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Sannum Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-04-05 02:56 AM
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I can't believe that people are still so uneducated about birth control!
Edited on Sat Jun-04-05 02:58 AM by Sannum
I talked to my friend today. Keep in mind that this is an intelligent, well educated gal. She called in a panic this morning because she had no idea where to go because she thought that she could be pregnant because of an "accident". She had no idea what Planned Parenthood or even that the Morning After Pill existed. It was one of those situations where the girl thinks "I can't get pregnant if...". Anyway, she found PP got the M.O.P, and now hopefully everything will be fine.

There needs to be education about Birth Control. I don't know why the same people who are anti abortion are against the very thing and education that could help stop un-wanted pregnancies before they happen. I was taught about my body and sex/birth control. I did not run out and try it immediately. I was more responsible because I was educated about the risks. To assume that you cannot get pregnant because your boyfriend just smoked a joint is dangerous and just plain stupid.

The fundies and fristians are truly ruining everything in this country. I would be suprised if anyone can even get birth control in five years.
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queeg Donating Member (529 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-04-05 03:01 AM
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1. Then Do something about it
This is one of the most important reasons that I am a Democrat(realist).

The complete absolute Re-thug BS boils down to one important point, and that is, is the government in control of your body and well being, or are you. If you are un-Empowered then they get to control you.
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Sannum Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-04-05 03:06 AM
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4. I just assumed that she would know the risks/solutions.
This is not some naive little girl.

I am proud to support organizations like Emily's List and Planned Parenthood. I will fight for my right to control my own body until I am the last one standing. So many women my age don't know what is happening or just don't care. I find that sad.

I am just disapointed that there is such LITTLE education out there. The Democrats are doing NOTHING to support women's rights.
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queeg Donating Member (529 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-04-05 03:19 AM
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6. NOBODY IS
Edited on Sat Jun-04-05 03:24 AM by queeg
until more women like you get that lightning stroke to the back of the head, there are going to be a lot more like you just described.

I am a 40 year old white male, with a wife that has had an abortion a long time ago because we were stupid, and a 9 year old daughter who I refuse to let be stupid. Although I am decidedly wrapped around her little finger, she knows that I am there for her without question, and I will never lie, BS, or fail to inform her of the realities of life.

I have sent money to NARAL for 25 years, and will Keep them in dough til the day I die.

Who is the Margret Sanger for this generation?

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cap Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-04-05 03:03 AM
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2. abstinence only education will do that to you...
If no one told her about the workings of her body and how to control pregnancy and the after effects, this wil happen.
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Bark Bark Bark Donating Member (572 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-04-05 03:05 AM
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3. It IS astounding, isn't it?
Anybody who's having sex should know everything there is to know about "protection," whether they're in a monogamous relationship or not. NOT knowing is like driving a semi truck after learning how to turn the key in the ignition, push down the gas pedal, and roll down the window; you're missing vital information.

"What's the other pedal do?"
"You don't need to know that right now. Just sign this form declaring that I've taught you how to drive, and get rolling!"

I used to shake my head and wonder how, even in the 21st century, people in some countries could be so ignorant about contraception and STDs. Now, I don't even have to look in the world news for that sort of shock--because people HERE get more info about the subject from FOX or UPN than anywhere else...
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Jamastiene Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-04-05 03:10 AM
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5. I have gotten into some heated arguments
about this very topic. I agree with your assessment of the situation. If they teach about birth control AND safe sex, both unwanted pregnancies and std's could be almost eliminated. End of story. Simple as that.
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queeg Donating Member (529 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-04-05 03:23 AM
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7. Amazingly enough when you are having fun you forget.
Re-Thugs have forgotten one of the most important things about being human----SEX IS FUN---

That's it---SEX IS FUN---

Somehow the belief that sex is a duty has permeated the Re-thug mentality, and they forget that sometimes you forget to be safe when you are having fun. ---I weep for them.
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NMMNG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-04-05 04:26 AM
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9. Rethugs haven't forgotten sex is fun
They know sex is fun, but they wan't people to believe that having sex for fun is evil. They want people to believe that having sex for procreation is the only valid reason to have sex. Just look at their arguments against gays..."Gays cannot procreate. They can only use each others bodies for sexual pleasure!". They preach against birth control for the very same reason...that it frees women to enjoy sex with less fear of becoming pregnant.

They know sex is fun, but they want to destroy that, much as they want to destroy much of what is fun in life.

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TorchTheWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-05-05 02:23 AM
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12. not quite
They know sex is fun, but they want to destroy that, much as they want to destroy much of what is fun in life.

They want to destroy the fun factor only for OTHER people... ain't no way they're willing to lose out on that fun for themselves. Either that or because they AREN'T having fun with it themselves because they can't get any or have too much psychological baggage to be able to enjoy it, they don't want anyone else to be able to enjoy it... it's either "You can't have fun, but I can" or "You can't have fun because I can't".
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-04-05 03:24 AM
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8. I believe that has been their agenda all along!
GRRR
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no_hypocrisy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-04-05 07:32 AM
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10. In 1975 the boy's gym teacher taught us REAL sex ed in the public schools.
Edited on Sat Jun-04-05 07:35 AM by no_hypocrisy
In our gender-mixed class in high school, he played for keeps. Made us take tests that included at least 5-6 types of birth control (what they were, how they worked, and their failure rate). He also made us label the male and female reproductive systems in detail such as ca. 4 parts of a sperm.

And speaking of failure rate, our teacher didn't hesitate to fail people who couldn't pass this course. He told us that this was probably the most important course we would ever take and he didn't want any of us to get a venereal disease or get pregnant by accident.

I am forever grateful to him. However, I also feel sadness knowing that my experience was more of an aberation than a universal education that all young people are entitled to. Kids today have access to more information than in my time (i.e., Our Bodies Our Selves) but they know less about birth control.
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bumblebee1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-05-05 01:12 AM
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11. In my senior year of high school,
we had speakers come into the classroom and spoke about rape and birth control. I remember taking home a permission slip before the birth control lesson. When I handed it to my older sister, she asked what it was. When I told her what it was for, she had no trouble giving her permission. Her attitude at the time was that Planned Parenthood could teach me more about birth control that she could.
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Solar Donating Member (261 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-05-05 02:53 AM
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13. Heres the funny/horrible part
Many fundies believe the morning after pill is a form of abortion too. Since they say that life begins right at soon as the egg is fertilized, anything after that is the same, be it the pill or an abortion.

Its so stupid, you laugh until you start crying after truly realizing how utterly stupid it is.
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