there and think of England." ROFL!!! |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:03 PM Response to Reply #100 |
158. I was raped in the 80s, in college |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:20 PM Response to Reply #158 |
316. it is a very sad commentary |
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Akoto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:09 AM Response to Original message |
113. Rape is rape, drunk or not. Having said that ... |
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0007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:11 AM Response to Original message |
115. Pure ignorance! Never an excuse for rape. |
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bloom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:15 AM Response to Original message |
119. RE: One-third believe victims of rape are to blame if they were drunk |
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bonzotex (740 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:24 AM Response to Original message |
124. 1/3rd of Americans think Bush is doing a great job |
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bloom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 11:28 AM Response to Reply #124 |
127. Just like of those Bush* supporters who justify torture... |
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Up2Late (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:38 PM Response to Reply #124 |
200. Exactly, this 1/3rd is, most likly, the same 1/3 who think * is Great, and |
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MissB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:05 PM Response to Original message |
161. No means no. |
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rniel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:18 PM Response to Original message |
173. Polls like this scare me |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:47 PM Response to Original message |
212. blaming the victim...a self defense mechanism |
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kalibex (189 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 12:56 PM Response to Original message |
224. Why is rape treated as something that just 'happens' to women? |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:05 PM Response to Reply #224 |
231. rapists are let off the hook |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:26 PM Response to Reply #224 |
243. Because like any other crime, criminals choose to act but we |
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Sparkly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:20 PM Response to Reply #243 |
315. It doesn't mean the victim is "to blame," in any part or to any extent. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:48 PM Response to Reply #315 |
348. Yes, the blame is with the perpetrator. |
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Sparkly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:55 PM Response to Reply #348 |
352. The poll in the OP says "blame" and "responsible." |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:19 PM Response to Reply #348 |
365. Here is the problem with this logic per rape. |
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kalibex (189 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:41 PM Response to Reply #348 |
378. Could the thief have chosen not to break in and go for the radio? |
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Fescue4u (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:43 PM Response to Original message |
264. Being Drunk certainly makes one more likely to be raped |
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LincolnMcGrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:43 PM Response to Original message |
265. Stupid poll |
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maximovich (407 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:45 PM Response to Original message |
266. Sick.... Only a Rapist Could Justify This |
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madmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:41 PM Response to Reply #266 |
339. What about this? |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:54 PM Response to Reply #266 |
351. rape victim here - and am about as offended/angry |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 01:53 PM Response to Original message |
278. What disgusting responses. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:21 PM Response to Reply #278 |
318. You said it, Redqueen |
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mongo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:09 PM Response to Original message |
301. Very sad statistics |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:16 PM Response to Original message |
310. The blame the victim syndrome. |
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Shakespeare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:19 PM Response to Original message |
313. This thread is disgusting. |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:25 PM Response to Reply #313 |
325. you're smarter than I am.... |
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Shakespeare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:47 PM Response to Reply #325 |
345. The only reason I'm not surprised.... |
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FreedomAngel82 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:24 PM Response to Original message |
323. So I guess |
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Silent3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:37 PM Response to Original message |
337. Whenever sex is involved... |
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usregimechange (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:42 PM Response to Original message |
340. i.e. Republicans! |
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Ladyhawk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 02:48 PM Response to Original message |
347. Hmmm...that's about what *'s approval rating is. Coincidence? :) n/t |
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Ron Green (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:00 PM Response to Original message |
355. There's a problem with logic in some of these posts: |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:35 PM Response to Reply #355 |
373. who here says that drunk consensual sex is rape? |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:03 PM Response to Original message |
356. But if it was a Sister? Wife? Mother? |
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Silent3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:28 PM Response to Reply #356 |
369. Suppose it's your 19 year old son... |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:31 PM Response to Reply #369 |
371. I am so tired of the same old crap |
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Silent3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:45 PM Response to Reply #371 |
383. You keep saying rapist this, rapist that... |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:53 PM Response to Reply #383 |
388. rape is non-consensual sex |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:56 PM Response to Reply #383 |
391. What I regret... |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:39 PM Response to Reply #369 |
375. what we are talking about is also impaired judgement and men |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:43 PM Response to Reply #375 |
381. AMEN!! |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:40 PM Response to Reply #369 |
377. frankly, with or without alcohol, I would guess that many mothers would |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:52 PM Response to Reply #377 |
387. I hope you know... |
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Marr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:26 PM Response to Original message |
368. Interesting. Bush has a 1/3 approval rating, too. |
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Spinoza (766 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:39 PM Response to Original message |
376. The rape victim can, in some circumstances, |
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MissB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:49 PM Response to Reply #376 |
384. Niiice. |
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kalibex (189 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:51 PM Response to Reply #376 |
385. It's long past the time that the onus was all on us. |
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Exiled in America (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:56 PM Response to Reply #376 |
390. That's not "responsibility" |
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Exiled in America (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:41 PM Response to Original message |
379. Horrible, but sadly unsuprising - I run into this attituded often. |
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Exiled in America (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:51 PM Response to Original message |
386. WOW - I am now dumber for having read this thread. |
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Gold Metal Flake (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-21-05 03:59 PM Response to Original message |
392. Locking |
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